Did CV mixup Child Marraige with infidility issue?

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achiever

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Posted: 14 years ago

Following the story of BV, i think CVs r confused with what to do with the Child Marraige issue.. bcoz..

1. From J_A pov, they say child marraige is the root of their problem and main reason for J_A marraige failure.. bt the issue of incompatability isnt highlighted well..enough..

2. From J-G pov, they want to prove a pnt tht bcoz G was married to J in childhood they need to accept J-G..

3. G who opposed child marraige due her own past trauma now seeks refuge in the same child marraige to attain her rights as "real" beendni.. tht sucks CVs! J-G shud've claimed their right.. not bcoz they were married once as child.. bt 1. Bcoz thr luv is true .. 2. they r adults and legally married.. 3. they oppose child mrg.. and 4. they feel sorry 4 all tht happened to A and want to seriously do something for her (which sadly isnt the case)

4. The family members except Gehna r disowning Jagya bcoz of their family honor or their sanskaar and not bcoz of Jagya's fault or bcoz of their mistake of leading him into a child marraige..

5. The role of family of a mute spectator and/or blaming/forcing J all the while J was ignoring A was unacceptable.... they shud have done firefighting long b4 and even if then J disobeyed their wrath or disappointment would've been justified.. CVs failed there.. they did firefighting wen it was all too late!

6. J still doesnt feel he did anything wrong to Anandi thts..😲 CVs.. His love for gauri is true but still he had responsibility towards Anandi.. if not as a husband thn as a childhood friend at least... which he failed miserably CVs shuld raise this issue..as well..

7. J-G were modern, rebellious, and very very well educated.. yet they failed to be considerate towards Anandi which is unbelievable considering Gauri is very sweet girl and herself a victim of child marraige.. and J didnt think once of A's wellbeing, her self-respect, her status in society after he deserts her, her future, and their past relationship.. especially after A 1. Saved his life.. 2. Sacrificed her studies for him and his family.. 3. Helping him shape his career.. 4. Tried to save their marraige.. shudnt they have talked to Anandi 1st b4 getting married.. or let her know.. at least Anandi deserved tht after years of r'ship! as a girl, G failed to understand A and acted really selfish.. G knew it was no fault of A.. and it wasnt as if A opposed J-G's r'ship.. all she wanted was a clear answer from J.. at G shud've cleared all this b4 hurried marraige for her own sake.. Anandi was a scapegoat in all of these..

8. A who thinks child marriage is the "only" evil that led to hers and Jagya's marraige failure.. which is ablsolutely wrong CVs.. y cant she see it was Jagya's fault as well and she has all rights to question him for his illtreatment.. this issue HAS to be raised!

It was due to Jagya's immature, irresponsible, inconsiderate, selfish, and unfaithful behaviour towards Anandi tht led to their marraige's failure.. Y shouldnt Anandi raise this issue with Jagya CVs.. in a way CVs and Anandi justified J's infidelity under pretense of Child Marraige.. 😲 i think CVs should distinguish between these 2 issues..

1. Evils and consequences of Child marriage.

2. Evils and consequences of Infedility...

till now BV has met the expectations in regards to the social issues rasied.. now i wish after this first issue of consequences of child marraige is dealt with.. they tackle the issue of Jagya's infedility...

I strongly oppose if CVs ignore the issue of Jagya's infidility and the demeaning treatment he meted out on Anandi.. Every girl has a self-respect.. Anandi may have failed to raise her voice at right time.. bt its time CVs recuperate her stance..

It would be interesting to see wat is Gauri's stance in all these give her character protrayal.. how his relationship with J shapes up.. and how Anandi gains back her self respect..

I wish CVs dont get confused and do full justice to all these issues.. bt all in all, i think BV deserves the top spot on TRP chart with its current storyline..👏

p.s.: in every marriage.. as in case of indian marraige too.. the ppl getting married take certain vows.. and i believe if they r not adult enough to understand that.. both traditionally and ethically, they are not married... the verses/mantras/pandit seek their consent 1st b4 proceeding further (which i think is a grt thot in Indian tradition).. and their consent is not true unless they understand enuf properly and r responsible enuf to fulfill the vows.. so any sort of child mrg too doesnt hold true religiously or traditionally.. forget about the legality or social acceptance..😳

Edited by achiever - 14 years ago

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deep153134

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Posted: 14 years ago

Infidelity is an issue in child marriage. What CVs did wrong was mixing 3 irrational tracks together..

