I just fell for this guy so hard toady. I mean, he is a flirt, he is insensitive, he can be a jerk at times but I believe that is his whole charm. He is young, he is a brat, he is so imperfect that he seems really REAL to me. It's like I can go on in some hi-fi school like Royal Academy and actually seem someone just like him. That is, if I try to. Because someone like him, despite being real, is so rare to be found.
He is a jerk but he is sweet.
He is insensitive but he is caring.
He is a flirt but he has a that one special someone who can make him go restless.
And it's not at all selfish!
Being human, we tend to make mistakes. Say words which we don't mean. Be affected by the present scenario and do stuff which we don't really want to do but do it anyway. That is the sign that you are human. You are young. You are still immature. You are no perfectly experience person who won't mistakes. Who won't hurt. Mistakes don't actually define your character. It's what you do after that to actually control the situation, that defines you and your equation with the people around you.
I am biased. I can put that as a tag on my head and wear it around proudly. I am so madly in love with this guy that I will always try to look at the brighter side of his actions rather than blame him blindly. He makes me stop and think, "Why did he do it? Why did he say that?" And that thinking always has one conclusion, "Because that's what who he is!"
An imperfect person!
He makes plans and after failure, puts the blame on others. Why? Because not everyone wants to stand up and say, "I made the mess!" Imperfect - human.
He smirks after seeing his worst enemy being humiliated in front of everyone. Why? Because in this age when the blood is hot and the energy is young, enmity is made for lifetime. Imperfect - human.
He hurts his best friend by comparing her to a childhood teddy bear. Why? Because being too lost in the moment of getting intimate with someone, one hardly has any thought of what's going around him. Imperfect - human.
His actions, his words - they are not to be taken lightly. It's not all what's on the surface. It's what beneath it. There is so much going on with him. I can't remark much on his animosity with KD because not much has been revealed about them. Why does he hate KD so much? Is there any history between them? Until these things aren't answered, I don't have any right to judge him harshly on the actions he does when something bad happens to KD or when he blames him. He hates KD. He loathes the very mention of him. Someone who hates someone else so much, to the very last limits of hatred...I honestly can't expect him to have any kind feelings for that person. It's just goes against the basic human nature! And also, these incidents are far too small to actually judge Ranveer's character negatively. Now if something major, like majorly major, happens...that's another story.
But what I can remark on is his friendship.
Because that's one thing in which this guy exceeds despite all his shortcomings. Be it protecting Piddi in front of JJ, pointing out Bobby's dirt filled shoes in the class or being protective of HIS moti! He really is a true friend if we judge his character in these 13 episodes.
Now comes the best part which I kept for the last - RaHi.
Though I'll be concentrating more on the "Ra" part more as, hello, this post is on my man Ranveer ☺️
From day one if I have seen anything in their relationship, it's the trust and respect that he has on Panchi as a person. Yes, trust and respect. Trust that he can call her names and she won't feel bad because that's what their friendship. Respect in the way that he fires up the instant anyone says anything bad about Panchi (and mean it). The fact that he knows when someone is actually being hurtful towards Panchi and when that someone is just saying words out of jealousy, that is remarkable. Fatty, Moti, Fatso - these are touchy words for both her and him. Words like helicopter are said out of pure jealousy. And this guy knows it! This is enough for me to love him and respect him 😳
The reason why I fell for him so hard today was his restlessness at Panchi's behavior. His constant struggle with himself to figure out what he did wrong. He knows that she is angry at him. He knows that somehow he is at fault but how, he doesn't know. It's the depth of their relationship which is making him throw sorry notes at her. It's the special place that he holds for her in his life that he is showing his worry and restlessness in front of Samar that Panchi was being weird with him.
"Nahin yaar, Panchi aisi nahin hai."
6 words pointing to one thing - respect.
No wonder I am crazy for RaHi. No wonder I am biased towards them. It's their simplicity which is so hard to find nowadays. It's the sheer honesty of their relationship that actually makes me jump in excitement!
It's crystal clear that their relationship isn't so fickle. It's a relationship of rights. He is the only one with right to call her "moti". She is the only one to vent out her frustrations on him. Why am I saying this? Because I am sure if someone else had talked to Ranveer in that rude way that Panchi did, he wouldn't have liked it. Fights happen between friends, though minor, when one fights for no reason. But he let it slide. Instead, he did all he could to make her feel better. Be it now or during that walk back home when Kiya bullied Panchi. These two incidents are evident that Nonu can not see his Moti feeling low and sad. He just can't! Why? Because if there is one person who comes first and special in his life that's Panchi - his best friend. His Moti.
In the end I would just say, hats off Ranveer! For being you! For being a snob. For being an insensitive jerk. For being a playboy. For being imperfect. Hats off, for being you. For being real. Hats off for making me fall for your flaws because looking at you, I can say that people like you exist. And I can wish that someone like you comes in my life and treats me like a teddy bear. Because I personally, won't mind being treated like a teddy bear which makes you go restless with just one frown on her face 😳