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Vibha

@vibha28

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: stafhtad

You tell em girlfriend!!!!!!now if that goes into their bheja then you and I will be millionaires...

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Mandy

@MrDarcyfan

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

#12

ASR is taking his "Own sweet time" to come to the venue making a decision IF he will get married or not! He is actually trying to decide IF he should DITCH Khushi, because of her connection to Garima?? SOME LOVE!

I would have respected him more, if he had come even an hour after Dadi and told everyone that he CANT go through with this marriage! Taking off and letting the women you love get HUMILIATED while you try to DECIDE if you will DITCH her or not is NOT love and it is not Bravery either!

He has acted like a total CAD! I didnt see him having issues when he was "Getting it on" with her the night before! I wonder if he even PAUSED to think what if there are "Consequences" to those actions? What if Khushi is pregnant? Is he going to abandon his CHILD as well because Garima is Khushi's AUNT??

In WHAT world does this argument sound plausible that he needs "TIME" to come to terms with the truth? He has known this truth for 14 years! Now he just knows the women's identity! Did he even pause to think that Dadi has tried to STOP this marriage SO many times, that this is a NEW ploy?? WHY didnt he go to the venue and CONFRONT Garima??

Lets say he BELEIVES Dadi's word to be true! FINE!! Then just go there and CALL OFF the wedding! OR go somewhere and hide and call your sister and tell her to call off the wedding! If you really think that your Hate for the other women in Dad's life is GREATER than your Love for Khushi then WALK away, but have the GUTS to admit it to everyone's FACE at the RIGHT time!!

Dissapearing and appearing after like 6 hours and everyone has LEFT is of NO use! WHY the HELL should Khushi marry a man like him, who AFTER sleeping with her the Night before DITCHES her at the alter??

A man like that is a CAD! He is just like his Father! A man who makes promises to women which he either has NO intention of keeping or ONLY if it is conveniant for him! As soon as a problem occures, he RUNS!

Personally, I dont want to be with a man THAT un-reliable! What gurantee does Khushi have that if she DOES marry him, then the NEXT time a similar issue crops up he wont walk out on her AGAIN??

SO before stating that anyone who does not agree with the way ASR deals with his issues, or he behaves in given situations as a "Basher" think on the points I have made above! I think you will realize they are VALID points!

Just because you are shattered by your Mother's death in the PAST, that does not give you the LICENSE to SCREW someone over in your PRESENT!

Edited by MrDarcyfan - 13 years ago

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rosegold

@rosegold

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Prey tell me y has this forum become a battle zone... Has anyone noticed the tone of this post and many similar to this post... the TM's POV is strong but the counterviewpoints are even harsher... Each has the right to their POV and opinion but as a request tone it down please. Whether u r supporting ASR or not... I feel both sides are wrong in being so adamant and rude. Respect people. In each such post, I am seeing its going out of hand and people have started taking it personally.

Humble request, toning it down will enable it to be a healthy discussion.

I am not taking any sides, all I want as a member of this forum to continue having discussion and analysis without being branded basher everytime I give a counter viewpoint.

They are fictional characters we love, we may not like everything abt them but remember at the end of the day its the makers' proregative to show as they choose and deem right. If we like it we see, else we always have the option of not watching. In my personal opinion many a times we have blurred the line between reel and real when we r so passionately arguing. Keep focus, its fiction, makers do this to keep the suspense going and audience tuned in. Of course we all know that arnav missing for 2 episode or 3 is done only coz it adds to drama.

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LadyLaLa

@LadyLaLa

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: aakanksha09
Prey tell me y has this forum become a battle zone... Has anyone noticed the tone of this post and many similar to this post... the TM's POV is strong but the counterviewpoints are even harsher... Each has the right to their POV and opinion but as a request tone it down please. Whether u r supporting ASR or not... I feel both sides are wrong in being so adamant and rude. Respect people. In each such post, I am seeing its going out of hand and people have started taking it personally.

Humble request, toning it down will enable it to be a healthy discussion.

I am not taking any sides, all I want as a member of this forum to continue having discussion and analysis without being branded basher everytime I give a counter viewpoint.