1. The track that the Jagya grows up and gets interested in another girl and chooses her instead as his partner.

2. Jagys goes to study in city and get influenced by life there and starts calling out everything back home as Gawar and revolts back and refuses to identify with it.

3. Bringing back Gudiya as Gowri to create more drama and TRPs

Now its all a mess... People get confused what to hate and whom to hate.😕

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Anmol Jain

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Posted: 14 years ago

yaa they did mix,
they should not have ruined jagya character to such an extent,
the msg against child marriage would have gone in a far better way
right now many r not focusing on theme that is child marriage, they r focusing on infedility
and thats why such intense hate against jagya. its cvs fault
the cvs r trying to rectify their mistake now
but i guess the damage has been done, they need to save jagya's character now so that the mistakes on their part will be rectified, further butchering of jagya will make it worse , i feel
yaa i agree it would have been better if gauri was not gudiya, they compromised it for the sake of drama

Edited by intruderfast - 14 years ago

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shalgo

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: deep153134
Infidelity is an issue in child marriage. What CVs did wrong was mixing 3 irrational tracks together..

1. The track that the Jagya grows up and gets interested in another girl and chooses her instead as his partner.

2. Jagys goes to study in city and get influenced by life there and starts calling out everything back home as Gawar and revolts back and refuses to identify with it.

3. Bringing back Gudiya as Gowri to create more drama and TRPs

Now its all a mess... People get confused what to hate and whom to hate.😕

I think we viewers have also been conditioned to either hate or love someone...thanks to our serials... and have always had it easy. this is evil...this is god

but guys, think about it, in reality i think characters and situations are always grey...there is always some selfishness, some mahanta, some compulsion, some past experiences, upbringing, basic personalities which drives a human decision and actions. and real life situations are typically complicated...I think BV is trying to show a story (As real as possible) and not preaching a moral story where one can put the entire blame on child marriage and say "Child Marraiages are bad for the society". This is just one of the messages. I think BV CVs are doing a fine job

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achiever

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: deep153134
Infidelity is an issue in child marriage. What CVs did wrong was mixing 3 irrational tracks together..

-- yeah.. i forgot the whole "saala main to sahaab ban gaya.. sahaab ban ke kaisa tan gaya track"😆😆😆..

Now its all a mess... People get confused what to hate and whom to hate.😕

Red: 😆.. yeah.. so much of confusion.. the ppl who love J_G cant hate J..😆... ppl who luv J_A cant love J..😆 ppl who love DS.. remain in forever confusion...🤣

ironically, if J_A made a jodi thn BV social issue of child marraige suffers..😆 so thye had to separate J_A!!!😆😆😆

bt thn they separated at the sake of J and his erratic behaviour.. even J wudnt b able to explain wat he did y he did...🤣

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achiever

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: shalgo

in reality i think characters and situations are always grey...there is always some selfishness, some mahanta, some compulsion, some past experiences, upbringing, basic personalities which drives a human decision and actions. and real life situations are typically complicated...I think BV is trying to show a story (As real as possible) and not preaching a moral story where one can put the entire blame on child marriage and say "Child Marraiages are bad for the society". This is just one of the messages. I think BV CVs are doing a fine job

Firstly, black..

no one can argue tht.. thy r really really bad for a healthy society and especially a young girl.. its like child slavery 🤢.. i strongly oppose it..

as for the grey characters, its true.. bt at least some integrity is required.. reminds me Tapasya.. of Uttaran... i wonder if such a character exists in real life.. coz normally ppl learn from their past mistakes and turn a new leaf after a phase of suffering, sorrow, and regret..😕

talking of BV, there is lot more to c of J-G.. i guess..

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Shyam

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: deep153134
Infidelity is an issue in child marriage. What CVs did wrong was mixing 3 irrational tracks together..

1. The track that the Jagya grows up and gets interested in another girl and chooses her instead as his partner.

2. Jagys goes to study in city and get influenced by life there and starts calling out everything back home as Gawar and revolts back and refuses to identify with it.

