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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey guys!!
If possible dont try and leave the forum. Lets not forget we are SwaSan fan first. I know the forum has lost all its charm. Every small and little thing is dissected. Even if you post your criticism towards the characters, it still is termed BASHING.
But if possible, try and ignore such post. I cannot force people but if everyone will start leaving, what will end up happening? If there is a small chance that this show can be revived and can get its lost charm back, we will need people here for the support. Thats my take on it. So please, do reconsider your decision
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey please don't leave forum. I know we haven't interacted much but still its a request. Even I am not watching the show but still visit the forum. I understand your pov and also respect it. This current phase is pretty tough for SwaSan fans and even somewhat I am disappointed. I was trying to detach myself from SwaSan because this negativity but couldn't do it. You know this is not the first time when I am disappointed as a fan but like you said it also taught me a great deal. I mostly ignore off-screen matters because once I was very hurt as a fan because the actor/actress I adored didn't leave any chance to insult the fans publicly. I will not take any name but from that time I have decided I will only focus on on-screen. Almost after 2 years of that incident again I became crazy fan of SwaSan. I know you love SwaSan so please visit this place and express your thoughts on SwaSan scenes (if we get any) like always. Take care dear.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: tiny15

@TM i don't know ur name sorry. but i m requesting u not 2 leave the forum permanently.

btw i can understand ur feelings but i m sure soon things will b better & will b in our favour.



My name is Shobha. I doubt whether anything will improve, it is drama, drama, and more drama and senseless as well!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: krishuuu

Hey dear..

Even i dont know u...but i would be nice if you stay till show ends..after that all will end...but till than dont quit IF...i felt good to see swasan fans...

Talia



What is left to discuss? and I am not leaving IF, just taking a break. I shall be back when some other show catches my fancy
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: luvakanksha

I am leaving the forum and the serial too. Too much negativity. It's hard, swasan were more than just couple for me, they symbolized love for me and that belief still continue. So I am with you, yeah will definitely meet on some other forum. Beyhad is looking promising on Sony, I would catch up with that show.

Will miss you all friends, I made a lot of friends on this forum, swasan made me me more vocal in this forum, otherwise I was even shy to press the like button on India forums. Thank you all.

This forum has lost objectivity
Sanskar swara ragini and lakshay are fictional characters and people always equate their criticism with Varun Helly Teju n namish respectively and this has happened quite a lot with me.
Also now this forum is getting personal and dirty. Commenting on an actor's character or demeaning him or her is something I never support.
Also yesterday I saw a post shared by someone from instagram where someone called Teju a s**t, I also saw many ig posts on FB where Helly is accused of sleeping with producers director's etc.
I am just fed up of all this, Helly is gem of a person she is handling it gracefully but I really don't want to be a part of this mess. It irritates me, i come on the forum to seek relaxation, debate, share my views and have fun. And that's not happening on this forum. A simple review post on the episode is called a raglak bashing post sometimes. I mean I don't know I am just very disheartened and disappointed.


Agree completely! One cannot make a discussion post here without it turning into a battlefield. During ML track, I had so many things I wanted to debate on, but I hardly posted since I really do not like fights. I am a peace-loving person.

When I discuss a show or scene, I take all into account, not just my OTP. Unfortunately that is not acceptable here. This is the reason I have not joined any AT, because I cannot be watching out for every p and q before saying something. Healthy debates are impossible, then why a forum at all??
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nupur_5

If every SwaSanians start leaving the forum, what will happen to SwaSan?

Please don't leave! And please keep patience!
Our first love is SwaSan, we are here for SwaSan! So please stay for SwaSan!



My first love is SwaSan too...but are we getting SwaSan now? 😔 It is swaraaagiiiniii all the way!! I am unable to accept Ragini now though I loved her in the beginning. I really cannot take this behna bond and their "Hum Swaragini hai...blah blah blah" anymore!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ishanita

heya dear I am with u on the same sinking boat !
now I am feeling sort of cheated as I devoted my past one year to a person who even don't care

let's pray to meet again on some lovely place and where we have some existence in our favs eyes!

love ishita



Thank you for commenting. Yes, I am sure we will meet on some other forum!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aamias

dearie i left this forum long ago soumi just pulled me back she pinged evry day now also i visit this forum bcoz it is bookmarked in my mobile .

i am swasan fan true but i want to say u i never seen such tantrums i only heard that vivian is insecured of drasthi and doesnt want to do any romantic scenes but then they made a shit out of the story so i left it

here it is same actually speaking it is crap but better than some craps but the negativity is making me leave it
u wont believe i left MATSH but there bonding is something i loved overall and watched SBS iv just to see funny shakti and Radhika.
how much ppl say ofscreen bonding is not needed blah blah but if it affects ur acting and if u cannt be professional to give ivs see ivs doesnt mean rom scenes they are there to promote their serials thats it its a part of publicity look at Ranbir-Deepika . i might hate y colleague but it doesnt mean i wont go to a site to inspect it and make lame excuses knowing if I dont go it wont matter and dont tell others he was the one to make blue print . or I will sit alone and do my lunch i will surely share my lunch with that person and workers though I would want to poison him and he too feel the same . We live in a world where I have seen ppl who hate each other do business
its about commitment towards the serial
Nevertheless, I feel good when I got to know someone better

