Perspective

Originally posted by: BalamPichkaari

Okay so when I first read the spoilers, I swear, mera dil garden garden ho gaya!

And then I watched the episode. Coming to rewatch last week's episodes a number of times over the weekend, I came to realise that BOSS. It is impossible that Ruku baby really went psychotic. Well there was that jaded possibility that she did; but the fact that she did it to help RaHi get together became a bit more clearer. And TBH, I was so so happy when I realised the CVs hadn't butchered her character; rather, they turned her into someone who knocked sense into RV's head.

So obviously, I'd wanted Panchi to have doubts and self qualms about the love, and ask for more time. Granted, that would have been a natural instinct.

However, if we look at it from a completely different perspective..

How many times has it been obvious, throughout both the seasons, that Panchi has always harbored some form of feelings towards RV? Every time they were in close proximity, to every random girl RV was cornering in the corridor, it would always hurt her somewhere. It was as if Panchi had resignedly agreed to the fact that RV would never fall for someone like her [cue to her insecurities about her weight and self confidence] and had contented herself with the position of the best friend. So when RV actually landed up confessing and Ruku baby admitted that it was her plan all along, I guess she came to realise that YES. RV could love her for who she was.

The precap confused me a LOT. I understand that Panchi wants to take the relationship slowly, and I also understand why does RV wanna rush into it. However, I don't get why was it so shocking to RV when Panchi asked him if they could take things slowly? Like sure, she's still overwhelmed by the entire thing that happened, but why did RV react as if she asked for a break/break up? 🤔

On a side note, I LOVE how cute they are. Like he's fiddling with her hand; and when he hears Mrs R coming in, he freaking jumps and lets go of her hand as if it was scorching hot 🤣 And of course, till now at least, RaHi's essence hasn't gone for a toss. They're still bantering, but there's this added bit of flirting and touchy-feely moments, which is completely normal. 😳

Lets hope that their essence is never lost; and the two of them always stay the way they are.

Nonu and Moti ❤️

Exactly my feelings. Word to word. 👍🏼

somehow, your take calms my heart, like the confession is not some kind of bomb ticking to explode from all the disappointment. lol.

res! let me type a lamba comment!

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You watched the episodes over the weekend? 😆 I tou was so disappointed in the precap that I didn't get any feels till yesterday evening's spoilers 😛

Khaiirrr!!

No, I am not yet buying Rukmini's mahaan behavior. What you say is true, it's unnatural of her to be all that vampish so soon unless she had an ulterior motive. I do agree that she wasn't that bad of a character. But I wasn't at all happy or convinced at her revelation that it was all her plan. For once, it doesn't even explain how she knew of Piddi's plan. While I do agree ke RV needed some sense knocked into him through the toughest of means and her method did just that..no. I didn't like RaHi thanking her for all that. Made her seem like a mahaan aatma and devi.

Damnit! I wanted it all to be a little more real!

But ab pachtave ka haut jab chidya chug gayi khet. So daffa karo!

As for the precap, that made me happy. It sincerely did. Because they are sooo in character. You can always trust RV to act like nothing happened and just live in the moment and Panchi be the worrying lot and thinking about all these hidden angles. And it wasn't sudden at all, Panchi hesitated today as well when RV leaned down to kiss her. She shied away and said it all seems to sudden to her. It did to RV too but we all know he has some screws lose in his brain so it won't take him much long to be normal about stuff. And just think about what you said, Panchi realizing that yes, RV can love indeed love her will bring in extra stuff for her to ponder upon. Even if she always wanted it, would she be comfortable when she got it? Sometimes we go so overboard in wishing for something that when we get it, we don't know how to deal with it.

Her reasoning and his reaction, both are justified. He's all, "but we are a couple!" and she's all, "yes, we are a couple." There's so much history between them, all that casualness will have new meaning to it all. Because most couples need time to be a little casual and then they proceed to more intimate start. Here tou before they started, they were already more than just casual. their starting point starts from a place which a normal couple takes many days to reach. Thoda uncomfortable and unsure hona chalta hai...

