how hate and anger overpowers everything

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Its sad to see how hate and anger of bhabho does not let any body realise that they have got an extra ordinerily smart and intellengent member in their family who STOOD 3rd IN WHOLE RASJASTHAN. No one congratulated and appreciated sandhya for her superb achievement. Feel so bad for her.Being educated is no crime they are behaving as if she has failed in her exams they should realize sandyas value and support her

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Posted: 13 years ago
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agree baba no one hate her for being highly educated, esp bhaboo, suraj and bhabasa are heart broken as truth wasnt said to them as they feel cheated

Bhaboo anger is justified ,the lady had seen worst for suraj and her perception over educated gals in that case is kinda ok i get it

I agree none of them were cong the gal , its not a easy thing to get third rank , yet at this moment some thing else is running in their minds, and once things settle down and everything gets cooled , i hope suraj gives her something and bhaboo will appreciate her and even compare her with Chavvi baby ...


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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree, but i think that bhabo is angry because Shandiya is her DIL.
When her childeren making mistake she forgive them as it no big deal.
Bhabo has problems for shring her sons with a nother woman.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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actually, i do agree with the opening poster's comments.. she has laid it out very philosophically.. she didnt say that bhabho was right or wrong.. all she said that anger and ego has overpowered bhabho (& other family members) to such an extent that they do not appreciate their daughter-in-law's achievements...
even in future, sandhya is going to find it difficult with bhabho because much as we try and see the positives in this lady.. she is a very dominating and a narrow minded woman, who wants her way and gives priority to herself and her sons before others... she brags about a lot of things that she actually doesnt follow.. she preaches a lot that she doesnt practise...
a few acts of kindness cannot undo the numerous harsh words/punishments that she metes out... however, she is not bad and definitely not the villain of the show...just a somewhat hypocritical lady (saas) that makes this show quite unusual... 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Somebody needs to hold a mirror to this woman and show her who she really is. The woman talks of not tolerating lies but did she not encourage Sandhya to wear someone else's slippers at the kul devi temple? So is stealing better than lying? As though that was not enough when the woman whose slippers Sandhya was asked to slip on questioned Sandhya she did not even own up that she was the one who asked her DIL to wear them. She cares so much for her reputation in the society that she challenged the women in the locality that she will get the best DIL in the whole town. Now she has been proven 'wrong'. All her anger stems from that. If she cares so much for reputation, why did she make a spectacle of herself in front of the media and wash so much dirty linen in public to last a life time? The woman suffers from short term memory. She believes the DIL who set fire to their godown to not only escape from footing the household expenses but also get money from her bro-in-law. She believes that Sandhya was the one who wrote the report solely based on what that liar of a DIL but she has conveniently forgotten that Sandhya risked her life to save her from the bull. She has conveniently forgotten that Sandhya was the one who asked that ungrateful liar of a DIL to not fool her MIL. She conveniently forgot that it is Sandhya who volunteered to give her FD when the family was in financial need. I want this brainless woman to weep for every hurtful word she hurled on Sandhya and ask for her forgiveness.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Opti

Somebody needs to hold a mirror to this woman and show her who she really is. The woman talks of not tolerating lies but did she not encourage Sandhya to wear someone else's slippers at the kul devi temple? So is stealing better than lying? As though that was not enough when the woman whose slippers Sandhya was asked to slip on questioned Sandhya she did not even own up that she was the one who asked her DIL to wear them. She cares so much for her reputation in the society that she challenged the women in the locality that she will get the best DIL in the whole town. Now she has been proven 'wrong'. All her anger stems from that. If she cares so much for reputation, why did she make a spectacle of herself in front of the media and wash so much dirty linen in public to last a life time? The woman suffers from short term memory. She believes the DIL who set fire to their godown to not only escape from footing the household expenses but also get money from her bro-in-law. She believes that Sandhya was the one who wrote the report solely based on what that liar of a DIL but she has conveniently forgotten that Sandhya risked her life to save her from the bull. She has conveniently forgotten that Sandhya was the one who asked that ungrateful liar of a DIL to not fool her MIL. She conveniently forgot that it is Sandhya who volunteered to give her FD when the family was in financial need. I want this brainless woman to weep for every hurtful word she hurled on Sandhya and ask for her forgiveness.


beautifully said.. i dont request CVs to completely change her character..her dominance and harsh nature are all part of the story... however, CVs bear these past issues and incidents in mind while tackling/portraying future episodes so that there lies minimal discrepancies in the storylines...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with u OPTI, the mess she made in press was too much, wat will be the situation if sandhya goes vocal and says in same press that she was cheated by her own blood then why punish her ?

