Update for Wed - 02/05/12 - TA back to full form!!

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Mahadevan Venkitaraman

@maha2us

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#21

Thanks Shubba for the nice detailed update.

The way TA cornered Bhuvana was really beautiful. Still I wonder has he really told Prabha the truth that Bhu is T's biological mom. I still believe when Bhu talks to Prabha, he will realize Bhu is T's mom. But from then on he will really be loving to T and both will have nice sibling relationship.

What TA told the GW also was nice by which she was cornered and so Laav was forced to listen to what TA had to say. Whatever TA said on the day had full effects as Laav was forced to open out. TA managed to make laav tell she was feeling insecurity in Nit's home and she told how she could get the security there. Of course her conditions are absurd and she has to get the security by changing her own outlook and not by making Nit do something.

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Mahadevan Venkitaraman

@maha2us

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#22

@Desi: This is based on your comments. Definitely Laav needs financial security. Nit also earned not a single paisa. One point is she knew this even as she got married to Nitish. Why didn't she think of this that time?

As you say, may be this is the way a DIL will behave when MIL tries to control her. Still from what we have seen, Laav never seemed to be liking to take any responsibility. Wasn't laav seeing with her own eyes how her own mom behaving with Sudha and T? GW probably was trying to control Sudha. But Sudha even as she stayed with GW won the love of her husband. Why can't laav behave that way? It is OK, Laav didn't like her MIL and wanted to take some action based on the way Nit's mom behaved. But she lost because, she never loved her husband unconditionally. Going against her husband doesn't make sense. If laav had been unconditionally loving to her husband, she could win against her MIL. It seemed she wanted Nit to start a new business, not for inspiring Nit but for getting financial control.

As example, Laav could personally do the cooking for Nitish learning his likes, and serve him personally. This she could extend to GP also and win over him so that he is a good friend of her. Also laav could have made the bedroom cleamed everyday so Nit likes to be there. As another alternative Laav could have gone for a job, so that she is preoccupied and not affected by what her MIL says. Thus she has many choices.

Edited by maha2us - 13 years ago

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Arizes.

@Arizes.

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#23

A big reason why Lav listened to TA's talks
1) He shut GW mouth promptly by letting her down in talking about his dad and giving her a emotional shock.
2) THIS IS THE SOLID REASON - He did not use the word "Thulasi" even once or said she only gave the idea to sort out Nitish/Lav issue and again he was desperate in trying to calm down without losing patience...
We know how it would have been if atleast once he used T's name and the reaction to it...the thanmana queens might forced him out of the house w/o any second thought

Lav asking for her security
Now that Lavanya knows that her in-laws knew what she was upto - planning against T and tried to bring in C. They quoted the same reason and sent her too. Suppose if she again goes back w/o doing all these nonsense(fighting/bashing) she thinks they might take advantage of her and even plan against her to any level(She thinks everyone are like mom/like her). May be that is the reason she asked the business to be changed in her name and thinks if the business is in her name, she thinks they might be careful with her for the business sake. What a level of thought. She encashed 10lakhs money to threaten them that they would come behind her for the money and also threatened them to go ahead for divorce thinking she can put them on a toss and let them down in society. With such thinking she tried to control GP family with GW's plans. Also when TA said he would convince Nitish and asked her what she wanted she used it rightly so that her position at the house is not going to be down. Now that if business is in her name, Nitish cannot taunt her with things what she did and she thinks Nitish will adjust with her keeping in mind that the business is in her name. So its absolute mind game and to cover up her mistakes and ensure that none taunts her for the same.

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Arizes.

@Arizes.

