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In today's episode we got to see twinkle show her love and respect for her mom. & She again told yuvraj that her mom matters most to her and that's it.
But the big lesson takeaway point I got from this twinkle yuvi scene was twinkle's almost revelation/confession that she was aware and tolerated yuvi's bad behavior, rudeness, anger all because she thought he would change for her- she thought her love could change him! This is a big thing she said; unfortunately it holds true for many people in relationships, both females and males. There are many people who put a blind eye to abuse like yuvraj's, it could be emotional abuse, just terrible possessive and violent behavior (at any degree).
People like twinkle accept it because they remember the good times, they just love them and feel it'll go away, they will change over time from their love. But this behavior is wrong no matter what, and if it's repeated, chance is it won't stop, so it's better to stop dreaming and living in denial. Though it took a lot for twinkle to get to this stage of finally accepting yuvraj behaves really bad, & is disrespectful (still she just knows a quarter of how bad he is), at least she was able to accept she was living with false hopes he would change for her. Also the slap was very justified and I'm so glad she stood up for herself by doing so.
Glad they are giving this lesson of how important it is to not stand abuse of any kind, in the false hopes that an aggressor will change for you, and or that your love for them will make them change. This is a fantasy illusion that sadly many people fall prey to.
Ye Hai Mohabbatein
Mangal Lakshmi