But yeah! The Nonu and Moti were still very much there! Gaah! SO much cuteness post-"confession"! Man, I need more moments of them now! But she's hesitating and I'm all torn! I support her but I want cutesy moments as well!! 😕

I. Am. Mega. Disappointed.

In the CV's dictionary neither 'moderation' nor 'balancing' exist when it comes to relationship build-up! 🤢 Too slow at times, too fast at other times. Totally did not expect Panchi to accept his confession in this episode itself. 😔

At least she is not already into coochi-cooing! Her unwillingness to rush into any commitment felt rather normal to me. Initially I wanted her to refuse to accept RV's confession for the time being, nahin mila toh yeh bhi chalega.

Confusion thodi jyada hoga hi Panchi ki baat par...Our confusion is due to her hesitation about 'rushing' even after she didn't show any of such hesitation while accepting the confession. RV's confusion I guess is for the same reason!

But what makes me think is Panchi's confusion... a girl who despite of harboring feelings for her best friend got never reciprocated those feelings of her, then made a commitment to her senior who broke her trust, and now her best friend finally after all these years, says he loves her! There must be two kinds of thought- a sense of euphoria and a sense of bafflement about how should she behave with RV who never really behaved romantically with her before...except, I know, the kiss! 😉
Now, the kiss itself happened at such a moment when they both thought they will lose each other and how they cannot live without each other- that's not just romantic or friendly feeling..it belongs to the soul mates category. That's where I guess RV needs to realize more things about their possible future together. That Panchi is not just like a girl he sought after, then got into a relationship until it ran its short course! RV probably never thinks of such negative possibilities, but it won't be too random of Panchi to be confused about his feelings and actions- because she is his best friend and love interest at the same time!

P.S. It's probably only me, but RV looked a li'l crazy when he talked about not letting Panchi leave for another city. 🤔

Originally posted by: coolpixie

somehow, your take calms my heart, like the confession is not some kind of bomb ticking to explode from all the disappointment. lol.

Rahi and flirting? Now, that's what I can't wait to see! and I will reserve my judgement on the confession till I see it. lol. but, as for your take, it makes alot of sense.

Originally posted by: spicySugar..

res! let me type a lamba comment!

*edit*

You watched the episodes over the weekend? 😆 I tou was so disappointed in the precap that I didn't get any feels till yesterday evening's spoilers 😛

Khaiirrr!!

No, I am not yet buying Rukmini's mahaan behavior. What you say is true, it's unnatural of her to be all that vampish so soon unless she had an ulterior motive. I do agree that she wasn't that bad of a character. But I wasn't at all happy or convinced at her revelation that it was all her plan. For once, it doesn't even explain how she knew of Piddi's plan. While I do agree ke RV needed some sense knocked into him through the toughest of means and her method did just that..no. I didn't like RaHi thanking her for all that. Made her seem like a mahaan aatma and devi.

Damnit! I wanted it all to be a little more real!

But ab pachtave ka haut jab chidya chug gayi khet. So daffa karo!

As for the precap, that made me happy. It sincerely did. Because they are sooo in character. You can always trust RV to act like nothing happened and just live in the moment and Panchi be the worrying lot and thinking about all these hidden angles. And it wasn't sudden at all, Panchi hesitated today as well when RV leaned down to kiss her. She shied away and said it all seems to sudden to her. It did to RV too but we all know he has some screws lose in his brain so it won't take him much long to be normal about stuff. And just think about what you said, Panchi realizing that yes, RV can love indeed love her will bring in extra stuff for her to ponder upon. Even if she always wanted it, would she be comfortable when she got it? Sometimes we go so overboard in wishing for something that when we get it, we don't know how to deal with it.

Her reasoning and his reaction, both are justified. He's all, "but we are a couple!" and she's all, "yes, we are a couple." There's so much history between them, all that casualness will have new meaning to it all. Because most couples need time to be a little casual and then they proceed to more intimate start. Here tou before they started, they were already more than just casual. their starting point starts from a place which a normal couple takes many days to reach. Thoda uncomfortable and unsure hona chalta hai...