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: cutepair

TT conversation was nice,both of them are always nice to everyone else like mannipom marappom motto. Though what T said was right,I dont agree with her when she said she learnt this good behaviour from TA. She showed compassion to Vel when he was in coma and helped him to come out of it even though he behaved the worst with her. So hubby and wife are the same,thats what attracted them to each other.😃

So true cutepair...T showed compassion towards Vel in helping him come over his sickness, but again she told TA as the reason for the same and it was again for the good deed of TA . He helped her get rid of Vel from marrying her and he additionally owned up the case for hitting VEL and she quoted that as the reason for helping Vel and that changed Vel's sister's mind and that made her take the case filed against TA. At that time when TA helped T, it was just as a human though he had a feelings for her...but then that was not only the reason for the same(his feelings towards T). He helped her for Anand's sake and at that time he has already made up his mind that T is not for him. So he helped her to overcome her issues that came thru vel and made her join college. So T stating TA as the reason can very well be taken into account. 😃.. Also he helped AP's daughter in critical situation and T acknowledged it...this incident proved that T/T are "made for each other" like Jaya said and think alike...
Putting Padma as the reason must to highlight that TA helped Padma inspite of her arrogant behaviour and an answer for the question by Ta, when he asked how could T think good for Lav inspite of their tortures. Its like in both issues T/TA helped people who did bad to them. So it actually started with TA and T using him as the reason was quiet convincing (- except for this behaviour towards T listening to GW/Lav/C - he need to really make it up for this...😍)

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Mahadevan Venkitaraman

@maha2us

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#25

Shubba, Your analysis on why Laav asked for security is indeed brilliant. The whole post indicates a nice in-depth analysis of the character. But will GW change as she realizes how tough it was in living without husband and so do her best to send back Laav to Nitish? But then GW also has her own insecurity if laav is back with Nitish and as she will then feel isolated from the kids, she would try to manipulate Laav for her own selfish needs.

Edited by maha2us - 13 years ago

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Esther John

@thendralfan007

Navigator

Posted: 13 years ago

#26

Thanks Shubba for the lovely update and the lovely comments ... 😆.

TA has at last proved to be the hero of the serial (after a long long time) ... It was just too funny to hear him call Bhu as "Athai..." ... I was reminded of the way he kept teasing Padma ... when he was newly married to T ... 🤣

Bhu was looking so lime and lemony in that lovely yellow and green saree ... the conversation proved that when it comes to teasing ... she does not hold a light to the duo T/T ... Tamil was so cute when he said that he and Prabha were calling each other "Mama and machan..." 😉

Wasn't it very irresponsible of Lav to have lost the file? How can she hope to act as a PA to the great Bhu if she cannot keep such a document carefully? This proves that she is only in Bhu's service because of the hatred that she has shown towards T/T...😡

Nit is so fed up with being insulted by Lav ... that I am sure he will not agree to the said conditions ... because without such power itself Lav has proved to be a devil ... then he will think twice about giving her so much power ...

T for once was in the mood to give his mother back in the same tone👍🏼 ... however he backed down again when he was leaving 😡 though for the few seconds it was nice to see GW receiving back the gutter that she enjoys throwing on others.

During T/T conversation there was a nice opportunity for T to open her heart and talk about what was troubling her with regard to XXX ... but she did not discuss it and it still like a wall between them ... I hope it does not grow as big as a chasm ... .😕

Edited by thendralfan007 - 13 years ago

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JAYASHREE

@vjayam

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: shubba

So true cutepair...T showed compassion towards Vel in helping him come over his sickness, but again she told TA as the reason for the same and it was again for the good deed of TA . He helped her get rid of Vel from marrying her and he additionally owned up the case for hitting VEL and she quoted that as the reason for helping Vel and that changed Vel's sister's mind and that made her take the case filed against TA. At that time when TA helped T, it was just as a human though he had a feelings for her...but then that was not only the reason for the same(his feelings towards T). He helped her for Anand's sake and at that time he has already made up his mind that T is not for him. So he helped her to overcome her issues that came thru vel and made her join college. So T stating TA as the reason can very well be taken into account. 😃.. Also he helped AP's daughter in critical situation and T acknowledged it...this incident proved that T/T are "made for each other" like Jaya said and think alike...
Putting Padma as the reason must to highlight that TA helped Padma inspite of her arrogant behaviour and an answer for the question by Ta, when he asked how could T think good for Lav inspite of their tortures. Its like in both issues T/TA helped people who did bad to them. So it actually started with TA and T using him as the reason was quiet convincing (- except for this behaviour towards T listening to GW/Lav/C - he need to really make it up for this...😍)

