Why is Twinkle so dumb.... - Page 2

Originally posted by: Bolly*_Crazed

This is what is wrong with our culture. We always get to see a weak-headed character who happens to be a female and ready to dishonour her family for her love, but then we get to see a strong-headed male lead who will do anything for his family. Here we have Twinkle who only sees her loves pain, her 'love' who threatens to chop her finger off ?!? What was that? And then after all that she DEFENDS Yuvi's actions to Kunj and ON TOP of that shows KUNJ ATTITUDE...for literally nothing!

These narrow-minded cringe worthy female leads in these soap operas are OTT and need to stop being written LIKE DAMN 😆

its simple cos she is the lead in in indian show where females are always or 99.99% of the time are shown dumb

Originally posted by: kubare

Lovely post dear and so true...

When ever they portray a young girl in love..they show her to be completely blind or completely submissive and easily led...

And on the other hand the Hero...is Perfection Personified...

Twinkle character is truly irritating me first because of her taking and accepting violence from Yuvi her so called love and secondly because she keeps blaming Kunj for all that is wrong with her own BF and his behaviour and messes that they are making...

The other thing is does she really even love or respect her family...especially her mother...who she can so easily lie to and use and abuse her mother's trust in her so blatantly...

Sigh...for once why cant they show a young lady in love who has not lost her brains...integrity...self respect...individuality and personality

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

See, this is the major problem that I have with Twinkle and am not buying her notion of "true love". A love that dishonors, disrespects not just you, but people that you care about, is not love at all. I am getting fed up on Twinkle constantly defending Yuvi and his abusive ways and instead insulting Kunj who is in the right. Raised by an abusive father, Kunj recognizes Yuvi to be doing the same with Twinkle and does not abide by it. But there is so little he can do when he does not even have the authority to call himself Twinkle's friend.

I understand Kunj and Yuvi are deliberately being set up as polar opposites to make the audience understand who is clearly the correct choice for Twinkle. But there is a limit to this set-up. There are some things that I can allow Twinkle to slide, but when it comes to blatant physical abuse? No. That's when she needs to take a firm stand and tell Yuvi once and after all that she won't tolerate this type of nonsense from him. If he truly loves her, then he needs to learn how to respect her first.

@Bolly*_Crazed - I agree with you and it all had to do with maturity. Similar to you, there were things back when I was a teenager that I had thought were complete romantic. But when I look back at them, it's anything but. As we grow up and face certain situations and undergo particular experiences our level of maturity increases. Twinkle's hasn't as she has been spoiled and protected from the evils of the world. Unlike Yuvi, who has been brought up with hate a anger (hence his violent tendencies) and Kunj, who has been brought up by an abusive father (hence his protective behavior); Twinkle has been brought up with immense love and care. She is living in a fairytale where she is the damsel in distress that can only be saved by constantly proving her love. She is in love with the idea of love, but she hasn't understood love at all.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

@Bolly*_Crazed - I agree with you and it all had to do with maturity. Similar to you, there were things back when I was a teenager that I had thought were complete romantic. But when I look back at them, it's anything but. As we grow up and face certain situations and undergo particular experiences our level of maturity increases. Twinkle's hasn't as she has been spoiled and protected from the evils of the world. Unlike Yuvi, who has been brought up with hate a anger (hence his violent tendencies) and Kunj, who has been brought up by an abusive father (hence his protective behavior); Twinkle has been brought up with immense love and care. She is living in a fairytale where she is the damsel in distress that can only be saved by constantly proving her love. She is in love with the idea of love, but she hasn't understood love at all.

She is not even getting Babaji's signs

Originally posted by: Chahanya

She is not even getting Babaji's signs

Babaji also does not want her to be with Yuvi

Gurudware mein sagai karte time the ring fell when the Gurbani began

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I say she is not being dumb she is being a doormat Yuvi wipes his crap all over her and she says meri galti hai itna kyun kiya aur kar na

Originally posted by: HermionePotter

I loved the fact how she use to stand up to yuvi and refused to tolerate his shit. But then she started crying and letting yuvi be abusive towards her. Don't know why such sudden change in twinkle.

Any person should never dumb themselves down just to make their loved ones happy!