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Posted: 13 years ago
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Okay so before i start i just want to clarify that I am making this post so that i dont have to comment on every single Arnav Basher


So all u bashers think that Arnav is not worth of Khushi's love and that he is a coward or that he does not keep to his word.

So first of all i know that u all accept the fact that he is human, and thats why he walked off nd went to his mom.

But than i c comments like Arnav doesnt deserve khushi's love and all that shit. well then listen up the guy have loved and cherished all of his mom's memories for 14 years. She was the woman that he loved the most and now he finds out the cause of her death. Now you guys think that he shuld just go to the mandap and be like i no my bride's mom was the reason my mom died but thats okay watever, lets just get on with the wedding?. Like really? You think that he should jus forget the woman he has loved for all his life and go and marry the one he has just started loving? No matter wat he says Khushi is not the first one to teach him how to love someone, it was his mom. His mom had taught him love and he still loves her.


If still my point has not fit into ur bheja then think of it this way...


If on the day of the wedding khushi had found out that the reason for her parents' accident was Arnav's dad, then would she have just walked into the mandap to be with Arnav? Or would she have gone to see the stars in her room?? Would she have just gone to the mandap and gotten married??




So now secondly people are saying that Arnav has changed and does not stay wit his word and they even give examples of Preetos wedding where he had helped the couple.

But was it the situation? At that time the groom side was hating on the Bride for no mistake of hers. Here no one (execpt for stupid Dadi) is hating on Khushi they are just mad at Garima. And Arnav is not even aware of wat is going on so think before you relate people


Im sorry if i have offened you in any way but i just had to get my point across to you as this was very important to share wit u all






Edited :kk so for all the ppl who thnk that i am calling u names u are wrong nd u r definitely entitled to ur own opinion i was just saying tht u should understand mine too.


and wooow i had no ides this would make such a big issue they r fictional characters for gods sake dont fight amongst each other! plez im sorry!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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You know what surprised me the most was the end note that said sorry if I offended you, I mean you either back your own writting or you dont...if you believe in your words why be sorry?
I am not sorry in saying that yes Harvard is both a coward and wimpy man...so he is in pain ...obviously khushi doesnt know the word pain...so his mom died...she is dead for past 14years...and he knows the reason why..so if he cares so much about who the other person was then why did he not try to do anything about that???
Huh????????? his mom taught him how to love???how by running of and killing herself?? sorry parents love is unconditional...and if mom taught him how to love so he forgot that love when mom died and khushi came and he remembered it again??? now I am confused...he himself said that khushi taught him how to love but you are saying it was mom...whatever whomever taught him love he obviously is a bad student cannot remember his lessons of love and off he goes to do his own thing..
Now how khushi will react is subjective because that hasnt been shown so how can I predict future???so that point is moot...
Again I do not want to start a debate because you and I are not going to agree but why do you want us to stop???are you the dictator here???or is there a rule that we cannot say anything against Harvard???
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i really appreciate your post...👏
I don't know why some people says arnav as a coward...😡
I just pity them...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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simple question.

would u wanna marry some1 who left you all alone at the alter, answerable to 1000s of guests without giving prior notice..

I'm not saying he didn't need time, he did and his dillema is understandable , however the way he deals with the situation isn't
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am in too much pain to see ASR this way .. therefore, I am too numb to write something new.. I am just recycling one of my previous posts..

Your point has not fit into my bheja so I will try to see if I can fit my point into your bheja okay? Deal?

the clock in IPK works differently .. 5-6 hours has already elapsed since Dadi broke the news.. guests at the wedding have left and so has the priest... how long should Khushi wait.. ?

what's the point in him turning up after all the water has flown over the bridge.?. can he restore her dignity and wipe away their humiliation? would he call back the guests to say how sorry he was and how keen he is to marry Khushi? Will he tell them how he punished her for no reason and hurt her for 6 months and put a slur on her character ?

We all know he is going to turn up someday .. don't our arguments sound funny.. we keep saying he is in pain, he is in pain.. and he will turn up.. we know he will come but when .? So what do you mean by he is in pain .. my bet is he will turn up after 3 episodes when his pain will disappear..😃 that has been his track record.. at that point all others must forget their pain and follow his instructions ? then if he is in a mood they should also get married to him?

A true partner is one who stands by his significant other.. if he cannot stand by her at least he could have told her so..he did have his mobile at his disposal didn't he? what about answering his sisters call? ...

he cannot always run away to nowhere and break down on the middle of the road while his loved one's are facing the music.. A sorry is not going to wipe away the humility Khushi suffered.. Do you think any girl worth her salt would like to marry a guy like Arnav Ji ?😛
Edited by LadyLaLa - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: evenjleena28

You know what surprised me the most was the end note that said sorry if I offended you, I mean you either back your own writting or you dont...if you believe in your words why be sorry?

