SNEHA IS TO BE BLAMED - Page 2

u're right shriman
I see ur point 😊

i totally agree with diksha_16..thankyou for making ur points so clear..very well written 👏 👏 👏

I agree with Diksha_16. There are two ways in which you could maintain peace in a household. One is the hard way in which there is constant mutual adjustment and co-operation. Even here, few fights would be inevitable but thats ok.
The other is the easy way out..letting one person's wish rule and the other follow. Mansukhlals household followed the latter and the women thought its just their fate/ responsibility to put up with it. They thought there could be no way out so they put up with it.
If someone WANTS to be happy, they can even when faced with terrible circumstances....which is what the women did. But that in no way justifies mansukh lal's rule which ordained it that way.
Yeah i have my reservations too on the way OG is fighting up (by making brothers fight against each other)...but principally i support their idea to protest.

Originally posted by: diksha_16

I disagree.

Before Sneha entered the house, yes the family was at peace..but that was coz the women were suffering from within silently , not thinking bout themselves, bt maintaining the peace at home.

I disagree that Daya & othr 2 bahus were enjoying their time. They were always upset & sick of this kinda behavior ..bt never had the guts to speak against the injustice. Sneha did not destroy the peace of the house, the women of the house were anyways uphappy, she jus showed them a way to speak their minds, instead of just keeping mum & suffering it all.

You're right that Mansukh always had a solution to their external problems & always sorted them out, but what about their internal sufferings? Don't their feelings, their emotions, their opinions matter??? All I'm trying to say that Mansukh only had solutions to external probs., bt never understood their internal sufferings.

They probably went too far with having the two brothers fight & all. But see, thats wht they had to prove...the peace of the house is maintained by the women. If they want, they can keep the house at peace, if not they can always create havoc, the way they did b/w Amar & Manoj. So, the men don't deserve much credit anways for the peace at home.

Someone's rightly said, "It's a woman who can either make or break a house"

Thats just my opinion.

I understand your point, but these women never expressed their concerns and very never in need of the "respect" that they were thinking. Jyoti, Daya and Bhavana were happy and yes, they did have internal problems, but those problems were minor in their life.

Sneha just came and started to change things for the worst. The family became hell because of the tension among brothers and Sneha's attitude towards changing attitude of the family was not totally urgent.

Her approach was just out of the marks.

These women should just stage a walkout and leave Mansukh and his stupid sons alone. Mansukh is a coniving, decietful, selfish, and overbearing human being. His sons and brother-in-law are just his lackeys. They have no minds of their own. If he has a heart attack, who will take care of him? The women will have to. He will then still give credit to his useless sons. Mansukh probably would have had a heart attack anyway. He needs an extremely drastic event to change his persona.

Originally posted by: shriman

I like the character of Sneha and I think that she has done justice to her role; however, for those of you who think that she is not to blame for Manu's heart attack, here are some facts to look at:

1) Before Sneha entered the household, the family was at peace.

2) Daya lived with Manu in this manner for her entire life and even Bhavana and Jyoti were enjoying their time

3) Yes, the woman are being treated in an unfair manner, but whenever they are going through problems, Manu does something to assure that their problems are solved

NOW COMES SNEHA

4) The women are going crazy and thinking that they must fight the men in order to gain some type of "status"

I mean, come on, even though I like her, she is the one who has made hell for the family and has ruined the peace in the household. I appreciate her intentions, but she has forgotten the basic reason for why the family is at peace and co-op.

I think that she deserves some sort of punishment, along with other women in the home: Daya, Bhavana and Jyoti. They are also culprits for bringing unhappiness in the house.

So, Sneha is to be blamed as the main plot persona, but other women in the house should also get the punishment.

If you disagree with me, please remain respectful. Everyone is entitled to their opinions. 😊

I agree. I mean if Mansukh is proud that his sons are very united with each other, what's wrong with that, the brothers are united inspite of living in a joint household. He should be proud of them. I would be! He has instilled wonderful values to his sons. One rarely sees such unity in a joint family. It was only after Sneha and the other 2 poisoned the brothers against each other, that fights and misunderstandings started in the house. It was a peaceful house till then. Yes, the women had less rights there, but they were never ill-treated in that house. There are so many daughters-in-laws who are treated like dirt at their in-laws. When i look at the Mansukh household, the women have less rights, but have respect. Don't get me wrong, women should stand up for themselves, if need arises. But the situation here was not that drastic, that Sneha and the other 2 had to take such a step. I mean, it was ok to the point where the men had to share in the household chores, like getting the milk etc etc, but there was not any need to create a rift among brothers who love each other like crazy. And that too not once, they kept on poisoning till it got out of control. That was totally wrong. This is just my opinion.

Originally posted by: aish2

yeah, I agree with u

i dont know. i think mansukhlal finally got what he deserved! even if it is a heart attack!

maybe a part of it is snehas fault but at the end of the day what goes around comes around!!

i don't agree with u that neha is to be blamed
she did only gud things come on think for a minute if u r treated bad in ur house and no one respects u .ok they don't even count u as a person so u have to do sth .
look these women's do so much but no one even cares abut them
the men's in that house see's them as a robot who should do all the work n always look beautiful that is tollay rong watever sneha did was right

i think u should do anything to get ur rights and respect

I dont agree with Shriman. Suppose you enter a land
where everyone is blindfolded, keep getting hurt due to their induced blindness and accept it as a way of life.
what would you do?
Open others fold or put a blind fold on your eyes too?
Besides, i dont understand one thing.
Before mansukhlal had/pretended a heart attack, every1 was in full arm support for OG....then why the change now?
What if Jyoti had a heart attack if the donor didnt miraculously appear on time? what about Hetals suffering when she knew it was her own dad who struck off her name from flying club?
And Shriman, the problems suffered by the women are in no way MINOR. I just cant stand how a qualified doctor (Bhavna) has to helplessly look on while her parents go to penury.
Its worth observing that women of the household have greater capacitance for bearing Mansukh than Mansukh has for bearing the rebel of women!!!

mansukh is a great man .Every woman should be opressed .Women dont deserve freedom.Sneha should marry me she is a great looking girl though