I like bhaboo but at times she talks and behaves as per her convince
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Lashy, Breezy, I want this mindlessly angry woman to think more rationally when she cools down. Why would such an intelligent girl agree to marry a halwai willingly? Yes, her brother had something to gain from this marriage since he was able to dump his sister in their house before he left for the States to chase his own dreams but what has Sandhya gained after marrying into a rigidly traditional family like the Rathis?


Ever since she has come Sandhya has been trying to adjust and was bending backwards to put up with all the demands made of her. She has never once shown her arrogance and refused to do all the chores in the house. She even wordlessly fulfilled the punishment Bhabo meted out on her for daring to cast her vote. If at all she really wanted to imprison Bhabho would that not have been the best opportunity to do so? Could she not have complained to the police that she was ill-treated and punished because she did the duty of any responsible citizen? Why would she keep quiet then but instead go and complain on behalf of an ungrateful sister-in-law who had lied to all of them and made her husband and her slog for garnering the money to pay them for goods that they did not really lose in the fire? Would she not be rightfully angry with the double game playing Meenakshi rather than side with her and imprison Bhabho?


If the brainless Bhabho cannot think in these lines I want Suraj to explain things to her much as how he explained things to Sandhya to make her understand about his mother in the voter incident. Why should Sandhya be the only one who should understand Bhabo's point of view? Bhabho should also be made to understand Sandhya's situation. If anything the woman should provide support to a helpless girl who has lost her parents and been duped by her brother. I hope Bhabho is made to realise her mistake soon and not at the end of 6 months.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Opti

Lashy, Breezy, I want this mindlessly angry woman to think more rationally when she cools down. Why would such an intelligent girl agree to marry a halwai willingly? Yes, her brother had something to gain from this marriage since he was able to dump his sister in their house before he left for the States to chase his own dreams but what has Sandhya gained after marrying into a rigidly traditional family like the Rathis? She is always made to understand things when thinks cool off 😆... at this point none from the house would even want to think in that manner , untill and unless either babasa or chaturi makes a passing comment on wat had sandhya gained by lying and getting married to them


Ever since she has come Sandhya has been trying to adjust and was bending backwards to put up with all the demands made of her. She has never once shown her arrogance and refused to do all the chores in the house. She even wordlessly fulfilled the punishment Bhabo meted out on her for daring to cast her vote. If at all she really wanted to imprison Bhabho would that not have been the best opportunity to do so? Could she not have complained to the police that she was ill-treated and punished because she did the duty of any responsible citizen? Why would she keep quiet then but instead go and complain on behalf of an ungrateful sister-in-law who had lied to all of them and made her husband and her slog for garnering the money to pay them for goods that they did not really lose in the fire? Would she not be rightfully angry with the double game playing Meenakshi rather than side with her and imprison Bhabho? Word, the gal treated them like a family though she had to go through a lot to do it , she was being herself only with Suraj, she never hesitated to show her anger, dislike with him which is more imp , yet she had respect in that forceful relation ... like said before, a gal is always said and expected to treat her IN Laws and family likes her own which she does, but very rarely a Bahu becomes Daughter , she always kept the things in house and tried solving them , this family is lucky to have one like her, yet all the gal gets is blame and tag line of being a lier


If the brainless Bhabho cannot think in these lines I want Suraj to explain things to her much as how he explained things to Sandhya to make her understand about his mother in the voter incident. Why should Sandhya be the only one who should understand Bhabo's point of view? Bhabho should also be made to understand Sandhya's situation. If anything the woman should provide support to a helpless girl who has lost her parents and been duped by her brother. I hope Bhabho is made to realise her mistake soon and not at the end of 6 months. they dont really drag but i feel this making bhaboo seeing her mistake will be dragged but not for 6 months 😆, Suraj is the only hope to knock sense in anyones mind

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Breezy, I hope Suraj knocks some sense into that woman soon enough, that is if he comes to his senses. I dont like that track to be dragged. If they need to make this show different from the usual Saas-bahu shows, they need to show the mother in law support the DIL as much as the husband does.

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