Anjali is like her Mom!!

Whatever story we have seen so far gives us the impression that Anjali has taken after her Mom. We have seen how Anjali is self centered and selfish person. Only thinks about her own pain and dont give a damn with whatever happening with rest of the family. I would go to the extent that she is even responsible for her miscarriage.
I see the similar traits in Mrs. Malik as well. So she found out about her Husband's affair. And from the scene it looks like right on her daughter's wedding day. The way she questioned him - how could you do this!!
She was a mature woman with grown up kids.. and still she got so engrossed in her own pain that she forgot about her kids. About her daughter who is ready as bride.. about her son who is apple of her eye and needs his mom. She did not even wait to get Anjali married before start thinking about her own marriage life. The children didnt matter to her. Her, who was asking her unfaithful husband minutes ago how could you do this to me... you did not even think about your children.
She chose to kill herself within minutes, leaving her kids in pain. What a weak and selfish lady!! If anybody is responsible for painful past of Arnav and Anjali, its their own Mother, who chose to abandoned them... It was her why Anjali was left stranded at the alter and not Garima.

I know this aspect will never even be raised as no one is supposed to bad talk about dead... but thats the impression I get about her...

Hmm. right suscide was nt solution to that problem.she had to think abt her children.instead of solving mater she choose to kill herself.

YES!!!!!!!!!! Exactly!!!!!!!!!!! I've made a similar post at https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/iss-pyaar-ko-kya-naam-doon/3212977/anyone-noticed

I'm quoting the last para from the post: "And what good your mom has done you you? she commited suicide on darling daughter's wedding day only to ruin it!? she was selfish enough to leave you and your lil bro to face in the world alone. She could have been strong to face the situation like Khushi has done!! Accept it, She was too weak to face the realiy of a harsh world!!! You have also proven by your selfish deeds that your are her daughter!!!"

always felt taht ms raizada was a weak woman -just one thing dadi's character was correct abt

Yes I totally agree-she is being portrayed as an innocent victim but she was also very selfish-any mother who reacts like that without thinking about her children is selfish-yes she is dead now and there is so much emotion that has been shown wrt Anjali and Arnavs memories of her that she is being thought of as all good.

Originally posted by: babli0204

YES!!!!!!!!!! Exactly!!!!!!!!!!! I've made a similar post at https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/iss-pyaar-ko-kya-naam-doon/3212977/anyone-noticed

I'm quoting the last para from the post: "And what good your mom has done you you? she commited suicide on darling daughter's wedding day only to ruin it!? she was selfish enough to leave you and your lil bro to face in the world alone. She could have been strong to face the situation like Khushi has done!! Accept it, She was too weak to face the realiy of a harsh world!!! You have also proven by your selfish deeds that your are her daughter!!!"

Just read your post. yes, its the same personality. selfish to the core. She abandoned her kid just as her Mom had abandoned them.. the kids did not matter to them compared to their husbands..
And here I believe that a woman would always be a mother first.. when it comes to relationships. I always feel that Mother-kid relationship is the strongest bond..

I completely agree, I hope the CV's raise this valid point from any of the reasonable character there in the show, well said👏

agree with u...it is proved dat anjali is her mother's daughter;selfish mother's selfish daughter

agree... thr seems to a prob in rationality of the entire family fr tht matter... barring nani n nk..

agree with your post.