SNEHA IS TO BE BLAMED - Page 4

Originally posted by: shriman

I like the character of Sneha and I think that she has done justice to her role; however, for those of you who think that she is not to blame for Manu's heart attack, here are some facts to look at:

1) Before Sneha entered the household, the family was at peace.

2) Daya lived with Manu in this manner for her entire life and even Bhavana and Jyoti were enjoying their time

3) Yes, the woman are being treated in an unfair manner, but whenever they are going through problems, Manu does something to assure that their problems are solved

NOW COMES SNEHA

4) The women are going crazy and thinking that they must fight the men in order to gain some type of "status"

I mean, come on, even though I like her, she is the one who has made hell for the family and has ruined the peace in the household. I appreciate her intentions, but she has forgotten the basic reason for why the family is at peace and co-op.

I think that she deserves some sort of punishment, along with other women in the home: Daya, Bhavana and Jyoti. They are also culprits for bringing unhappiness in the house.

So, Sneha is to be blamed as the main plot persona, but other women in the house should also get the punishment.

If you disagree with me, please remain respectful. Everyone is entitled to their opinions. 😊

Ok so because I disagree with u, I will try to be as respectful as possible. But If you think I am rude, I am sorry.

I think it is easy to say that sneha is to be blamed, but I think I wud have done the same thing If I was in her place. evey one was happy before she came, because they had learned to acept the unjust situations, but sneha didnt . If you are a guy, it id easy for you to say that because the program is male dominated. and I think that u seem to be taking women's rights very lighlty. being a feminist my self I understand that how important it is that women are males equal, and if aneha did some thing to assure the same happened in her house, then she want at fault. I say the males of hte house are at false for compelling her to take any steps. and any ways to achieve some thing, one has to pay price. SO i short i disagree with what u said, because u in some way fail to under stand women's rights.

The women in the house felt so miserable before Sneha came!! what are you talking about?? Sure, the whole OG thing was stupid... the dumb plan didn't get them anywhere.. how were they going to make the men uderstand them better? by making them fight?? how retarded and stupid is that?? I love what Sneha is standing up for, but she has the stupidest, immature ideas about how OG should be done 😡

Originally posted by: mamis

I agree. I mean if Mansukh is proud that his sons are very united with each other, what's wrong with that, the brothers are united inspite of living in a joint household. He should be proud of them. I would be! He has instilled wonderful values to his sons. One rarely sees such unity in a joint family. It was only after Sneha and the other 2 poisoned the brothers against each other, that fights and misunderstandings started in the house. It was a peaceful house till then. Yes, the women had less rights there, but they were never ill-treated in that house. There are so many daughters-in-laws who are treated like dirt at their in-laws. When i look at the Mansukh household, the women have less rights, but have respect. Don't get me wrong, women should stand up for themselves, if need arises. But the situation here was not that drastic, that Sneha and the other 2 had to take such a step. I mean, it was ok to the point where the men had to share in the household chores, like getting the milk etc etc, but there was not any need to create a rift among brothers who love each other like crazy. And that too not once, they kept on poisoning till it got out of control. That was totally wrong. This is just my opinion.

I would like to point out the real depth of the relationship shows up in adversity. The problem did not start when Sneha came into picture the problem started when Jyoti Dad was asked to compromise his integrity by MSL and sons and then when he feel sick they though solely about Jyoti as Wife, mother and daughter-in-law not as A DAUGHTER atall. THAT was WRONG! That is not as bad as what happened with Bhavna, her parents must have spent fortune to get her through medical school... apparently she is good and not a donation case... She compromised and stayed back home inspite of not being happy with the situation, what is apalling is when it was her time to do something for her family member who brought her into this world, she was not suppose to support them with her abilities THAT STINKS... SNEHA just reminded them that they were daughters before they were D-I-L and they shouls support their family keeping in mind that you disrupt the current family. THAT IS A RATIONALE expectation. When in adverse situatuion the respective husbands and F-I-L didn't support them, these things were small upheveals to prove a point in a small way (a bit exaggerated since its a soap)... A lot of things can be questioned why did Mamaji ever shared the OG conversation without ever hearing it himself... why is he not taking blame on himself for being careless. If you did think so well, won't you be more subtle!

