Bihaan & Thapki - Page 3

Originally posted by: tharuvfan

if u think she dont love dhruv .U should watch this video Jigyasa mentioned Thapki also love dhruv .

We Tharuv fans Are Loving that scene when he ask her abt her feelings .Atleast he wants to know what she feel about him .He didnt push her ..Its a very decent way he approached ...

As u Like hapki-Bihaan I understand its very hard for u to See their pure love scenes of Thapki-Dhruv

I do like Bihaan-Thapki.

PreetD : your POV makes sense and your mom has got the Desi serials thought process very much figure, out.

Originally posted by: Katori

I also do not think thapki loves Dhruv and him pushing her to express her feelings was annoying. Poor girl was in a place where she could not say no without hurting him.

And him being the 'matured' person should understand that rather than asking for a love confession like a teenager. His concern should be is she ready for marriage or is he rushing her?

Originally posted by: Katori

I do like Bihaan-Thapki.

Thapki may be infatuated and she respects Dhruv. He is the only person she has met in her life outside her family who does not make fun of her stammering. However, there is too much power on the side of Dhruv for me to believe that Thapki loves him. Can she really say "no I do not love you" at this point and risk losing her job and break the marriage proposal? Does she trust him enough to do that?

As far as interviews/off screen videos go - I do not watch these as they are for marketing purposes and are relevant to 1-2 episodes at the most. I only follow the show and the story onscreen.

Originally posted by: PreetD

Dina_Dee - I confess I'm a sucker for romance plots in anything, I love love stories. The thing with tv shows is that they have the time to be able to build a good foundation to develop a relationship on. Especially since in Indian television once you're with someone, you're with them come what may.

I wish that I had been able to watch JJKN, we didn't have the Indian channels at the time though, but I did catch it from time to time when I would hang out at a friend's house. It looked good from what I remember. I don't know how the romance went in that one but in Ugly Betty, Betty and Daniel (her boss) both had other relationships and it wasn't until the end of the series (which was cancelled too soon) that they moved towards actually making them a couple. Betty had grown a lot and so had Daniel so it had that foundation to build a good relationship on you know.

JazzyM - regarding why can't two good people get together and develop the storyline, my mom's staple response to remarks like that from me are always, how will the story continue?

I think the big thing that's missing in the Indian television I have seen is that once a couple gets together they don't know what to do anymore to properly keep the story going. Either the couple gets put on the backburner or there's obstacle after obstacle facing the couple. One of my most favourite shows is Once Upon a Time, it's all about True Love and once you're couple gets together on the show you know they're going to be together until the end, I mean it's a given for true love couples on the show. But here's the thing, once the couple gets together they are given obstacles and the story now becomes how does this couple work through issues and problems TOGETHER. In Indian shows it always boils down to ridiculous misunderstandings, hiding things from your spouse, and contrived family drama where one person always comes out trying to be mahan or self-sacrificing, relationships of unequal balance, and sometimes outright emotional abuse (usually on the part of the male in the relationship).

I mean Dhruv and Thapki could have completely worked in my opinion but they rushed into it and I just don't buy the love story here. Dhruv should have been the layered multi-dimensional character. Instead he's the overly nice guy now that is smitten with this sweet innocent girl. Whereas with Bihaan you have a guy that actually challenged Thapki, she's competely different when she's with him if that makes sense and that's what's intriguing about their story.

I think I'm just rambling now and it's way too late. I need to get to bed. Thanks so much for everyone that's been involved in this discussion :)

I hate Thapki and Bihaan...There pai I worse than vomit...Bihaan loos like a goon/ vagabond...He laughs t Thapki weakness but yt his love story with Thapki will be better or please...If Thapki and Bihaan marres many pplwill stop watching this show...So is Bihaan the lead? That he must mary Thapki,lt him marry Sakshi or Aditi

Originally posted by: chinyere

I hate Thapki and Bihaan...There pai I worse than vomit...Bihaan loos like a goon/ vagabond...He laughs t Thapki weakness but yt his love story with Thapki will be better or please...If Thapki and Bihaan marres many pplwill stop watching this show...So is Bihaan the lead? That he must mary Thapki,lt him marry Sakshi or Aditi

Originally posted by: Masooma Bukhari

can i agree more? no 🤣

u took my feelings 🤣

Originally posted by: PreetD

Rekha - Perhaps you are right about there not being a wedding very soon, but like you said with what happened the last time around it seems it might be likely posisbility that there is going to be a wedding sooner rather than later.

