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Posted: 13 years ago
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Actually it is so ironic. TA will have to stand at the very gate where he reclled all GW had done to TT when they got married and remember all that he has done to T. He did not want to enter the house as he cud not forget how GW treated T. And that very same house and outside he has behaved in an almost unforgivable manner to T. But at least when gw behaved with them she had a reason. Her son had got married without telling her and whle being engaged to another.
But what reasons did TA have for behaving the way he did.
He did not bother whether she ate
he did not bother whether she continues her education or not
he did not bother how she cud go to MM's house where padma did not let her be when dharman's problem arose and she had to come back
he thought that T cud hv sent Mohan to create probs and thought T got beaten to hv gw arrested
He did not ask GW why she hit T
believing all that gw, lav and charu told abt T, without even recalling her character as he knows it...the girl who wanted to apologise to charu on the very first night of marriage, in spite of all insults hurled at her, the girl who asked him to forgive his mother after being taken to court by her,
the girl who wanted TA to help in Lav's marriage as he was a brother before becoming her husband, the girl who wanted to wish lav on hearing abt her pregnancy inspite of being insulted by her at her place and where she was cold-shouldered by them.
Was all this because T sort of compelled TA to work with puvi and sudha and made him at their receiving end and not supporting him then? Was it because of the conversation he overheard her having with mohan that led him to think that she secretly hates gw and lav and so also cud hate charu?
At the end of it, i can only say T has analysed well their situation..that they hv not understood each other and have not learnt to adjust and live with each other accordingly. T's himalayan mistake in this was hvng listened to sudha, even after being adv by TA how dangerous his anni cud be. sudha may be good at times and better than gw always, but she can be dangerous and not a person one shud take into confidence. When T knows that no matter what charu does TA cannot sway her way, she need not have picked up the phone and spoken to charu the way she did, esp over an anonymous letter as TA said. That incident was totally unlike T and sowed the seed for the discord thereafter and it got only worse when she reminded charu of her parentage or lack of it...on both instances T got goaded to behave like this and I guess her punishment came in the form of TA's harsh words and behavior...
P.S. Just as in the case of bank job, TT will have to realise just how their behavior and words cud almost make them lose wht they have and make TT treasure their prized possesion (their love and each other) and not let anything or anyone come in their way. and as Pearl said they shud be separated from each other only till such realisation dawns and not a day more than that.
Edited by vjayam - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#42

@Jan, @Desi:

Thulz has all the rights in TA and in that house. She should have stayed there and fought with GW/TA instead of walking out in frustration. She took a haste decision in my POV. She knew in Blore itself that TA was slipping out of her hands. She should have stayed with TA and prove it. I would have been happy if she stayed in that house and gave left and right to TA and GW and totally ignore them. Once a couple separate they become very Vulnerable and people around them try to take this as an advantage and make the rift bigger.
Also I am not justifying TA acts. They totally degraded TA character. TA really deserves to be punished. What I was saying is Thulz needs to change too. For example, if GW emotionally tells that she is sick in the upcoming episodes, Thulz will try to force TA to go see her and she will be stubborn in her acts😕. That act surely needs to be changed. Also Thulz is meant for patience. That is how her character has been portrayed. But lately felt that her decisions are pretty hasty, just my opinion.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Some of the Ta fans are saying that it was T who decided to stay with Gw against the wishes of Ta. T has been taking decisions based on some logic, but Ta's decisions are always ego based and irrational. It was his ego problem with Puvi that made him not to want to live in the house of Gw. Even if T's decisions went wrong, it was based on some calculated risk.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@pearl, I agree wit you 100% that t should not fall for all the emotional black mail of Gw and try to be a do gooder always. If she makes up with Ta , they should live separately . She should not try to be a family unifier and try to bring in Gw. Every couple in Gw family need their own space and live separately.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I too feel TA is on the wrong side... he needs to learn a lot than T...

what he did is nambikkai drogam... thats the end of relationship normally... but here, they have love... so we can expect both to be united again... but it is difficult to forgive a person who thinks it is others mistake for making him to do the mistake & not his mistake[paithiyam vaithiyam - visu pola :-)] and even now he thinks there is something wrong in T's attitude & not his... he seems to always feel he is great...

T can forgive all but how can any person forgive whom they have trusted all these time but being humiliated by them...

She knew GW is like that... so she felt that she can manage it... but she had confidence in TA... for what ever troubles she get, she always has a strong shoulder to lean upon... but it was TA who had shown his hatred...

even in B'lore if Keshav told TA that T is telling some wrong stuff on C... he should have atleast listened to her side once... orelse he too should have told C that "he & his wife wont be here as a trouble to them as she will never change"... but he didnt do that... he brought her to chennai & allowed her to go to her place...

