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Posted: 13 years ago
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if there is a communication gap between parent and a child, are the parents the only one to be blamed?

in today's episode kd's father beat him in the police station.obviously i felt bad for kd considering that he was being framed for the crime which he refused to do at first place.
people will blame kd's dad for his behavior and say he don't know his son. but how will he know his son if his son doesn't talk to him. the only thing he know is that kd is arrogant,unemotional,troublemaker he don't know that his son always stands for his friends,has saved a girl form getting raped and threw the drug in the drain.
but is his dad the only one to be blamed for all this. isn't kd himself also responsible for this kind of relationship with his father.
with respect comes trust. if you don't give respect to your parents, do you really think they will believe you?
has kd ever shown respect to his father.obviously he does from his heart but does he show it publicly?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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there r many parents who dont understand their Kids just like KD'S father did ...all the ppl aren't lucky to get their parents as friends... There is communication and generation gap and especailly in lower class families its very common ...I m happy they r showing the real world... not like just happy happy things pranks n all ..this is too life and it actually happens... there is a lack of trust factor too in such cases ..but i hope this sorts out soon ...
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@Angel56

your comment suggest that its only parents fault for the communication gap between their children and them. sorry but i don't agree with you on this.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I disagree ...KD is not wrong..If a parent doesn't understand ur dreams..always pull ur legs down when u wanna fly...i don't think a child would want to talk or give respect to such parent...

IF that was the case with me...I KNW I WON'T...I think thats what happened when KD was small...His father didn't understand his dreams ..he ignored him...then why would KD talk to him...its no use...

iam not fighting for KD...iam just telling the truth...i have a friend whose parents are lyk that...thats why i knw..

btw nice topic...we can now knw what fans are thinking abt this situation.. ;)





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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: 100littledevils

I disagree ...KD is not wrong..If a parent doesn't understand ur dreams..always pull ur legs down when u wanna fly...i don't think a child would want to talk or give respect to such parent...


IF that was the case with me...I KNW I WON'T...I think thats what happened when KD was small...His father didn't understand his dreams ..he ignored him...then why would KD talk to him...its no use...

iam not fighting for KD...iam just telling the truth...i have a friend whose parents are lyk that...thats why i knw..

btw nice topic...we can now knw what fans are thinking abt this situation.. ;)





i agree wiv Piyu👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i agree to you thay KD doesnot communicate with his father, he is arrogent and all but dont you think his father is responsible for this behaviour of KD.i mean when KD lost his mother it was duity of his father to take his responsibility and mould him into good and caring humanbeing...but i dont know b'coz of what circumstances his father dint justified with his duities and scoldiong and beating is not the solution for every problem...but hios father believes in scolding and beating only...this is the reason why KD Is soo arrogent and rude
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@Angel56

your comment suggest that its only parents fault for the communication gap between their children and them. sorry but i don't agree with you on this.

i didn't said that its only parents fault but i think its more of their fault ...we child go to school colleges see the new generation new atmosphere and try to be like that ..as KD wanted to join Royal he did .. like this many kids think that Y cant we spend a life like them ..but this mostly not understud by the parents ..u know nowadays in the modern time there shud b no use of slapping or beating or like these things because now Kids aren't that small ..they r sharp ..and it hurt them badly ... and ya there is some prob from kid side too see thry dont share their probs with their parents and many things like that ...its communication gap ...
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@100littledevils

i started watching this show after 2 weeks so i will not argue more abt kd's case.

however you are talking about an extreme case in general. but what about those parents who always believe their children and suddenly one day they came to know their child is doing all the wrong lets say illegal things behind their back. all those things which they can't even think that their child can do?
are the parents only ones to be blamed? are the children mature enough to take responsibility for the bad judgements they have made?


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: paras22

@100littledevils

i started watching this show after 2 weeks so i will not argue more abt kd's case.

however you are talking about an extreme case in general. but what about those parents who always believe their children and suddenly one day they came to know their child is doing all the wrong lets say illegal things behind their back. all those things which they can't even think that their child can do?
are the parents only ones to be blamed? are the children mature enough to take responsibility for the bad judgements they have made?



but here the case is different yaar..KD is not responsible for that...Did his father even asked for once ..? Beta tune kiya kya? Shit i mean dude u can't just beat ur son without asking explanation. thats so cruel...his ur son for god sake!!!! Ask him once atleast...won't he tell u the truth.

Even the parents of children who really do such stuff...ASK TEN TIMES...becoz they have trust on them. iam really dissappointed with KD's father. I can't blame KD for this.

I think agar Bachpan mein ek baar pyaar se bola hota toh aj Respect ka sawaal hi nai utha...
KD toh phir bhi thodi respect dikhata hain...as compared to his father...(ignoring his dreams,pulling him down, Beating him & his brother etc etc)

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