Does Riddhima have any self respct? 10/11 epi

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hi everyone

Just saw the episode and I have a mixed reaction unlike most of you.

The positives:

1.Acting by all 3 characters
2. Riddhima confessed that Armaan is her love and Sid is her farz
3. Sid found out the truth about AR's relationship and he finally acknowledged that AR's l ove story is very unique and not everyone can understand them

The negatives:

1. Another heartfelt goodbye between AR. Oh God..how many goodbyes will they have with the same dialogues? Tum khush rehna etc etc.....Seriously, I am tired of their goodbyes that don't really mean anything to both A and R because they are so stuck on each other. High time, they stop doing this goodbye drama for our sake and their own sanity.

2. Ridz pleading Sid for another chance. Does this woman have no self respect? She has cheated on Sid emotionally and physically, has acknowledged that another man is the love of her life, and still wants to work things out in a loveless marriage? Are men such puppets and desperate that they will continue to stay married to woman who just considers marriage a farz? This is marriage,my dear Riddhima, not a battlefield!

I am sorry, the writers disappointed me with Ridz's last scene today. How I wish, she had decided to stay alone and find her pehchan independent of all the men in her life.

Is she really that scared of divorce? For heaven sakes, this is the 21 st century and she is an educated woman- divorces do happen and yes they are not pleasant but in this situation you would do a favor to 3 people by signing on those papers.

So,my prediction....Ridz the ziddi girl will never divorce even if that means hell for everyone. Will Sid have to die now? How original! Please Cvs don't do the same ghisapita formula...no need to kill Sid for AR reunion. Please that is my humble request.


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-DavneetKaur- thumbnail
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Posted: 15 years ago
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di i think she will sign but will make alot of drama first ....dont worry kudi line pe dheere dheere aa jaayegiiiiiiii
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Posted: 15 years ago
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lol.. where did you get this idea of killing Sid from?😆
Agreed, the line, "Gimme one more chance" was pathetic.. but we all knew Ridz never understood marriage right?. One needs to be "married" in the right sense of the word to understand marriage, by staying married nobody is doing their spouse any favor..
Ridz has gotten this concept all wrong.. I think she feels obligated to Sid and some how staying with him is gonna repay for everything he did to her??.. She probably thinks she'll betray Sid if she signs those papers..😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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First goodbye scene between AR was outstanding..it was so repetetive today :-(
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Posted: 15 years ago
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thnx for this bheegi! good post!

but remember ridz is shashank's daughter and has had a very strict upbringing. with no one to support her at all emotionally dont know where her parents and sis disappeared to and we know what shashank's advice is in this matter! i think she is sticking onto her farz coz she feels that is what she is supposed to do! She lacks the guts to go with armaan. its a little unrealistic considering she is educated and its 21st century! neverthless in a country like india so many women do stay in unhappy loveless marriages just coz they are married and they dont want a divorce! even in this forum there are some people who are voicing their opinion that ridzie shud stay with Sid coz of the marriage bonds isn't it? Despite the fact that she does not love him knowing this we get such comments! So what of outside world? Not everyone wants to live and let live I guess!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i like your 2nd point in 'the negatives'
watching that scene .. i was just like ' whaat? is she serious'
but by the precap.. we can see that Sid probably ignores her & gives the divorce papers..
yeah i agree with you on another thing.. i doubt she'll sign.. but i dnt think they'll kill Sid
they said DMG will have a happy ending.. remember ?😉
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hi di,

Riddhima has truly lost her marbles! What is wrong with her (or rather the writers), have they forgotten the little soliloquy of her's last week where she promised herself to find her own identity and not be recognised as Shashank Gupta's daughter or Siddanth Modi's wife but to be known as Riddhima Gupta with no relationship strings attached.

I think the writers directly took that scene out of a funfic (Sangeeta di's work) but forgot to give context to the dialogues.

Why are the CV hell bent of showing Riddhima in such a pathetic state is beyond anyone's understanding. She could have walked out of both men's life with dignity. But no a bhartia nari never dares to cross the boundaries a marriage does she?!

I really don't want Sid's death (??) to be the cause of AR's reunion, this kills the whole essence of a strong love story.

And I doubt Riddhima will sign the papers till the last episode of the show😆

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Ridz is a drama queen. She cannot do anything the easy way.

Sid has finally given her an out from the loveless marriage but she still doesn't want to let go.

She is really obsessed with her 'farz'

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hey Bheegi.
I agree with your post. Ridhima needs to learn to stand up for herself (I've been saying this for quite some time now but it seems that the character is just not as strong as it looks).She is definitely ruining 3 lives and she needs to understand the importance of marriage and how much responsibility there is.
However, I do disagree with your first negative point a little. Although I am tired of watching the same repetitive scenes again and again, one positive thing about it is that no matter how many times Armaan and Ridhima bid farewell to each other, they will always end up coming back together. With each goodbye, their relationship is getting stronger. But yeah, it is getting boring watching the same scenes although they are very touching.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i personally feel she will create a lot of hungama and drama b4 signing ...bt she will wen she seec hw much she years armaan over saving her her marriage...

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