Does Riddhima have any self respct? 10/11 epi - Page 7

@sayali_babes...... the bold and the caps was grt....... however I did mention serial there. So yeah it is valid, but perhaps I haven't seen a serial show it.

@ JShukla - no idea 😆

Originally posted by: JShukla

Agreed with almost all except the Sid part........tee hee........... no surprise coming from a once upon a time SR fan and now a Sid fan......

Understanding AR relation is no big deal............ they have loved like madly in love couple love each other........ In those terms Sid is no naivete, because no one can contest that the guy really loves R.

Ok so a man in love tries to woo a woman who is also his wife and in the process is told by this same woman tht she wants to be with him? He belives her, considering that R did show him hari jhandi a lot of times.

And then a man who loves his wife tries to act cupid between Hubby-wifey saying the wife wants to stay with hubby and likes him......... Hubby agrees.........

So where is the husband's fault in above 2 scenarios.....??? Why it is being perceived as him being at fault for not understanding their love,...... when clearly they both are guilty of making him believe what he believed

Also Sid'd dialogs of self -reflection, almost look like written by an ardent AR fan......... Pardon me but he says" Mein hi Armaan aur Riddhimma ke pyar ko samajh nahi Paya"

If someone has failed in understanding it is clearly R who does not even realise what a big crime she has committed by remaining committed to a marriage.................If only she had left Sid a while longer............. his hrt break would have been less severe..........

Also I hated the way Sid was kind of pitied by R during her dialogs to A...... Did she actually belive that he is not good enough to find a better girl than herself...........???? DID SHE??? How stupid can she be!! Which man in his right senses would continue in such a marriage.

He is only doing her a favour by not publicly advertising the reason for his divorce.😡 ................ I am saying he is doing a favour to 'her' by not being public about her infedelity, because Armaan anyways gives a damn about public opinions. (Uunlike others I feel it is emotional infedelity rather than physical, which makes it even more severe!! )

About the rest I agree............ tht fool of a woman will believe she is doing a great job by sacrificing her love, 🤢without realising she is sacrificing Sid's happiness. Coz anyways I dont care much about A and R 's happiness anyday😛

Gr8 post Bheegi.............I am almost in agreement with all you said

thanks J shukla....there is no doubt, it's Ridz who is at fault right from the get go..whether it was an impulsive decision to get married, pleading Sid after her suicide attempt, giving both guys mixed messages and now acknowledging that she loves A but wants to stay with S😕
These men are not her personal servants who would do whatever she desires....has she ever thought from their POV? Why is it always her POV?

Originally posted by: KaJenYaianSanju

I agreee no more drama please...I'm tired of all these dramas....Riddhima has confessed her feelings and all three charatcers know it, then who is she even trying to fool or who is she still obliged to? gosh!! I know CVs don't stretch this track!

i agree...even an ardent AR fan like me is tired of this nautanki....just unite AR and finish it off on a happy note😃

Ditto Di!
i was rather disappointed! i wonder when i will stop having expectations! LOL maybe after it ends!

apart from Kajens acting, i didnt rly find anything interesting, leaving riddhimas confession aside..!

the whole good bye scene had been done couple of times now.. last time it was armaan making ridhdima smile and this time it was riddhima..
and again farz😳 shes gotto be kiiding me..
first time: pressure
second time: mistake.. okay whatever
THIRD time: ??? * pulls her hair out in frustration*

why is she so hell bent on ruining her life along with the two boys!
sid was right! life is to be lived once, and not live on others terms and negotiations, live happily on your own terms and conditions and live the way YOU want! grrrr!

Originally posted by: jyothi_misri

Actually speaking its the cvs who are more worried about bringing up this track where a girl can live according to her wish like where her heart lies. I feel the cvs are bit scared to show that on tv. SO they are trying to adopt a way where the husband itself recognises what girl wants and lets her free. Though i doubt how much Riddhima is going to agree with it.
This time no dragging please.
Even if Riddhima doesnt want to go back Armaan right now, its fine for me. She can take as much as time she wants.
This is how the story i want it to be, like Riddhima living her own life making her own identity. This can be shown as a leap too. Then after that she can choose to start her life afresh with Armaan. That will make the story look good rather than her sticking to stay in marraige even though her heart doesn't lie in it or just going back to Armaan immediately also is not good.
I expected her either to choose marriage or to live alone. As i expected, the first prediction came true coz its Riddhima afterall.

