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Posted: 15 years ago

Ok seriously..there is a limit!! Radha bua is treating Suhana and Deepak realllyyy bad...well ok we understand the pain she had to go through..but its not even Deepak's fault! And Radha Bua slapped Suhana!! Why dont they just tell Suhana the truth!!!! Suhana is leaving the house...i am really sad but at the same time i am happy that she is leaving..🥱🤢
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Nach_Baliye

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Posted: 15 years ago

Suhana is leaving? Where did you see that?
First of all, Radha bua has no rights at all to slap Suhana. Yes Suhana is dense and kept insisting even though Radha bua kept saying no, but Radha has no rights whatsoever to hit Suhana - she is not even Suhana's MIL or anything.

I find Radha's character very annoying. First of all, it has been what 18-20 years since the incident happened? She keeps yelling that the family does not understand her, but actually keeping Deepak away from herself and keeping him from having a normal life for that long is wrong. As a kid, Deepak did not look like his father. Only after he grew up did he start looking like him. But it looks like Radha left him as a kid. Radha herself is not even related to the family and yet she lives with them and feels grateful for the love. But she herself has not developed the ability to give it to someone else who needs it. Basically, if the family had not taken her in, she would have kept Deepak apart, so being taken in by the family has made no difference to her personality and hatred in her heart.

And keeping Deepak away from the family is torture. Why should Deepak not have a right to the same family that Radha has? Radha is a grown woman. Granted she has had a bad life, but after becoming a part of this family her life has improved - why can she not give back what she gets? Radha seems a very selfish character, and I sympathize with Deepak.

Suhana should leave the family - I am glad she is leaving. The family is crazy insane about side-stepping Radha's feelings, and they shouldn't have to - they should be able to be themselves.

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sidra

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Nach_Baliye
Suhana is leaving? Where did you see that?
First of all, Radha bua has no rights at all to slap Suhana. Yes Suhana is dense and kept insisting even though Radha bua kept saying no, but Radha has no rights whatsoever to hit Suhana - she is not even Suhana's MIL or anything.

I find Radha's character very annoying. First of all, it has been what 18-20 years since the incident happened? She keeps yelling that the family does not understand her, but actually keeping Deepak away from herself and keeping him from having a normal life for that long is wrong. As a kid, Deepak did not look like his father. Only after he grew up did he start looking like him. But it looks like Radha left him as a kid. Radha herself is not even related to the family and yet she lives with them and feels grateful for the love. But she herself has not developed the ability to give it to someone else who needs it. Basically, if the family had not taken her in, she would have kept Deepak apart, so being taken in by the family has made no difference to her personality and hatred in her heart.

And keeping Deepak away from the family is torture. Why should Deepak not have a right to the same family that Radha has? Radha is a grown woman. Granted she has had a bad life, but after becoming a part of this family her life has improved - why can she not give back what she gets? Radha seems a very selfish character, and I sympathize with Deepak.

Suhana should leave the family - I am glad she is leaving. The family is crazy insane about side-stepping Radha's feelings, and they shouldn't have to - they should be able to be themselves.

I read the article here http://www.india-forums.com/tellybuzz/article.asp?id=7197
its on the home page of India Forum and yes i totally agree with you...Radha is not even related to the family and i dont understand why the hell is the family supporting Radha..excuse my language but i am seriously hating her role in this show...and plus she doesnt even look like some one who has a son..who is like 20 or 22ish? Seriously if they want radha to be in this show then they have to change her look...but i dont want her in this show!!! 😡

Edited by PyarHowa - 15 years ago

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Mandy

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Posted: 15 years ago

Radha is wrong, I feel bad for Deepak and she had no right slapping Suhana. I don't like that Suhana will leave either but it may not be for long since the article states that the family knows Radha did the wrong thing. They need to speak up in Suhana's defense

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gunjabhy

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Posted: 15 years ago

What if on the very first day, she would have told entire family that suhana was telling her father that he had destroyed her life and all that crap. . . . What if every1 knws that suhana has no relationship with ishan whatsoever and she just merried ishan to SHOW HIS LOVER THAT SHE IS MERRIAGE METERIAL. How would have every1 looked at her if they find out abt sid n her still missing him??????? The way she has right to her secrets, radha bua has it too. .... I m sorry but i think she needed it.............. Slapping was too much but it wasnt without any reason. Sorry if i m hurting any1's feelings............

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vishmewell

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Posted: 15 years ago

I think RB is wrong and had no right to slap Suhana. Although I am empathetic towards RB's past, seriously... she needs therapy and counseling.

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Smriti

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Posted: 15 years ago

I agree with vishmewell - RB needs counselling desperately. Mentally, she is still stuck in a time warp and refuses to let anyone drag her out of it. Basically, Suhana is throwing todays reality of a rown-up Deepak at her, which she is refusing to face. This refusal comes in the form of a slap. Now, I'm not standing in judgement of who is right and wrong, but objectively speaking, the same way Suhaana has her secrets of Sid etc, she too has her secrets, whether right or worng.

The family should support Radha bua in working the rape night out of her system. It seems to me they also have been ostrich-like in this regard, along with her. Let her do whatever she liked, just empathising cos of what she went thru. This is so unhealthy for RB. Better now they work with her in bringing her to the reality of having a wonderful honhaar son in spite of the ugliness in when he was conceived.

Maybe Suhaana is being a catalyst in this, seeing this as an outsider.

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@lovely_lady

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Posted: 15 years ago

I do get why Radha bua is so distant towards her son, and doesnt wanna reveal the secret, but the fact that she was keeping deepak from this family was wrong. And the fact that the family is supporting her madness is bad too..

Regarding the slapping Suhana thing, there have been MANY moments on the show where I felt like slapping her. However, when Radha Bua slapped Suhana on the cake matter, that was so uncalled for. Suhana didnt even do anything wrong or inappropriate! Her intentions were purely innocent and good. Slapping someone for no reason is bad, and thats what Radha Bua did.

Later on in the show, Im pretty sure that Suhana will end up bringing this mother and son closer.

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gunjabhy

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Posted: 15 years ago

Every1 in family is letting suhana do whatever she wants to for whatsoever reason. No 1 is telling her her mistakes or nothing. Isnt that unhealthy to some extent?

Edited by gunjabhy - 15 years ago

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sidra

@sidra1993

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: gunjabhy
Every1 in family is letting suhana do whatever she wants to for whatsoever reason. No 1 is telling her her mistakes or nothing. Isnt that unhealthy to some extent?

I understand what you mean..but if you think about it radha bua and suhana both have different situation...now if we see Suhana have started to like the family...but radha is stuck in the past.

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