Also when he was hitting Mohan... he didnt talk like a manushappiravi... he spoke abt all mohan's past... he behaved like a mental but always put the blame on T that she is a mental...

Anyhow... however he is born to GW... so her gene must be with him... so he too he behaved just like his Mom in many places... So he should repent for what all he had done to T... instead of putting blame on others...


I have a doubt... Puvi brought them back from Police station but that case is not been withdrawn by Padma[she will not withdraw.. for sure]... so whether they will have to face the court for that case or it is chumma poosu malucipied one :-)

eventhough she came out of TA's house... she was there for him even when police was taking him to jail & even when the inspector was blaming him in the PS... but what he did for all these... he simply told that she is acting...



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thank God...TA got his job back. At least now he can move forward with success climbing up the steps all the way. 👏

Wonder whether he would have taken the bank offer if he was still under the impression that Charu is an angel and that she needs his assistance in progressing her business? 😍

Everything fell on the right track at the right timing - TA knowing Charu's true colours, realizing his wrong judgement on Thulz, getting back his job and most of all his brains started functioning properly. I do hope this young awesome couple would iron out their differences soon and get back together. They must start living as man and wife again and show all those who were hoping that their marriage will wreck esp. Padma/GW & junior GW & of course Charu (when she comes back alive and kicking) - that T& T are made for each other and no evil force can break them apart again.,😛

Yes Thulz shd teach TA a good lesson but hopefully she does drag it too long. I am very sure TA won't make this mistake of doubting her in the future. Even if something does crop up - he will think carefully & wisely and above all learn to settle things amicably.🤗
Edited by Sue Nair - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thank you very much Tanu ...for an interesting update...!! 👍🏼
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Also When Padma insulted TA for the 5 lakh money... [ the truth is he has to give her back the money... so he owes something there] he doesnt want to step their house and also didnt allow Tulasi to get into that house...


but when T was been insulted for what she hasnt done... he want T to be in GW house & not go to anywhere else...

So how can anyone forgive him...all of a sudden... he has to repent for all the things he had done to T...


I accept that T's behavior is not her's when she spoke harshly to C in phone by reading the letter... also when she spoke to Keshav abt C in the hotel after the night stay with C... that too shows her immatured... Keshav's behaviour with her in the restaurant and also at many times after that should have shown her... how he is... but she trusted him...
Edited by shivani6 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jan50

Some of the Ta fans are saying that it was T who decided to stay with Gw against the wishes of Ta. T has been taking decisions based on some logic, but Ta's decisions are always ego based and irrational. It was his ego problem with Puvi that made him not to want to live in the house of Gw. Even if T's decisions went wrong, it was based on some calculated risk.



By living with GW, Thulz was able to prove to TA what an evil woman his mum has been and how much of damage she has caused in their marriage. Hopefully TA would be on the alert in future if he were to have some dealing with GW.. Who is going to update GW/Lav on Charu's present condition? She knows that her plans in getting TA with Charu is in the past now. Knowing her, she might even switch party when she knows of Thulz oda mum's status. She wouldn't even hesitate to shoo away Charu then..!!😉
Edited by Sue Nair - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jan50

@pearl, yes, Gw was lot harsher before. But all those times Ta was clearly on her side. But this time after she bashed Chaaru, Ta bashed her in front of Gw. It looked

Ike all three Namely Gw, la, and Ta were on one side. When Gw asked her to leave, she looked at Ta for some support. But he kept quiet and looked like he seconded Gw. How can any woman stay . He called her mental in b'lore. Where will she go in b'lore if she wanted to,leave him? She was in total shock to even react. People don't take immediate action. Every thing accumulated. Gw asking her to leave and Ta keeping quiet and approving was the last straw on the camel's back. Bashing Chaaru was not really a bad move. It had to be done. At least it brought everything to surface, otherwise T would have been going thru slow torture for a long time without Ta ever knowing about it. True she was responsible for staying with Gw. But the situation at that time required it. What would Ta do for house rent? She took the practical and responsible solution for the problem. Ta did not want to stay because of his ego problems with Puvi. Nothing he did made any rational sense at that time. At least T thought logically. But things went beyond her control which is not her fault. When she left, Ta did not even bother to stop her or come looking for her. Any loving husband will not behave like that. At that time all of you tolerated it assuming Ta was acting. TA did the most incorrigible things. Compared to that what ever T did wrong was minuscule . The solid reason was Ta approved Gw throwing her out.Ta spewed so much venom on her right from Bangalore.



Yes I remember vividly TA's reactions - he simply had no sympathy or consideration for Thulz oda feelings - she was left to fend for herself. Thats why he needs to be taught a good lesson but only for a short spell. I am sure all of us here want them back together again...then only there is a real chemistry in Thendral.😛
Edited by Sue Nair - 13 years ago

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