Originally posted by: nozomi_flare

First off, sickbharati...I don't think there are words for how ridiculous that sounds--so, I won't even address that matter.

As for the show, Sneha should not be held the scapegoat for MLS's heart attack. All the women agreed to be a part of OG--now they have to deal with that fact. (Nevermind the fact that I'm willing ot bet that MLS is faking.)

The OG operation was necessary. I'm sorry but ignorance is not bliss. Just because the women were apparently ignorant of how they were living and the faults within that system, it does not mean that they should just be allowed to go on living as such. Life does not work that way. If it did, there would be no revolutions, no activist movements, no enlightenment, etc. Even if someone tells you something is right and you don't know better, so you follow along, it still does not make it right. Sneha could not sit quietly in such a situation. If anyone would like to think otherwise--tell me one thing first. What about education? These TV dramas are in fact representing our country, showing the values, customs, and beliefs that we hold dear. When our own country stresses the need for education, why should we not have that represented in these dramas? The women were ignorant, Sneha informed them of how times are changing for women and the role they play in society. And they ARE changing.

A home cannot be at peace when some of the family members are considered too inferior to be worthy of praise and their opinions don't count for much.

Understand a fact of life women are stupid and will remain stupid whether it is sneha or sonia.Men use them as door matts and will continue .Women think they are smart ,just think that way and be happy let all the males use u babes

I totally Agree with Diksha and after seeing todays episode i feel this topic is a waste seeing the character of MSL .Is he a good example ?He was lying to all and i dont think he is a good man and he doesn't deserve any credit.

Originally posted by: shriman

I like the character of Sneha and I think that she has done justice to her role; however, for those of you who think that she is not to blame for Manu's heart attack, here are some facts to look at:

1) Before Sneha entered the household, the family was at peace.

2) Daya lived with Manu in this manner for her entire life and even Bhavana and Jyoti were enjoying their time

3) Yes, the woman are being treated in an unfair manner, but whenever they are going through problems, Manu does something to assure that their problems are solved

NOW COMES SNEHA

4) The women are going crazy and thinking that they must fight the men in order to gain some type of "status"

I mean, come on, even though I like her, she is the one who has made hell for the family and has ruined the peace in the household. I appreciate her intentions, but she has forgotten the basic reason for why the family is at peace and co-op.

I think that she deserves some sort of punishment, along with other women in the home: Daya, Bhavana and Jyoti. They are also culprits for bringing unhappiness in the house.

So, Sneha is to be blamed as the main plot persona, but other women in the house should also get the punishment.

If you disagree with me, please remain respectful. Everyone is entitled to their opinions. 😊

is that MLS? 😲

now after mansukh has revealed his act do u still blame sneha . 😡
tell me something isnt mansukh disgusting

Hey Shriman, what have you got to say now that MLS is faking.

Daya also faked all along but no one was harmed , but this guy is the pitts.....

Understand a fact of life women are stupid and will remain stupid whether it is sneha or sonia.Men use them as door matts and will continue .Women think they are smart ,just think that way and be happy let all the males use u babes

I personally feel that u r a world class idiot and a fool.I am sorry moderators i know i am being rude ban me if u want to .Women are smart there are no two ways about it.You say men use women as foot mat this shows ur standard u buffoon.😡😡😡

No body is to be blamed for this heart attack, it just shows that he became weak when he learned that women in the house are trying to shake the pillars of his principles, women are starting to talk, make opinions...which is totally against his principles....If not sneha...someone else will come...and besides, sneha didnt force anyone to join OG..did she?

Yes, there was peace but at wat cost? At the cost of supressing the women's feelings and ignoring their importance...

It was soo obvious that MLS has faked the heart attack, I mean c'mon he who lied to his own daughter, wife, daughter-in-law can/will do anything to show that women r nothing but a piece of crap!