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Arizes.

@Arizes.

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: Sue Nair
@Shubba - Thuls was not able to convince her nut headed hubby initially but from now onwards he will lend his ears to her and analyse it as per situation. The longer they live apart (but not 3 yrs..lah...a few months will do..😉) then only he would realize what a fool he has been to almost let a gem of a wife to slip thru his fingers.She has to complete her studies and secure a decent job - apporam its baby on its way..!!👏

@ Karthika - Lord RAm-vey appidi-na what else can we expect of our TA? Many will say that Thulz is stubborn that she shd have given in and accepted TA back again - but till now andha TA didn't even say sorry to her. He just kept on watching her body language - knowing very well that she is cold towards him - he simply has no guts to approach her thats why he is keeping a distance too - scared she would give him a good shelling and he wouldn't know where to hide his handsome face..!!

Absolutely right chechi...this is what i meant to say...she needs to ignore him, but it can be done by living together with him, the reason is...none will be there between them to make it more complicated. Now that padma is there to think all crooked and try to make it bad by taking up on GW family. Again T can be influenced by Deepa/kalani/Sudha's talks, thought they might be saying right, but we know what happened when T listened to them and acted upon. So its better she goes with TA, ignore him, teach him a lesson hard. He needs such a treatment. Ignoring from away will not have any effect, he will forget things when he s away with work etc. but she ignoring when living with him, will have more effect. Her activities shd teach him a lesson. She has to make sure they talk their difference and that they can start their new life only upon things are changed by both of them. This would have more effect.

Edited by shubba - 13 years ago

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Sujatha

@Sue Nair

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Posted: 13 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: shivani6
true shubba... I agree with you !!

Me too feel that TA/T should be together but only when TA repents for his mistakes 😊

Or else again, we have to face the same scenes😉

Anyhow when GW acts that she is good or she got heart attack or something, TA/T will go & forgive her. But next time when they are going to face problems, the problems must be problems for both of them together & not for T alone 😊.

So I want TA know his mistakes & apologize wholeheartedly... Then if they show some scenes like that of TA with T before marriage and after vel's court scene.😉😊 it would make us happy :-)
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Yes dear...it would certainly make us all very happy.😃...perhaps Thulz is waiting for his apologies...but that stubborn headed mule is so egoistic..still doesn't want to show he is on the wrong directly to her...male chauvinist ..!!😡

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Sujatha

@Sue Nair

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Posted: 13 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: shubba

Absolutely right chechi...this is what i meant to say...she needs to ignore him, but it can be done by living together with him, the reason is...none will be there between them to make it more complicated. Now that padma is there to think all crooked and try to make it bad by taking up on GW family. Again T can be influenced by Deepa/kalani/Sudha's talks, thought they might be saying right, but we know what happened when T listened to them and acted upon. So its better she goes with TA, ignore him, teach him a lesson hard. He needs such a treatment. Ignoring from away will not have any effect, he will forget things when he s away with work etc. but she ignoring when living with her, will have more effect. Her activities shd teach him a lesson. She has to make sure they talk their difference and that they can start their new life only upon things are changed by both of them. This would have more effect.

Hopefully Thulz will give deaf ears to Padma's "caring advice" - thats where she has to be careful coz she know her step-mother in and out. Deepa and Kalyani can talk but they are not in Thulz's shoes. Those who eat chillies will only know how hot it is (another Malay proverb.).!!😛

Do you think TA will pretend and "set-up" another woman and be lovey dovey to her just to make Thulz jealous thus making her to take a u-turn and run back to him??😆😆

Edited by Sue Nair - 13 years ago

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Arizes.

@Arizes.

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: Sue Nair

Hopefully Thulz will give deaf ears to Padma's "caring advice" - thats where she has to be careful coz she know her step-mother in and out. Deepa and Kalyani can talk but they are not in Thulz's shoes. Those who eat chillies will only know how hot it is (another Malay proverb.).!!😛

Do you think TA will pretend and "set-up" another woman and be lovey dovey to her just to make Thulz jealous thus making her to take a u-turn and run back to him??😆😆

ROFL chechi...Only this is left behind for TA character to be damaged...😆...
If he is not going to apologise T for his mistakes by thinking what all he did to her or what his mom/sis/best friend🤢 did to her...No one should forgive him...😡...T should deftly wait for TA to come and apologize, she should not go with him if he does not apologise to her and feel whole heartedly for his mistakes...if there is no realisation and if he tries this by hiding his mistakes and making her come on his way as though he did no wrong...he wd be a hopeless case...😡

Edited by shubba - 13 years ago

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Mahadevan Venkitaraman

@maha2us

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#65

Thanks Tanu for the update.

Jan Akka, This is based on your last comment on the yesterday episode.GP believes that it is his responsibility for the day-to-day expenses. But the way Laav behaves is what makes things otherwise. Laav can't live in her mom's house and also demand her expenses. She was sent out of Nitish's home because of her own 'activities'. At the same time, you are right when you say Nitish has to be prepared to leave GP's bangalow. When Laav insisted him to get money for business from his dad, what would have happened if Nit had insisted he would like to stand on his own legs by working. It would have been OK even if he works as driver or in Sudha's maligaikadai. If he does thanikudithanam this way, GW could also be kept at bay as all that GW does is craving for money.

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verisimilitude

@verisimilitude

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+ 7

Posted: 13 years ago

#66

Thanks Tanu for the update...