I am not sorry in saying that yes Harvard is both a coward and wimpy man...so he is in pain ...obviously khushi doesnt know the word pain...so his mom died...she is dead for past 14years...and he knows the reason why..so if he cares so much about who the other person was then why did he not try to do anything about that???
Huh????????? his mom taught him how to love???how by running of and killing herself?? sorry parents love is unconditional...and if mom taught him how to love so he forgot that love when mom died and khushi came and he remembered it again??? now I am confused...he himself said that khushi taught him how to love but you are saying it was mom...whatever whomever taught him love he obviously is a bad student cannot remember his lessons of love and off he goes to do his own thing..
Now how khushi will react is subjective because that hasnt been shown so how can I predict future???so that point is moot...
Again I do not want to start a debate because you and I are not going to agree but why do you want us to stop???are you the dictator here???or is there a rule that we cannot say anything against Harvard???

sooo agree👍🏼
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sucker4arhiluv

Okay so before i start i just want to clarify that I am making this post so that i dont have to comment on every single Arnav Basher



So all u bashers think that Arnav is not worth of Khushi's love and that he is a coward or that he does not keep to his word.

So first of all i know that u all accept the fact that he is human, and thats why he walked off nd went to his mom.

But than i c comments like Arnav doesnt deserve khushi's love and all that shit. well then listen up the guy have loved and cherished all of his mom's memories for 14 years. She was the woman that he loved the most and now he finds out the cause of her death. Now you guys think that he shuld just go to the mandap and be like i no my bride's mom was the reason my mom died but thats okay watever, lets just get on with the wedding?. Like really? You think that he should jus forget the woman he has loved for all his life and go and marry the one he has just started loving? No matter wat he says Khushi is not the first one to teach him how to love someone, it was his mom. His mom had taught him love and he still loves her.


If still my point has not fit into ur bheja then think of it this way...


If on the day of the wedding khushi had found out that the reason for her parents' accident was Arnav's dad, then would she have just walked into the mandap to be with Arnav? Or would she have gone to see the stars in her room?? Would she have just gone to the mandap and gotten married??




So now secondly people are saying that Arnav has changed and does not stay wit his word and they even give examples of Preetos wedding where he had helped the couple.

But was it the situation? At that time the groom side was hating on the Bride for no mistake of hers. Here no one (execpt for stupid Dadi) is hating on Khushi they are just mad at Garima. And Arnav is not even aware of wat is going on so think before you relate people


Im sorry if i have offened you in any way but i just had to get my point across to you as this was very important to share wit u all

exactly...
agree with you...
Arnav is also a human who can feel the pain, the hurt...same goes with Khushi...
but that does not mean ASR is coward...this is the very sensitive matter regarding his mother
and who doesn't love his/her mother??
I see many people making post saying Arnav really needs to move on leaving his mom's memory and everything behind...
NO! A Big NO..I mean yeah agree he nedds to leave his past and move on with Khushi..but that doesn't mean he leave his mom's memories and this matter this easily...I would have have in the same situation and dilima if I was in Arnav's shoes...so what if his parents committed suicide, but Arnav's moments and memories with his mom was special and that no can can change it...
People really nedds to understand him...
I have no issue with him for coming late...
he truely loves her
so what if he doesn't come on time...I mean he is not the hero ( well he is our hearo, but not some filmy as we see these character as the real charecters but...) who will reach the mandap in no time with some super power...we are the fans who don't want this serial to go filmy way..and no one is perfect
the only one face remains, that he comes to the mandap...
and I hope he will come ..he will come...so yeah ofcourse he deserves Khushi...both are made for each other...
they are soul mates..and will always be forever!

Edited by Angel13 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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JFYI the definition of a coward

A coward may be one with his tail between his legs. In heraldry a lion couard, "cowardly lion," was depicted with his tail between his legs. So a coward may be one with his tail hidden between his legs or one who turns tail and runs like a rabbit, with his tail showing. A person who shrinks from or avoids danger, pain, or difficulty..


Is there any resemblance of ASR's behaviour to this definition?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: LadyLaLa

JFYI the definition of a coward

A coward may be one with his tail between his legs. In heraldry a lion couard, "cowardly lion," was depicted with his tail between his legs. So a coward may be one with his tail hidden between his legs or one who turns tail and runs like a rabbit, with his tail showing. A person who shrinks from or avoids danger, pain, or difficulty..


Is there any resemblance of ASR's behaviour to this definition?

La,
Hun logic and forum doesnt work ...so who runs away when issues come knocking????i rest my case???
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nice post! Hopefully, it helps to get rid of these ASR's bashers but i doubt they would back down! They are just here in the forum to spread negativity at every opportunity they get!

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