Binny & Katori - Completely on the same page with you guys. Binny I love what you said about Thapki giving Bihaan the affection he craves and doesn't really get from the people around him. It's like he knows that these people care about him but it's almost conditional love you know? But with Thapki it wouldn't be one sided. Katori, I couldn't agree more about how Bihaan is more her equal whereas Dhruv is, not like a father figure in my opinion, but her superior, someone for her to look up to. I don't see love from Thapki's side here. Dhruv is her boss, he's someone she admires and looks up to, who has stood up for her BUT that doesn't mean it's equal to love. It's so easy for a young girl who idolizes someone who then in turn is so nice to her like that to mistake it for love, but it's hero-worship at best.

I don't know, maybe it's just me but I think to have a good foundation the two people in a relationship need to be on equal ground, Dhruv and Thapki aren't - he actually holds all the cards here (power, money, status, age). Thapki hasn't come into her own enough yet to be able to be on equal ground with him. Whereas with Bihaan there's a possibility of that give and take between them.

I can completely see Bihaan giving Thapki the push to be able to stand up for herself more whereas Dhruv is just going to want to rush in and save Thapki every time, am I making sense when I say that? I mean look at today, instead of talking to her like a normal adult in a healthy relationship would do, what does Dhruv do? He gives her money to handle all the expenses the family was worried about. While that's all great and all it undermines her. He could have had a conversation with her about it like and equal would and they could have come up with something.

I don't mean any disrespect but I agree, Dhruv is a very bland character, he's actually quite boring and one dimensional. The actor, from the earlier stuff, seems to be able to handle more, this would open up a lot of possibilities for his character too.

I guess I don't want the typical Indian serial here where just because the show started with a possible romance between Dhruv and Thapki that that's the way it must remain. Stories are dynamic and changing, I feel like sometimes the expectation is that come what may the two characters introduced at the beginning of a series as a couple must become and remain a couple throughout the run of a series. It's the most frustrating thing for me when I watch some serials (and I've stopped watching a lot of them) when characters outgrow each other or instances change and yet couples are kept in relationships they have no business being in.

I most definitely see where your coming from.. and your bang on where Dhruv and T's interaction is concerned..

My issue with Dhruv is that irrespective of his belief that Thapki is a strong individual his actions tend to speak louder then his words.. because he has never allowed her to fight her own battles.. I get he feels the need to protect her from the big bad world.. but in reality he will not always be there for her.. hence he should he encouraging her to toughen up and believe in herself rather then he become the crutch she continuously relies on in her time of need..

I honestly feel in the future Bihaan has the capability to become her pillar of strength.. his love will let her soar instead of tying her down.. I accept the man is not perfect and that is what I find endearing about him.. I have always been a sucker for a main lead that has more to his character then meets the eye.. Dhruv leaves me yawning to be entirely blunt on this aspect there is nothing left to explore he's perfect and I simply can't connect with him. on any level.. and neither can a girl like Thapki she embodies good and bad traits.. she can look up to him and admire him.. but loving him seems a bit stretched.. she will believe herself to be in love because it will feel like a dream.. but then dreams tend to shatter..

The Cv's truly butchered Tharuv if that is to be their end game.. because they are in such a rush to move things along their relationship is half baked... and neither their feelings for one another nor their bond has been explored past the sir and ji .. the formality ruins it but then I don't really see the chemistry either.. my personal opinion..!!

This post seems to have divided the forum in 2 groups and everyone is out with guns blazing. Peace please. 😆