Missed the comments from 3 days.. But was very excited to watch.. Enjoyed Ta's bashing, still GW & LAv - hard luck for them..

Sudden entry of the side characters -didnt expect though

I also feel T should not be keen on separation rather than go for a compromise.It does not mean that his actions were right.

I wished T would talk back to Padma when she spoke bad abt TA.

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Shammu

@Shemmo

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+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#67

I agree with with Tans. Thuls decision leaving Ta at that time was hasty.

@Jan and Desi:
Yes, Thuls was looking at Ta for some support. But was this the first time he didnt supported her? No, even after starvstion scene, when Puvi was scolding GW, Ta was silent. Appo kooda Thuls thanked him for being quiet that time. The same happenend that time too. Only here the situation was different, but Thuls told this as the reason for leaving.
Onemore thing, after she went upstairs to pack her things, Ta came very calmy and was shocked seeying her packing. At that time Thuls wanted to leave that house asap, she didnt gave Ta a chance +o talk, maybe he wanted to ask sorry for his mom behsviour, we dont know. Maybe he wanted to say something.:o

Im only telling that Thuks decision leaving the house for GW accusation was not good. Neither supporting Ta or Thuls. Both have mistakes. Everything started only after moving to GW house. As Shubba akka said, Thuls should take this as a challenge and

Edited by Shamz. - 13 years ago

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Shammu

@Shemmo

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+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#68

Of course Ta need to apologize, illathi naanga chumma vitruvoma. He needs to cry badly without closing face :D. Like Jeya ka said, it would be nice if he recollect everything what he did or said to Thuls.

Seperation is not always a solution. Manam vittu pesinale pothum, half problems will get solved.

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Mahadevan Venkitaraman

@maha2us

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#69

Based on Today's episode, I have one question, as I could not watch the episode: Is there a new bank manager in TA's bank? Isn't TPS the bank manager?

Padma definitely has evil intent. But one point she said is right. MM and Patti have to hear Thulasi's side also and also understand her side. Understanding her side does not mean accepting Thulasi's decision. Once what she said is understood it is easier to do the needful for what is to be done to make the lead couple reunite.

Charu had told she was able to come between T and T. Surely it is the responsibility of T and T to see that nobody could come in between them. As Bhairavi told JKB in the film SindhuBhairavi, 'You have to make a promise such that nobody comes in between us.' Will TA be able to keep up that promise? Even now he is not able to take the responsibility this way as he let GW, SQ and Charu come between them. Once TA is able to understand his responsibility, T and T can live together. Till then, they have to see how they can sort out their relationship. Some days of separation is OK for both of them because that will see T's anger to cool to some extent and she could think like her normal way. She must definitely have been shocked because TA went to the extent of serving divorce papers which is too much for her as a human being.

Expecting Deepa and Kalyani to convince T to get back to TA is too much as they are too young to understand how deeply hurt she is.

@Vijayam: Your quote: 'The one redeeming factor for TA is this is that he never told T to go out, even though padma is making a big thing of it. It was T's decision and so far that is the only thing in TA's favor'. Even here T has her point. The day she walked out, the whole home including TA were hostile to her. Sudha was also hostile. A woman living in her in-laws house finds it difficult to live there if her husband does not support her, when others are hostile to her. So how is it redeeming factor for TA?

For those who say T is stubborn in her decision, I believe T will melt when the emotional pressure inside her is reduced. To reduce the emotional pressure within her, one has to understand her POV when talking to her on reuniting letting her talk freely. MM and patti don't seem to do that.

Edited by maha2us - 13 years ago

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Arizes.

@Arizes.

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#70

@shammy - i understand that all problem started for T and T after T walked away only...it was a mistake at her part ofc...but from her POV she needed a change too...with TA not in the house, no sudha/puvi support(when they r away) she had to put up with GW and lav too and hence it was quiet a good decision she left the place and decided to fight from outside...think it this way...she did not give up her fight then too...she met GP, she went behind Jospeh's letter but from outisde...her fight aginst C proved her character that she can face any odds may what come...this is Thulasi's character!!...her biggest two mistakes were to listen to padma and deepa like Vjayam specified...she need to admit them too...its alw not good to let someone to interfere in H/W issue however close they might be...pati's level of advise is an example as how a third person can interfere btwn H/w...they shd not teach how to behave to their spouses (sudha and deepa told her so) and there she went wrong and same with TA...charu told him to fight he did, charu told him to be cool he did, again fight etc...see this is were things went wrong...

If we take Charu's dialogue this way - i separated u both atleast for few days - yes she did...but how? she physically separated TA by her own plans and made him go to bangalore but she deftly failed at separating them by heart...TAs ularalas and Ts dream and fight is an example...all she could do is just move TA from the place where T lived but that too failed one time by TAs actions, T said TA is her priority...and when T decided to walk out TA was not there at the place then...anyways he was at bangalore only...what big difference when T is at GW house or at MM house when TA is not there at the place...it is separation...lol...now i thk C's separation got this meaning only...she managed to manipulate TAs mind and take him to bangalore separating from T...lol this makes sense to T's stare too...anyways we were shown they were still close to heart only...so Cs statement this has no value at all...if a husbd goes out of station for official work leaving behind wife then does that mean separation...rofl...then all boss shd claim i separated you and wife...Cs statement is similar...but still TAs actions and words need justification and both have to accept and adjust each others odds and succeed...

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