Rabba Ve Friday Masala Sahelis 🤗
The most important business first Sharthwa Ve: Hum Aapke Hain Kaun (HAHK!)
Congratulations and well done Team Pati . The most swiftly resolved Sharth so far! 🥳
Vee, Ratna, Ippy, Sci-Payal, Maggie, Mandy, Israt, Hriju, Radss, Astra,Shwetz, Ash, Sari, Moxie, Meens
Team Patni: Docgirl, veeps, Howcome, savvy, Joey, Mona Darrling, Bobop, Payal, Biraj, Cicilia, Sahana, chini_chokri, chip, Diya
Jurmana (ONLY IF YOU WANT TO!): Justify any one paagal action or quality of ASR's/ Arnav's that seems near indefensible to you.
Docgirl's Jurmana: Khushi's pati has done so many pagal indefensible things, I don't know where to start, but I'll defend (despite it goes against every grain in my body, but a sharth is a sharth! 😉) the pagal premi's bruising wala love(credit:Rag1ni), because as much as I hate it, today's mushy, gooey Arnavji ko kissy (pun intended!) bhi tarah bhagaya jaaye. 😛 Really dude --- a carpet of red rose petals in the living room, doe eyes and love face and ANOTHER almost kiss! blech!!! 😒
Savvy: My jurmana - I hated it when he called her characterless, but he did a tiny bit of redemption ( say 1%) when he said he trusted Khushi after ousting Shyam (knowing the entire truth only a few minutes before)
Monalisa's Jurmana: I hated that he bonked her on the head with the danda, but practically speaking, there was no other way to keep them both from being napped or killed.
*SULK*
Howcome's Jurmana : Pagal Pati's violent streak even when he is complete romantics is scary. when he was full on romancing in the hut scene, with one log he knocked her out. But he is on the way of redemption of at least saying - lagi kya????
veeps:I didn't like that he took 59 seconds to "almost" open the dori in the hut sequence... pshaw...Totally indefensible...But in his defence, the guy usually is more used to tearing it off than untie it...
Payal:I was mighty pissed at those half uttered farak padta hai that he always left Khushi with. In hindsight, not such a bad thing given he wasn't sure if his feelings and would probably have hurt her even more. When he was sure he was the one to confess first and in fact Khushi still has'nt done it
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While I'm handing out bouquets, special awards to the Gupta Sisters:
Khushiji for being the World's most committed hugger
Ek bar, do bar, bar bar ... wah! 👏👏
Now if only she brought her awesome commitment to hugging to the almost kisses.😛 Par, who can blame her when Arnavji refused to finish the deed? 🤢 Dude, just plant one already, phir dekhna how much commitment Khushiji brings. This time I can't even hate on the interrupters. All they did was walk in the through the front door! 😃
Payal jiji for being not only tiger sis but a Wife with more than a sentence (a life sentence with the douche!) ---- and she made it count!👏👏
Move back to GH and wear this proudly! 👍🏼
And for my pet project the lost and much hated Anjali Di (hoped I'd forget, did ya? ... not a chance, no mercy masala ladkis...😉) but it is the last part of my post so skip ahead to the next post. 😛
Don't make me wait too long for the Steel Magnolia!
The alienation of Anjali di continues. She's struggling to come to terms with such aur jhoot and it's a tough road. She has NO answers at all... and life is drifting out of control. Her chottey is making her decisions and she has no way to cope. NO ONE is sitting her down and giving her ANY answers... certainly not Chottey. But she loves him and doesn't want to get in the way of his work, so she sends him off to Agra. She skips the satsang and returns early and lo and behold here's Chottey...no Agra trip, just romancing the patni on a carpet of rose petals. 😲 Trust? Truth? Here he is caught red handed... in a lie. What's ASR's sister to believe? The evidence before her eyes or atoot vishwaas? It almost as difficult for her as it is for him. 😃
This is not about her not wanting him to be happy or resenting his romance with Khushi. It's about the loss of the two most important relationships of her life. Her pati has been summarily booted out - no explanations forthcoming and her chottey... well the open and transparent relationship with him is gone too. It was gone when he ran off without saying a word to her and returned with his bride. He didn't give her any explanation then and so it is to date. Chottey fell in love, became a pati and her relationship with him changed irrevocably.
She is adrift and has NO control over her life. What CAN she control? Whether she eats, sleeps, or... pops her pills! Davai leney ka mann nahi kar raha hai... if a patient of mine told me that I would deliver a mental thappadwa and my fingers would itch to deliver a physical one. But shame on me if I can't at least once try to get at the underlying cause. It could be sheer petulance but more often than not there's something deeper that this is a symptom of. This is only one of a limited number of ways she can exert control.
Why penalize the baby you may ask?... she's not thinking straight and seems conflicted about the place of the baby in her life.
And so builds another MU... founded as always in IPK duniya on a contrived lack of communication. But I do think this one is less contrived than the last terrace wala MU. This will get much worse yet... keep those FF keys handy! 😃
Edited by docgirl - 13 years ago