It is Lav's atitude which is totally wrong. With her atitude, she cannot survive as a dil even with God!! she entered gp house with nit not married according to their wishes, so, it would have taken some time for them esp, Nit's mom to accept her. Even in any normal marriage, it takes some time for the mil and dil to get used to each other and understand other's views. She has seen how her own GW mom treated S or T. So, whatever she went thru at GP's house is hardly anything compared to her sils. She wanted to basically assume authority everywhere w/o taking a tinge of responsibility. She took everything for granted at GP's house just like how she assumes now that GP's wealth will automatically come to her kid, which is totally wrong!! Nit, being the only kid and a little pampered was a little irresponsible in the beginning and did mistakes and GP did scold him for these as a dad and as a boss. However, Lav has to understand that even if Nit had worked in any other company, his boss would not have tolerated his mistakes!! Also, initially PA/TA too were not so responsible, but S and T worked hard to mould them with their love, not by their blackmailings/teasings. As for the microwave, it would have been better if she had asked her mil before she made the decision instead of making one on her own as she had just entered the GP house. That way she could have gained her Mil trust. Since she didn't even consult with her mil, Nit's mom probably felt insulted that she made a decision w/o asking her and so to get back at her, she gave it to the maid!! Also, GP/wife were upset more because Nit/Lav lied to go to the party. Any mil would be infuriated by the LAv/GW convo and their scheming abt getting rid of T! The worst thing being her stabbing her own family at their back and lying abt everything in C's matter. Worst of all, insulting her own hubby and in-laws and her only aim was to assume authority in GP's house in some way or the other even if it meant ruining other's families. Even after doing every misdeed possible, she does not feel that she did any wrong or has a tinge of remorse!
Not sure what T is upto in Lav's issue, however TA knows abt Lav very well. Does T think that Lav is in any way like T?? Or does she want to help her because she happens to be TA's sis?? Or is it because of the unborn child? HOwever, it is Lav who needs to understand abt the child more than anyone, and even if she gets back to NIt, unless Lav really feels guilty and remorseful, the relationship can never survive!
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