how hate and anger overpowers everything - Page 2

ofcourse, they will have to make bhaboo supporting sandhya just like suraj does, or will do in future, tabhi balance hoga. this was discussed way way long back and hopefully none will be disappointed

Wonderful discussion Opti, Lashy, Breezy... Loved your views.

Originally posted by: Opti

Lashy, Breezy, I want this mindlessly angry woman to think more rationally when she cools down. Why would such an intelligent girl agree to marry a halwai willingly? Yes, her brother had something to gain from this marriage since he was able to dump his sister in their house before he left for the States to chase his own dreams but what has Sandhya gained after marrying into a rigidly traditional family like the Rathis?


Ever since she has come Sandhya has been trying to adjust and was bending backwards to put up with all the demands made of her. She has never once shown her arrogance and refused to do all the chores in the house. She even wordlessly fulfilled the punishment Bhabo meted out on her for daring to cast her vote. If at all she really wanted to imprison Bhabho would that not have been the best opportunity to do so? Could she not have complained to the police that she was ill-treated and punished because she did the duty of any responsible citizen? Why would she keep quiet then but instead go and complain on behalf of an ungrateful sister-in-law who had lied to all of them and made her husband and her slog for garnering the money to pay them for goods that they did not really lose in the fire? Would she not be rightfully angry with the double game playing Meenakshi rather than side with her and imprison Bhabho?


If the brainless Bhabho cannot think in these lines I want Suraj to explain things to her much as how he explained things to Sandhya to make her understand about his mother in the voter incident. Why should Sandhya be the only one who should understand Bhabo's point of view? Bhabho should also be made to understand Sandhya's situation. If anything the woman should provide support to a helpless girl who has lost her parents and been duped by her brother. I hope Bhabho is made to realise her mistake soon and not at the end of 6 months.

Originally posted by: Opti

Lashy, Breezy, I want this mindlessly angry woman to think more rationally when she cools down. Why would such an intelligent girl agree to marry a halwai willingly? Yes, her brother had something to gain from this marriage since he was able to dump his sister in their house before he left for the States to chase his own dreams but what has Sandhya gained after marrying into a rigidly traditional family like the Rathis?


Ever since she has come Sandhya has been trying to adjust and was bending backwards to put up with all the demands made of her. She has never once shown her arrogance and refused to do all the chores in the house. She even wordlessly fulfilled the punishment Bhabo meted out on her for daring to cast her vote. If at all she really wanted to imprison Bhabho would that not have been the best opportunity to do so? Could she not have complained to the police that she was ill-treated and punished because she did the duty of any responsible citizen? Why would she keep quiet then but instead go and complain on behalf of an ungrateful sister-in-law who had lied to all of them and made her husband and her slog for garnering the money to pay them for goods that they did not really lose in the fire? Would she not be rightfully angry with the double game playing Meenakshi rather than side with her and imprison Bhabho?


If the brainless Bhabho cannot think in these lines I want Suraj to explain things to her much as how he explained things to Sandhya to make her understand about his mother in the voter incident. Why should Sandhya be the only one who should understand Bhabo's point of view? Bhabho should also be made to understand Sandhya's situation. If anything the woman should provide support to a helpless girl who has lost her parents and been duped by her brother. I hope Bhabho is made to realise her mistake soon and not at the end of 6 months.

hey opti gud 2 see u here...well gud points, i did come 2 post it...bt u said it all...hope when bhabo cools down atleast she recalls wat all sandhya has or had done...n wat has she really gained in marrying a halwai????

Correct me If i am wrong

Originally posted by: breezy

Correct me If i am wrong

Didnt Kisna the match maker told them clearly that her brother got a job abroad and is looking to get her married off in 15days , to a good family ???? it was mentioned clearly so how can they think logically

Yes, Sandy's brother had a clear reason for getting her married into this family but what has Sandy gained? I can understand Bhabho being upset that the truth was kept back for so long but accusing her of complaining to the police was a little too much. There was absolutely no reason to that. And the worst part was that she only has Meena's word that the complaint was written in English. Does she not know that Meena's sister is college going? Could she not been the one who complained? In fact only Meena's family could do such a thing because she was the one who was chased out of the house. If anything Sandy's position was further elevated because her MIL was proud of her strong character and her staunch defense of her. So why would she suddenly turn against her? I cant understand how a person can be as stupid as Bhabho. She seems like a lamb who can be easily led to the slaughter house, trusting a liar like Meena and that too after knowing her character.