Jyothi, the CVs have shown Ridz as a very weak character this season just so both the men can continue to look good and maintain their fan following. Unfortunately, the Cvs care more about the fans of KSG and KW than giving us a good story. That's why time and again they make Ridz as the weak character. I am appalled at what they made Ridz say yesterday....why are they still trying to please everyone?

A leap would be good and welcome but at the rate they are going, ARS circle will keep rolling till the last episode😆

Originally posted by: munks

Completely agree. Sid totally deserves better and she still doesn't seem to get it! What the heck is she asking for a second chance for?? She's proved to him beyond a shadow of doubt who she loves. And he isn't with her as a compromise, he's with her because of love. So give her another shot ...at what, exactly?? Break his heart beyond repair? Show how she can be a wife who will never let him into her heart completely? How then has she stopped being unfaithful? I think I put in another post that her infidelity started way before the tent scene and I would have to reiterate that today as well. If Sid's self-respect had not reared it's much needed head, she would have continued on the path to emotional infidelity again......her dialog as she reflected on Armaan's reaction today proves it.

Sid was right when he said that she hurt Armaan AND him today.

Ridhdhima should have had the decency to tell Sid she loves Armaan and she does not want Sid to compromise in life. They could have shown her admitting that she made every attempt to move on and much as she had developed feelings for Sid, they still could not nullify her obsession with Armaan. And she is obsessed. In fact, more so, I think, than Armaan can ever hope to be.

And she should have the decency to treat Armaan the way he should be treated and not just take him for granted.

All I can say is, the CVs have succeeded. Sid has come out smelling like the proverbial rose (deservedly). Armaan has made amends for his erratic behavior. And Ridhdhima has held true to people's expectations of an externally emancipated, internally regressive character.

The Cvs think that by showing Ridz weak and men Godly, they can keep the viewers hooked. They don't realize that shows that do well show women as strong characters. Bad boys don't disgust audience as much as weak women do😕 because the majority of audience is female

Originally posted by: IloveARLove

Bheegi, i never thought on your lines but have been compelled to...
Well, I dont know if its a self-respect problem or the typical stand she has been takingsince she has been married. Exactly like the fans of SR to be precise. SR fans are convinced that life should be given a 2nd chance. Once married, the girl cannot return back to her roots even if she had got married by social pressures. You know what I mean...she is THE GIRL who IS married and she just cannot turn back and live the life she WANTS to inspite of realizing how much she LOVES Armaan.
And I might not call this even stupid. Today, we do have some people who believe that once the girl is married, she cannot listen to her heart. She has to move on happilly, and with an awesome hubby like SId, whats the problem. he is so loving, adjusting etc etc.......BUT PEOPLE FAIL TO REALIZE THAT LIFE IS JUST TOO SHORT to live in illusion. AR love was not a casual love. This couple were no less than eternally love personified. ANd Ridhima did not have a normal fling over armaan that she needs to listen to the society to move on with Sid..
And talking about divorce...well, SR marriage hardly had a marriage in it.....wats in breaking that relation is something Ridz needs to realize.
But it shall come gradually...coz HOME IS WHERE THE HEART IS...And Ridhima's home can only be where Armaan is!!!!
Lets see how this lovely story unfolds.
Rest later,
Pri😳

Pri....the way she was pleading for another chance, very well aware that Sid knows everything about her real feelings is definitely a sign of a woman who neither respects herself nor the two men in her life.What makes her so sure that Sid will accept her wholeheartedly while she continues to stay married with no heart in the relationship?? Things better unfold fast as even an ardent AR fan like me will lose patience

I dont know whether the problem is lack of self respect or sensitivity or common sense or respect to others!!! I dont know what made her ask for second chance to Sid!!!! What does she think a wife is?? A job????
This character is stooping such low levels of disgrace, i pity those pen it!!!!

rolzz, the cvs are trying to suggest that ridhhimaa is a bharatiya naari who cant leave her husband even if she makes his life a hell.so want to show that this divorce is happening not becoz of her but the husband. trying to redeem a character which is just going from bad to worse, lol