I dont know anyone personally and i dont want to know them too why would I ? I am happy with my life . i am not judging them just telling my POV and abt actor they get paid to dothe work so true like us but the fame is bestowed upon by us.
I dont understand when they say they need privacy then they want their serial to be low profile too.
i said this bcoz y cousin went to meet a writer in quest mall he started shouting on others for breaching his privacy i was like if nobody want to buy ur book or come for book launch how would u feel man?? hypocrisy at best .


@bold: Agree with you there! One has to be professional. Even I am not into private lives of anyone but a media interview is for the public, for the fans and there one should not let one's personal prejudices take precedence.

Thank you for the response! I think we have met on some other forum, your UN is familiar but I cannot remember now.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: .IamShonali.

Hey guys!!

If possible dont try and leave the forum. Lets not forget we are SwaSan fan first. I know the forum has lost all its charm. Every small and little thing is dissected. Even if you post your criticism towards the characters, it still is termed BASHING.
But if possible, try and ignore such post. I cannot force people but if everyone will start leaving, what will end up happening? If there is a small chance that this show can be revived and can get its lost charm back, we will need people here for the support. Thats my take on it. So please, do reconsider your decision



Shona, I too am a SwaSan fan first! But are we getting any SwaSan now? I doubt we will get any in the future as well. I ignore many posts...sometimes I read a few of the comments and sometimes I avoid them totally. You would know that I am more like a silent member. It is not because I have nothing to say, it is more because saying anything here is like walking on eggshells!


About reviving the show, I really have no hopes left now! I am tired of the senseless drama being shown. I like drama, but reasonably logical and entertaining drama. Bottomline is entertainment...that is what we watch TV for. I am sorry but I really cannot take it anymore. I have not watched since Monday and have not read updates either and I am already beginning to feel more cheerful and happier!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -LumosMaxima-

Hey please don't leave forum. I know we haven't interacted much but still its a request. Even I am not watching the show but still visit the forum. I understand your pov and also respect it. This current phase is pretty tough for SwaSan fans and even somewhat I am disappointed. I was trying to detach myself from SwaSan because this negativity but couldn't do it. You know this is not the first time when I am disappointed as a fan but like you said it also taught me a great deal. I mostly ignore off-screen matters because once I was very hurt as a fan because the actor/actress I adored didn't leave any chance to insult the fans publicly. I will not take any name but from that time I have decided I will only focus on on-screen. Almost after 2 years of that incident again I became crazy fan of SwaSan. I know you love SwaSan so please visit this place and express your thoughts on SwaSan scenes (if we get any) like always. Take care dear.


Meera (did I get the name right?, if not, sorry!) thanks for responding.

I too tried to detach myself from SwaSan but it is not easy. I still love them very much. This forum is not a pleasant place anymore and with the depressing drama in the show and the war posts here, I feel it is not worth spoiling my mood! Sep and Oct are happy, busy months with 4 festivals and I want to be able to celebrate without any negativity clouding my mind. It is better I let go now.

I am sorry to hear of your previous experience but for me this is the first time I have faced something like this. I don't go gaga over a celebrity easily. I have felt emotional only with 4 celebs so far including VaHe. One of them is not on any SNS but still connects with his fans and he publicly acknowledged our fandom (on his show) on IF in an interview commending our sense of humour and imagination. The second person is very active on SNS and though I watched his 2 shows on YT long after they were aired, I sent a mail of appreciation and I was surprised to receive a nice reply countering each of my opinions. I have still preserved that mail.😊 Varun disappointed me. I have no interest in his personal life, likes, dislikes whatever, but a media interview is not a personal affair. That is for the the public, the fans. A celebrity should understand the pulse of his/her fandom and respond accordingly. I have no objections to anything that was said or done on those numerous segments except that he ignored the Swa of SwaSan which made him so popular. To exclude/ignore your leading lady from birthday celebrations with the media (which is what fans wait for) is just not done. This is my opinion and I stick to it. Fourth is Helly and she is the sweetest of all! She posted bday wishes for her co-star with a pic of the gerua date...now that is what I mean by understanding the pulse of her fans!

One more thing, just because I feel an emotional connect with an actor does not mean I will watch all his/her shows. But I definitely give their shows a chance and if I like the content, then only I follow it.

And last but not the least, I don't like bashing or bad-mouthing anyone, whether you like, dislike or are indifferent. There is too much of that also on this forum, which is affecting my peace of mind. It is time to let go!

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