Originally posted by: saba113
TM i believe you need to understand few things
first Dadisaa and Bhairo don't know about Bhaboot incident neither they heard in temple .so they don't know about it you yourself think Anandi was speaking in so low voice they were standing so far from her can they hear what she is saying and yesterday Bhairo didn't mention it in Jagaya's mistakes so he don't know - Please check the episode of 19th September which has Jagya being confronted by his inner ghosts...wherein it is shown that "Anandi ne gharwalon ke jakhm na chile hote...agar woh Bhaboot waali baat na chedi hoti..."
So from my understanding I assumed that the family knows about the bhaboot incident...correct me if I am wrong..
second Jagaya is their son ..they are not made of stones but they are human beings can't they for once go weak for their own blood after seeing him in this terrible condition ..Bhairo is still not allowing him in or ready to forgive but can't he for once feel sorry and cry for his own blood ..he is a human being after all ..there are no stones in his heart ..mothers are usually more weak towards their children so is dadisaa here she is not out of world thing ..the boy she raised with so much love and care seeing him in terrible condition and don't know where he is at this moment can't she go weak in her love and moreover she saw her son also sitting with tears in his eyes holding Jagaya's picture ..she was not asking Bhairo lets remarry him with Anandi she was just saying for their own ..themselves ..to lessen everyone's pain including Jagaya too ...Jagaya is not only Anandi's ex husband for them but also their son ..i don't know whats a big blooper here and out of world thing đ..this is the reality of life ..all parents in the world love their children despite whatever they do ...parents can be angry but cannot hate their child so what really is the issue here i fail to understand đ
As far as hating children is concerned...I agree no parent will hate their child...when I meant hatred & contempt...It is towards his thinking and attitude in asking forgiveness (and also for bhaboot incident which I assumed they knew after watching the video)...and not towards him...It is very apparent to everyone that he hasnt changed...Jagya has always tried to find easy way out to all his problems...and always plays the blame game which is very clear to every one..The pain given by Jagya to the family & anandi is lot more that what they are undergoing now..and what he is undergoing now...so forgiving a person who is really not repenting with a pure heart is as good as encouraging him to repeat the mistake.
about Anandi ..i think seeing Jagaya in engagement video and her getting emotional why he didn't meet her before or family or family knows about it perhaps she got hurt by this family has been hiding this from her but later cvs didnt show her questioning from singhs or maybe her reason will be Jagaya really doesn't have any problems with her moving on or wants her back in her life because she too thought for one moment like she was saying to shiv i could not say to Jagaya i forgave you and accept you back now what shiv said to her when she was saying why Jagaya didn't meet her at that time .he said there can be only one reason forgiveness ..well i think this needs to be cleared in next episodes .đ.
but Bhairo Dadisaa's behavior was no blooper but is the actual reality of life - the CVs have always potrayed Bhairo as an exemplary person of high morals..even though most of the parents forgive children for all their mistakes..be it big or small...Bhairon never forgave Jagya despite whatever he did...hence his momentary weakness even after realising that Jagya hasnt changed is surprising...