Thulz's behavior throughout the sordid affair has been well…..Thulz like, nothing more nothing less, her supreme patience, grace under fire –hallmark of Thulz. Yet there is something that is amiss in her disposition i.e. relationship towards TA. For Thulz, TA is just not her husband, but he was her father, mother and everything under sun through whom she experienced simple pleasures of life like happiness and laughter, even-though she had "namesake relations."
For a guy who had no great ambitions in life, Thulz was his only goal. TA pursued her with single-mindedness when cops were hot on his heels twice, chose to marry her when she demanded him to do so and above all when she stood was accused of all rotten things in the court of law, TA reposed faith in her which washed away all the mud-slinging thrown @ her and perched her on top of the world. TA's emotional connect to Thulz "sublime", knows more about her than she does of herself.
Thulz has been equally or more committed to TA beyond words, case and point when she decided to forgo her "education" to make her marriage work and not hinder TA's professional ambitions. She had put with numerous shortcomings of TA with panache and poise. In the current melee as TA has been relentlessly attacking and repulsing her, Thulz has never sought to understand and examine why TA is behaving in this Ying-Yang way. Even now she seems to be angry @ him that he has changed, without examining the reasons as to why he is doing this.
While on end she knew very well that TA will not look @ anyone past her as "she is him"…..yet she chose to quarrel with him on account of Psycho. One can defend Thulz, saying that she behaved the way due to her possessiveness …..but that POV may be superficial in the context of T'n'TA.