So true shubba

yes, T helped out vel but as you pointed out one of the reasons was also to help TA come out of the case and when TA helped her it was just to social work even though getting insulted by T many times. Similarly T too helped padma when she fell unconscious even though she has been at the receiving end so many times. So TT are alike and at the same time T quoting TA's helpful nature is just so right.

Also what u said abt lav case also was just what I thought. TA not taking T's name at any name was the biggest advantage this time as also TA's tone. This time he was really convinced by T that helping lav was more important than reacting to what she says in a fit of anger. That part TA played to perfection this time. Unmindful of her words whn bhu came and also after packing off bhu, his attitude and way of talking to lav and bringing back the situation really made the difference...

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Esther John

@thendralfan007

Navigator

Posted: 13 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: jinju
Lav ... should really go and hang herself... What double standards ...🤢
...knew the torture she went through with her MIL is nothing compared to what T went through with her ponnana mother

...bashed her brothers to the core for going thani kudathanam and blamed her SILs

...Lav needs to learn her lessons the hard way.

Absolutely right Jinju👏 ... even though she seems to have some kind of a genuine feelings towards Nit ... she is still only after money but now it is coated with the sweet word "security" ... and as you have rightly said ... she preaches one thing when it concerns other people but when it comes to her own life her actions state the opposite ... a total two faced woman ...😡🤢

Nit really needs to act like a cave man and melt this Ice Queen Lavanya in such a way that she will realise that her pasture is much greener than others...🤣

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Thendral_USA

@Thendral_USA

Inactive

Posted: 13 years ago

#29

@Shubba

Your analysis has completely brought out Lav's character and her filthy way of thinking. A total hypocrite with double standards, with her atitude she can never love anyone and will be unhappy even in heaven. She had many opportunities to win over GP family, but always tried to get control of money and power in the household. She knew even before marriage that Nit was not working independently; so it doesn't make any sense for her to rue abt this well after marriage as she married him thinking that all GP's money would be hers soon!! Nit's mom may not have behaved very nicely with her initially, but she didn't do her bit to win her over and instead started scheming with GW against her. Also, she knew very well how her mom behaved with T/S and she didn't empathize with them. Her atitude still shows that she wants the money so she can be safe from Nit/GP family taunts abt her misdeeds. She caused so much problems in Nit family w/o a penny and now if she has money, she will totally spin them around. Also her thought now clearly brings out her remorseless nature; she is not ready to own up or accept her mistakes and instead wants her in-laws to apologize. Does she even deserve the kind of security she is asking for?? If Lav were even 50% like T, things would have been better. Lav just wants to grab and snatch everything by blackmailings/threats and she needs to know that she needs to earn these by her love and hardwork.

True that when she motivated Nit to start his business, she didn't do it for Nit, but just wanted money and power in her hands.

I was totally annoyed by T's talks yesterday abt how Lav could have suffered at GP household. However, felt somewhat convinced that she wanted happiness and peace for TA by helping them get back together.

I just hope that Nit in his sane mind would never accept Lav's conditions. He was already a puppet and would be reduced to a slave if he does so.

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karthika

@KarthiN90

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#30

Thanks shubba akka for ur wonderful update🤗 ...loved ur side comments...😉

TA and T scene was nice...Somehow I convinced with T's mission regarding lav's issue.😕...It is all for TA's happiness...❤️...

I hope nitish never accept lav condition...otherwise she will take more advantage...ipavae kaila pudika mudiyala...if he agree...avalo thaan GP family...Govinda govinda...🤣🤣

WOW! Bhuvana and TA scene was too good...👍🏼super combination maapillai and mamiyar...waiting for more scene like this...