Arnav and Khushi Love Each Other.. But Why?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Time and again... we have seen the forum go ablaze with anti Arnav and anti Khushi sentiments resulting from the treatment episodes receive!!
I as a viewer have always been unbias to both... I dont hold a soft corner for either.. but see them as the characters that breathe life in the story of IPK.. so I like to objectively view and analyse what I see..

For me, Arnav was initially exasperated with Khushi as she with him... he disliked her for daring to speak back and challenge him and she hated him for his arrogance and disrespectful behaviour.

Somewhere along the time...her challenging behaviour became the thing that started getting him attracted to her.. and this along the line turned into a physical attraction as well! They portrayed this as best as they could on indian tv through the diwali almost kiss!!

While Arnav felt torn between disliking her and being attracted to her and hating himself for loosing control... Khushi was baffled by his sometime hot and some time cold behaviour.
But somewhere along the time she figured that he wasnt as bad as he tried to be which was a big deal for her who only liked to surround herself in the company of good people.

Arnav acknowledged his attraction and the possibility of something more when he worried about her, was rendered jealous of NK giving her attention but before he could act upon it the terrace misunderstanding happened and he went into believing that she was a vixen trying to ruin his sister's life.
Khushi on the other hand was pleasantly surprised with his change of behaviour but was always on guard (experience is a big teacher) due to the possibility of a hot and cold act again which she saw when he brutally demanded she marry him without an explanation and left her to deal with the family's wrath.

Doors of feelings once opened are difficult to lock away.. which is why time and again during the contract wedding... Arnav found it difficult to deal with her tears when he hurt her deliberately. But then the sudden kidnapping track happened and on facing the possibility of death he confessed his love over a call. His absence and fear of losing him made her realized that she has failed to hate him despite all and her longing for him was actually love. (This is where the screw up for me sort of began)

Arnav was saved.. truth was told.. and the story moved!! Ever since we know they love each other and through the remarriage we have seen the love grow in trust, in expression, in fear of loosing each other!

But I still dont know what is it that made these two totally opposite characters fall in love with each other! Yes Arnav admires her selflessness, her passion to help other etc etc.. but so does NK! Those are admirable qualities one sees in a person.. but what about Khushi made him fall head over heels in love with her and share his deep dark fears and secrets with her?

And Khushi... she understands him, his anger, his non conformity, respects his need for space but he is still Laad Governor.. the guy she once hated.. the one who put her through hell...what made her fall in love with him? A love so deep that she stands up against her family for him when he make fun, a love so true that her faith in him never wavered once that he will keep his promise?


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Divine Intervention 😉

Without it, this couple is not possible in real life 😆

But it seems like DM is on Vacation 😕

and kyun nah ho , Navraatri jo chaalu hain 🥳
Edited by -sanika- - 12 years ago
Posted: 12 years ago
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One thing which made them fall in love is their care for each other.
They were always opposite each other and fighting.
And as people say (and really happens), opposites attract

Both are poles apart from each other yet they are attracted to each other. I think this is because they are different.

See, NK and Khushi are the same... But if they got married, it would have been boring as they couldn't have explored new things and characteristics abt each other as they are.. the same!

Arnav and Khushi are completely different and they get to know different aspects of each other, which makes their life with each other interesting.

Some might say NK and Khushi are perfect for each other.
But relationships can't be perfect... There has to be small fights in a relationship for it to mature and progress.

Just two words are enough... Opposites attract 😊



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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ipkknd_ArHi

One thing which made them fall in love is their care for each other.

They were always opposite each other and fighting.
And as people say (and really happens), opposites attract

Both are poles apart from each other yet they are attracted to each other. I think this is because they are different.

See, NK and Khushi are the same... But if they got married, it would have been boring as they couldn't have explored new things and characteristics abt each other as they are.. the same!

Arnav and Khushi are completely different and they get to know different aspects of each other, which makes their life with each other interesting.