But yeah! The Nonu and Moti were still very much there! Gaah! SO much cuteness post-"confession"! Man, I need more moments of them now! But she's hesitating and I'm all torn! I support her but I want cutesy moments as well!! 😕

Originally posted by: Jhinka_Roy

I. Am. Mega. Disappointed.

In the CV's dictionary neither 'moderation' nor 'balancing' exist when it comes to relationship build-up! 🤢 Too slow at times, too fast at other times. Totally did not expect Panchi to accept his confession in this episode itself. 😔

At least she is not already into coochi-cooing! Her unwillingness to rush into any commitment felt rather normal to me. Initially I wanted her to refuse to accept RV's confession for the time being, nahin mila toh yeh bhi chalega.

Confusion thodi jyada hoga hi Panchi ki baat par...Our confusion is due to her hesitation about 'rushing' even after she didn't show any of such hesitation while accepting the confession. RV's confusion I guess is for the same reason!

But what makes me think is Panchi's confusion... a girl who despite of harboring feelings for her best friend got never reciprocated those feelings of her, then made a commitment to her senior who broke her trust, and now her best friend finally after all these years, says he loves her! There must be two kinds of thought- a sense of euphoria and a sense of bafflement about how should she behave with RV who never really behaved romantically with her before...except, I know, the kiss! 😉
Now, the kiss itself happened at such a moment when they both thought they will lose each other and how they cannot live without each other- that's not just romantic or friendly feeling..it belongs to the soul mates category. That's where I guess RV needs to realize more things about their possible future together. That Panchi is not just like a girl he sought after, then got into a relationship until it ran its short course! RV probably never thinks of such negative possibilities, but it won't be too random of Panchi to be confused about his feelings and actions- because she is his best friend and love interest at the same time!

P.S. It's probably only me, but RV looked a li'l crazy when he talked about not letting Panchi leave for another city. 🤔

well, it feels good to see that at least someone is being all happy about it without any troubles 😆 I tou am still all WTEffy about it all.

Rukmini's mahanta was tooo far fetched. exactly! how did she get such insight to Piddi's plan?! wasn't she being mad at him just a few days ago for bringing all sorts of troubles in her life? damn! i just want to redo all of this!

I said it yesterday somewhere, RV is really not the one to hold back his emotions specially of love and affection. just when Panchi was his bestie, he made a point to show this to the world. ab being the GF, of course he would want to flaunt and somewhere along the way, disregard her feelings in it all. that's sooo him! i think this is gonna be interesting..

and hey! i liked RV's crazy talk ke he won't let her go! something about that turns me on xD

Originally posted by: BalamPichkaari

Yep, RV looked a bit crazed when he was telling her not to move, but I think he was supposed to look a bit crazed? He's not been talking to her, Ruku baby was spazzing out all over him; and there was the stress that he may lose her. And that kinda drove him a bit nuts, which is what prompted the realisation + confession. What weirded me out was RV holding Ruku baby's hands and crying. I was confused whether he wanted to kiss her hands, or he was just holding it in some form of gratitude.

Like I mentioned somewhere else, this is my proper return to desi soaps after a very long time, so I'm kinda happy. I guess my brain was kinda starved for such stuff, so mehhh 🤣

Unlike RV or anyone else on screen, I was not noticing Ruku...so, there! 😆 For me the Ruku-RV relationship track has been so ridiculously handled at the end and was unpleasant to begin with, could not wait any more to see Ruku to leave that room and set her priorities right...matlab, give her a proper storyline which doesn't interfere with RaHi or KiSha!

I too thought he was may be gonna kiss her hands in knightly fashion! 😲

Super LMAO at her omniscience reg. Piddi's mission of making RaHi get together! 🤣

How long? 😆 I last watched a deshi soap around June '12, can remember it because that's when I gave up watching TV altogether! Now it's watching TBP reruns of some episodes on net and another show on wed-thurs. 🤔