3. Bringing back Gudiya as Gowri to create more drama and TRPs

Now its all a mess... People get confused what to hate and whom to hate.😕

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3rd point is what I liked the most. It is just for TRP as it doesn't serve any other purpose in the context. It would have been better if they would have shown Gauri as a girl different from Gudiya. Then things would have been clearly shown.

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tanvismile

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Posted: 14 years ago

nice post ,atleast not like other posts which are just to bash characters

u have asked valid points ,i feel have nt confused the two issues but its just way how these things tend to hapen the root cause is child marriage ,now A is taking as the whole things as due to child marriage ,although she is wrong but that is mentality of every balika vadhu who has been left out ,for them husband is like their god whom they will never oppose,it is to tell balika vadhu also has to raise her voice.the truth is her life is destroyed that s what people think ,rrural women are not ,i m not goin to let this happen ,who the hell he is to cheat me ...

regarding gauri jagat they want acceptance so they are telling it to the family ,gauri somewhere reached the same point where she was much earlier ,i think she will be grey after this ,she has cheated twice by the family ,they never thought about her before throwing so y she will think?this is just assuption of future story becoz cvs have to continue the show .but as of now G -J dint think about anandi .it was J responsiblity actualy

what i feel is they have shown grey characters in show ,tried to make it real ,i like character like DS,basant ,jagat,gauri who r relatable not always positive.which keeps the story intersting.

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Shyam

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: intruderfast
yaa they did mix,
they should not have ruined jagya character to such an extent,
the msg against child marriage would have gone in a far better way
right now many r not focusing on theme that is child marriage, they r focusing on infedility
and thats why such intense hate against jagya. its cvs fault
the cvs r trying to rectify their mistake now
but i guess the damage has been done, they need to save jagya's character now so that the mistakes on their part will be rectified, further butchering of jagya will make it worse , i feel
yaa i agree it would have been better if gauri was not gudiya, they compromised it for the sake of drama

In fact they are continuously taking Jagya's character more and more downhill. Jagya insulting Gehna, Basant and Bhairav in yesterday's episode was not required at all. They could have shown him explaining things to them like he explained to Gauri. Instead they are bent on making him as heartless as anyone can ever be. How can such a person ever love someone other than himself.
Now I feel they will show dramatic changes in his character just like they did for Dadisa (for Anandi) and turn him into a normal person.

So many episodes have passed, but I am still amazed how Dadisa can change like this. Probably her character will take a u-turn again. She said in one episode that the thing that she cares the most is the prestige of the family and if her love for Jagya is too small compared to it, then what she feels for Anandi is nothing in front of that.

CVs can do anything ... Its a well-known fact.

Edited by prime1985 - 14 years ago

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Anmol Jain

@intruderfast

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: tanvismile
nice post ,atleast not like other posts which are just to bash characters
agreed sensible post indeed

u have asked valid points ,i feel have nt confused the two issues but its just way how these things tend to hapen the root cause is child marriage

yes thats what we have been saying the root cause is child marriage , not jagya bewafaai,but cvs mesed up somehwere , so ppl r seeing this as jagya bewafaai storynow

A is taking as the whole things as due to child marriage ,although she is wrong but that is mentality of every balika vadhu who has been left out ,for them husband is like their god whom they will never oppose,it is to tell balika vadhu also has to raise her voice.the truth is her life is destroyed that s what people think ,rrural women are not ,i m not goin to let this happen ,who the hell he is to cheat me ...

regarding gauri jagat they want acceptance so they are telling it to the family ,gauri somewhere reached the same point where she was much earlier ,i think she will be grey after this ,she has cheated twice by the family ,they never thought about her before throwing so y she will think?point taken and she still is not thinking ill for the family , she just want acceptance as bahu and then j and g would leave quietly, some ppl say she has come for money , wow , 😡this is just assuption of future story becoz cvs have to continue the show .but as of now G -J dint think about anandi .it was J responsiblity actualy

what i feel is they have shown grey characters in show ,tried to make it real ,i like character like DS,basant ,jagat,gauri who r relatable not always positive.which keeps the story intersting.

yaa nothing is premanent here, i am very sure j will be back to good, reg gauri , i still dont see her as negative yet, yes she is confusing me ,her family did suffer due to singh family she is just blaming everyone esp dadisa, i dont think she has any intention to harm anyone, but still things will be more clear in future episodes

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