RADHA BUA!!!!! :( - Page 2

Originally posted by: bollywoodcrazed

Radha is wrong, I feel bad for Deepak and she had no right slapping Suhana. I don't like that Suhana will leave either but it may not be for long since the article states that the family knows Radha did the wrong thing. They need to speak up in Suhana's defense

totally agree with you! They need to speak up ASAP!

Originally posted by: bholabear

I agree with vishmewell - RB needs counselling desperately. Mentally, she is still stuck in a time warp and refuses to let anyone drag her out of it. Basically, Suhana is throwing todays reality of a rown-up Deepak at her, which she is refusing to face. This refusal comes in the form of a slap. Now, I'm not standing in judgement of who is right and wrong, but objectively speaking, the same way Suhaana has her secrets of Sid etc, she too has her secrets, whether right or worng.

The family should support Radha bua in working the rape night out of her system. It seems to me they also have been ostrich-like in this regard, along with her. Let her do whatever she liked, just empathising cos of what she went thru. This is so unhealthy for RB. Better now they work with her in bringing her to the reality of having a wonderful honhaar son in spite of the ugliness in when he was conceived.

Maybe Suhaana is being a catalyst in this, seeing this as an outsider.

Your POV?

Yes i also agree w/ vishmewell- Radha reallllyy need counseling

Suhana is a girl who is kiddish in nature but has high-values for relations and rishta's.She is just trying to improve the condition and what is radha bua doing a problem is not solved by running away as the family is doing u gotta talk about it right..

As of for now she should not lave but that common from SP there is a tradition of bahu leaving the house first sadhna then akshara and now ragini. 😒

@ gunjabhy

I do not think that anyone would insist that Radha bua should not have the right to having her own secrets... i am sure that just as suhana has her secrets, everyone in the house would have their own secrets (including badima)

but then Radha bua approaching this matter differently would have helped... if made to understand, suhana would have understood that Radha bua has her own preference in this matter due to a dire past and would prefer to have her own stance on the matter...

i think most of the statements being made by everyone is only against two things done by Radha bua -
the treatment to Deepak and
the slap to suhana...
😊

when Suhana treated Rajini and Disha badly, I think most in the forum were in support of the bhabhis revenge... none said that Suhana should not be punished whatever her deed...😊

The slap is an accumulated frustration she has been holding for a long time. She was boiling inside ever since Suhaana started questioning every one about why Radha Bua treats Deepak like that, but certainly I don't advocate her slap. that was out of limit. I hope atleast now Deepak talks to his mom and fight for her love.

She (Radha) never asked the family members to not to come close to Deepak instead they felt that right to keep her happy. But no one understood Deepak's mental condition, how the kid will feel being neglected by mother and doesn't even know who is his father. Have she ever thought what humiliation the kid would have undergone. Just by providing money will not help a child to be happy. If she had problems with the kid, if he were the outcome of the rape (by unknown person), then why the hell did she not got rod of that pregnancy. she has 2 choices, either to get rid of the pregnancy or to become single parent and bring up the child without any shortcome of love. here she gave birth to the child and discorded that (people may object by saying she is taking care of his expense) without any second thought.Badi Maa who has taken care of her kids in the absence, should have advised Radha accordingly. have you seen how Deepak rephrased Badimaas word "pyaar"????????? If i were in his position, I would never have agreed that Radha's money lending is pyaar. She should mend her ways atleast now..........

I pity deepak, in this whole situation he is the one who is most hurt i mean suhana got hurt physically but what deepak would have undergone thinking that his mother slapped suhana just because she was friendly with him .

Originally posted by: deejagi

The slap is an accumulated frustration she has been holding for a long time. She was boiling inside ever since Suhaana started questioning every one about why Radha Bua treats Deepak like that, but certainly I don't advocate her slap. that was out of limit. I hope atleast now Deepak talks to his mom and fight for her love.

She (Radha) never asked the family members to not to come close to Deepak instead they felt that right to keep her happy. But no one understood Deepak's mental condition, how the kid will feel being neglected by mother and doesn't even know who is his father. Have she ever thought what humiliation the kid would have undergone. Just by providing money will not help a child to be happy. If she had problems with the kid, if he were the outcome of the rape (by unknown person), then why the hell did she not got rod of that pregnancy. she has 2 choices, either to get rid of the pregnancy or to become single parent and bring up the child without any shortcome of love. here she gave birth to the child and discorded that (people may object by saying she is taking care of his expense) without any second thought.Badi Maa who has taken care of her kids in the absence, should have advised Radha accordingly. have you seen how Deepak rephrased Badimaas word "pyaar"????????? If i were in his position, I would never have agreed that Radha's money lending is pyaar. She should mend her ways atleast now..........

totally agree with you! Very well said 👏