Thendral Wednesday - 15/02/2012 - Page 4

Originally posted by: Tanu.

I feel both TT are at equal place in being wrong...TA is wrong by going up to divorce...T is wrong by walking away...She said whatever happens she will fight back when she dragged TA to GW house...all tortures she underwent but walked out for a silly reason...she didn't walk out when TA called her a mental in blore...but walked out because TA was silent when GW insulted her...so i will say both are equally wrong by doing these...both need to understand that...As Gunthy said TT both shouldn't use past incidents to taunt each other if they ever get mad.

@ Desi...my point is totally different here...i think i didn't clearly say😕...if T walked out after blore incident then i will say its a strong reason...TA believed others and called her a mental...she didn't decide to leave by then...By then did TA supported her? No...why she didn't leave then?😕 Whats more worse left than her hubby calling her a mental?...TA was already mad after blore incident and how she expected him to support him...i am just saying she should have just left earlier than this situation...and GW was even more harsher in many other situations before than this particular incident...and Thulasi herself said MM that she wont leave that cause at any cause nu...i will say just like how TA hurriedly decided to go up to divorce...she left that house too...both of these decisions are taken in rush/hurry w/o thinking.

I would agree with Tanu too. There was no solid reason given for Thulz walking out of TA house. She just did that in frustration. Was that the first time GW asked her to leave the house?? Was that the first time GW has treated her badly?? How many times TA refused not to come and stay in GW house. But Thulz forced him telling that she will manage whatever happens in GW house. So she was willing to face it. Even after the PS matter, Thulz along with MM came to compromise with TA based on Puvi advise. Also there are some things Thulz should not have done. She bashed Charu listening to Sudha. She never thought of the consequences that would come😕. Most of the problems started after that.

@pearl, yes, Gw was lot harsher before. But all those times Ta was clearly on her side. But this time after she bashed Chaaru, Ta bashed her in front of Gw. It looked

Especially sending her out.When his mom said your unlucky go away and he didn't utter a word in-front of his mom.With what rights he was expecting her to come back and live with him ?Now he has C to blame on everything but now if next if some other problem comes who knows how TA is going to be.

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Desi

Very well written desi . 👏 Completely agree with all your points esp. she had no expectations from MM & others -- but Tamil gave her a new life sort of. But his egoistic, self-righteous attitude has wounded her too deeply. Even in loan-sharks matter, seeing them outside his house -- he ran away like a ****** - bloody coward !!! Is that love ? Till now has he apologised to her for that ? He is total irresponsible and unreliable husband . 😡

@pearl I think some of us thought that TA was acting if not for that perspective I think TA character would be damaged more.My POV we cannot equate what T and TA did.For me what TA did was too much considering the state of T.He knew she doesn't have anywhere to go then why not stop her.The amount of hatred he developed for T was unforgivable.I can never accept TA as same one before and after C episode. His character came crashing down because of his so called friendship towards C.I'm not saying T never made mistake but which women in right mind allow her husband to roam with another un-married girl.What if C would have come up with accusation that TA had spoiled her when she was alone with him in service apartment which was the cost what TA would have paid if T has not rescued him.Even though in VEL case they did prove that T was not involved but what if TA was asked to marry C? Any wife will feel jealous if her husband move closely with her ex.How much faith you have you cannot tell that there will not be any jealousy.So TA finding fault with T was unnecessary.He made her suffer because of his EGO.And for all the things he did he couldn't ask sorry in front of her.Way to go.Believe me he needs to learn a lot. He cannot even support T in-front of anybody anymore because they will immediately point out the mistake he did.Its not all the things happened between four walls for him to ask sorry only privately.If T would have stayed after GW asking her to get out then T character would have died that spot.There is fine line between having self respect and listening to elders.T did the right decision and TA didn't protect his wife.

Originally posted by: Jan50

When Gw asked her to leave, she looked at Ta for some support. But he kept quiet and looked like he seconded Gw. How can any woman stay . Gw asking her to leave and Ta keeping quiet and approving was the last straw on the camel's back. When she left, Ta did not even bother to stop her or come looking for her. Any loving husband will not behave like that. At that time all of you tolerated it assuming Ta was acting. TA did the most incorrigible things. Compared to that what ever T did wrong was minuscule . The solid reason was Ta approved Gw throwing her out.Ta spewed so much venom on her right from Bangalore.

Exactly my thoughts Jan50 -- nicely expressed. 👏

Thank you Tanu for the wonderful update and comments..!! 🤗

Originally posted by: desicpn

I will not accept what T and TA did equals.People bring such argument because they like TA.They want somehow justify him joining with T .He doens't deserve her till she finishes her education and proved that he changed his own self.

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Desi

Yes, it is what TA fans feel as they cannot believe how much he has changed over the storyline. All this hope that maybe he was acting, maybe he has paid fees thro' K was all their poor attempt at redeeming their favourite character. I started disliking TA , after the loan sharks matter & his inability to accept 😡he was at fault & responsible for some goons to violently enter his home & attempt to carry off his wife !!!!

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