Some might say NK and Khushi are perfect for each other.
But relationships can't be perfect... There has to be small fights in a relationship for it to mature and progress.

Just two words are enough... Opposites attract 😊




Hey I totally am for Arnav and Khushi and I get that opposites attract and stuff!!

But somewhere if I were to think what makes each of them loves each other unconditionally that ever surpasses their personality and lifestyle differences.. I dont have a concrete answe.. cause CVs never really explored that!

I always knew their was strong physical attraction, especially from Arnav's side.. which seems to have fizzled out post wedding.. so that whole reaction towards no chemistry!!

Hearing his response to Arnav's comments about Khushi yesterday.. I kept wondering then why do you love her? What is it that you love soo much about her?

So the post! 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think the common link for their understanding for each other is they both are orphans. That's the reason for the depth of their love for each other. He opened up to her only because he knows that only she can understand as she has gone through this herself.

Remember, the time her babu her babuji was ill? How she broke down in front of him?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rabid52

I think the common link for their understanding for each other is they both are orphans. That's the reason for the depth of their love for each other. He opened up to her only because he knows that only she can understand as she has gone through this herself.


Remember, the time her babu her babuji was ill? How she broke down in front of him?



Again thats understanding each other pain and being able to share... Can that be alone the bases for unconditional deep rooted love??

There glaring dissimilarities are soo many... that a love that has to over come it all need to have more I feel!!

Hey I dont expect an answer from anyone 😊 I just feel the show hasnt really tackled this question yet..


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Posted: 12 years ago
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pyaar naap tol ke nahin hota bas ho jaataa hai. it is actually difficult to know why youove someone, you dont do any maths or any logic it just happens.m married and it was love marraige ...we just fell in love though our likes dislikes interests are all different.love just happens this is all i can say.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aina123

pyaar naap tol ke nahin hota bas ho jaataa hai. it is actually difficult to know why youove someone, you dont do any maths or any logic it just happens.m married and it was love marraige ...we just fell in love though our likes dislikes interests are all different.love just happens this is all i can say.



Well I will disagreee here.. Love happens is true... but why it happens or how it happened is not unknown!!

When you ask someone what is it about someone that made you fall in love... one should have an answer... at least most people do!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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that's a feeling they have for each other :D
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I like your post it's dwelling into the true essence of this show which really hasn't been explored. But personally I feel it doesn't need to be and it's not just because I believe in fairies and castles in te sky an all because I don't. But with them and I personally believe it is the same for everyone as it has been so famously quoted time and time again, there does not need to be a reason to be in love with someone, it just happens, just like that, with no explanation or cause. And it would be difficult to pin-point exactly when, how and why it happened.

If I look into my own relationship, I don't think I could trace my way back down the line to where we started off and point to a specific factor in my boyfriend and be like oh hey that there, that quality in him is what got me started and I don't think he could either. I could say his honesty, his thoughtfulness etc. etc. but then wouldn't those qualities be the same things someone else would be attracted to as well? I guess it's one of those things, when you fall in love and you fall head over heels there is no reason behind it. It's more of a layering of a person, how much you get to know about them and what you feel about each and every single one of those layers.

He hates her at first because she stands for everything that he stands against (god, happiness, marriage etc.). She hates him because he's just an arrogant twat. For him he begins to become attracted to her for the exact same reasons that he at first hated her for and she begins to become attracted to him because she finds out that he in fact does have a golden heart. I don't think the CVs could have looked into it anymore than that because to give a reason for their love for each other would break the true essence of true love.

If you look closely though it is the layering of their characters throughout the course of their story that explains why they love each other so much. What makes them one is however their understanding for each other, the fact that even with his cold guarded exterior she's able to break through and find out the person he truly is and his ability to see the true vulnerable woman behind the bubbly chirpy cloak that she hides herself behind - that's what keeps them so bound.

But of course this is my point of view and that doesn't mean it's right. This is just the way I look at true love.

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