When People Criticize Khushi's Attitude to Shyam.. - Page 3

Originally posted by: rima

<font size="4">Why she is silent?</font>

<font size="4">Why she did not slap him?</font>

<font size="4">May be she likes him</font>

<font size="4">Why is she talking to him?</font>

<font size="4">Why is she just standing</font>

<font size="4">It makes me think sadly this is how society is.</font>

<font size="4">When a girl is raped or molested all fingers turn to her and say:</font>

<font size="4">She was wrong in some way and she got what she deserved.</font>

<font size="4">Very sad to see it here too</font>

Seriously its disgusting to see such criticism...I mean the girl is in a situation wer her husband thinks she is having an affair with the v guy who is not leaving one opportunity towards harassing her, she is alone in a house wer her harasser is worshipped...finally now she is realizing the extend of this jerks obsession with her. For now I think wise thing for her would b not to react to him. Ok y she doesn't walk away...she did try tat befpre but it only infuriated the jerk and the terrace scene hapnd. The guy has serious mental issues as he is living in an imaginary world wer he feels he was her " pasand" ( yuck...)...


Personally I wudnt want her around him even to slap him...cos as they say "never wrestle with a pig, u get dirty and the pig njoys it"


I hav been raking my mind abt wat course of action wud b best for her...I feel right now till arnav sees the truth she shud just take care of herself and try to steer clear of the jerk or just go stay with guptas and confide into buaji...she did hav the guts to confront shyam b4...

I agree with you. It is not easy to think clearly and calmly in such situations. Also, I think when you are faced with such a person, it is best not to react physically (like slapping or pushing), as this may provoke the attacker. I loved how she took a bite of the food yesterday... just to get rid of him. He kind of loves it when she resists him and gets angry...so she just calmly took a bite. But the next moment, she challenged him thinking that will make him go away. But it backfired on her. So now she has learned that challenging him does not work. She will think of some other way.

Originally posted by: babes25

I think she is making a wise move by not showing much attitude to shyam. she is all alone in this game so right now she needs to be patient with shyam atleast until she gets those papers.

Evan I would suggest the same thing, I am with you on that...I think most girls in this forum do not understand the consequenses or how sick this guy is...it is very easy to say I would have donr this or that, but remember you have not faced such situation...Shyam I think would start touching her if khushi slaps him or fight him...this guy is real sick he knows Khushi will always try to protect Anjali and thats why he is so confident and on top of it he knows ASR does not trust her

Originally posted by: popeye

Its like she can't win with im.. If she goes to slap him he looks at it like atleast she's touching him... So that to her is disgusting. If she yells at him he seems to love her anger. What is the woman supposed to do at this point of time. She can't tell anyone coz of Anjali's situation... And Arnav is not here to protect her either. Once Arnav believes her I'm sure she will take action against Shyam.

Wonder how many girls out here who ask why Khushi could not give it back to him or say that maybe she loves Shyam, would do like they say she should. Even when we walk on the streets and someone deliberately brushes past us, touching us, making us feel yucky, do we retaliate?? And here she is in a house which worships this person. Even her husband blamed her for trapping the sleazebag called Shyam. 

Originally posted by: Dalmuthuya

After seeing some posts on here I actually teared up a little, thinking, ''oh god.. this is society?"

I completely agree its no fault of Khushi... Rima thank u soo much for bringing out this topic, we definitely have to address this to the ppl with small minds (sorry if i have hurt any1 by mentioning small minds)

CVs are being true to what a woman feels during all that bullying, harassing times by a man.  Edited by arshi21 - 12 years ago

Originally posted by: coldy07

So true!

Is it easy to speak back? I doubt. Even the most confident and out going woman, will feel threatened in a situation like this.

She knows that Shyam is like a spring. The more she supresses, the more he'll rebel and try to prove his right on her. He's just too creepy. Silence is the biggest slap she can give. And then, at the moment she's weak. Any thing she says or does, the creep can turn tables against her. So it's best to wait till the right time. Wonder what a turmoil she must be going through, every time he stands there with that devilish look. You never know what a psycho like Shyam can do 

EDIT

As far as getting back at Arnav is concerned, they are equals. Arnav has always pointed fingers at her, hurt her or even misbehaved...BUT on her face. He was never trying to play any games. He even apologised. They share a different equation all together. 

Shyam is just too scary for any girl. Especially with Arnav gone, she knows he can make any sort of bad moves..So she's just playing it safe. She saw that look, while he was having that spicy dal..She got the message, He can go to any extent.

All I hope and pray is, CVs don't show anything close to physical abuse, for the sake of TRPs. I can't digest that.  Even touching is a BIG NO NO for me.