They are fictional characters we love, we may not like everything abt them but remember at the end of the day its the makers' proregative to show as they choose and deem right. If we like it we see, else we always have the option of not watching. In my personal opinion many a times we have blurred the line between reel and real when we r so passionately arguing. Keep focus, its fiction, makers do this to keep the suspense going and audience tuned in. Of course we all know that arnav missing for 2 episode or 3 is done only coz it adds to drama.

Could you pinpoint which post is rude?

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Vibha

@vibha28

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: aakanksha09
Prey tell me y has this forum become a battle zone... Has anyone noticed the tone of this post and many similar to this post... the TM's POV is strong but the counterviewpoints are even harsher... Each has the right to their POV and opinion but as a request tone it down please. Whether u r supporting ASR or not... I feel both sides are wrong in being so adamant and rude. Respect people. In each such post, I am seeing its going out of hand and people have started taking it personally.

Humble request, toning it down will enable it to be a healthy discussion.

I am not taking any sides, all I want as a member of this forum to continue having discussion and analysis without being branded basher everytime I give a counter viewpoint.

They are fictional characters we love, we may not like everything abt them but remember at the end of the day its the makers' proregative to show as they choose and deem right. If we like it we see, else we always have the option of not watching. In my personal opinion many a times we have blurred the line between reel and real when we r so passionately arguing. Keep focus, its fiction, makers do this to keep the suspense going and audience tuned in. Of course we all know that arnav missing for 2 episode or 3 is done only coz it adds to drama.

I would respectfully disagree with you reason being is I dont think my friends and I are rude, infact I believe we are more polite than the TM who actually called us someone who doesnt have brains...now that is harsh...

I think the TM bought it upon herself when she made such provocative post, not trying to say she should not have but if she has a right to make her position then so do we...I guess it will always be a case of different prespectives and we each have different ones dont we?

It is us who usually are called basher so I am surprised you consider yourself in that category???oh well I do agree that it is not a good thing to be called that...

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Nigtangle

@rushshri

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

#16

If on the day of the wedding khushi had found out that the reason for her parents' accident was Arnav's dad, then would she have just walked into the mandap to be with Arnav? Or would she have gone to see the stars in her room?? Would she have just gone to the mandap and gotten married??

very aptly put. Why will he suffer for no fault of his own??? why he is tagged as coward but he hasn't taken decision yet??? When he supported her in front of dadi----

"jahan meri patni nahi aa sakti, mein bhi nahi aa sakta" or
"Mein khushi is doobara shadi karne ke liye tyaar hoon" or
Not leaving her doing pheras when dadi witnessed
"daudti hui meri bahon mein aayogi"
'hushi mujhe chod ke mat jaana, nahi to mein ji nahi paoonga"
"mere pyar ko saboot ki zaroorat nahi"

Are there words are of a coward???? I can add many more like these.

If somebody is in love that doesn't mean ignore all other relationships. Instead of straight going there creating havoc and insulting garima in front of whole bunch of guests, he is taking his own time to settle down, to lower down wave of emotions which is hitting him hard. Is it wrong????

Moreover TM, I don't think u hurt anyone's sentiments here. So u don't need to apologize for what u have not done.

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rima

@rima

Stunner

+ 10

Posted: 13 years ago

#17

the question he has already ruined her life

he has already for all we know made love to her

he has already lived with her for 6 months

where does that leave khushi in the csociety?

was he even thinking?

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rosegold

@rosegold

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: LadyLaLa

Could you pinpoint which post is rude?

please read my post again, its a request only to keep discussions healthy to one and all including me, no one specific.

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charlotte74

@charlotte74

Dazzler

+ 7

Posted: 13 years ago

#19

I think you brought out some really key points to explain Arnav's behaviour. There is always two sides to a coin isn't it?

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Nigtangle

@rushshri

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: rima
the question he has already ruined her life
he has already for all we know made love to her

he has already lived with her for 6 months

where does that leave khushi in the csociety?

was he even thinking?

disagree rima totally.

he is thinking about Khushi and for her wish he is marrying with her. He has recalled incidences of their love or their love making, whatever. This means he is just not thinking in one direction only. If he is thinking about his mother, he is thinking about his lady love too. It is a heart wrenching truth, marne wali uski maa thi. If khushi is important, his mother too. If u wanna hit me directly for this, purely ur pov.

But I am not open further just for this comment.

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