Originally posted by: -FlameOfHope-
Wait, wait. 'Have the cake and eat it too' theory refers to having both the old and building new memories? I didn't see this! π
Bigg Boss 19: Daily Discussion Thread - 21st Oct 25
Bigg Boss 19: Daily Discussion Thread- 20th Oct 2025
DO PHOOL DO MALA 21.10
SECRET OUTT 20.10
Deepika and Ranveer wish diwali with Dua
Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai - 20 Oct 2025 EDT
Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai Oct. 21, 2025 Episode Discussion Thread
Anupamaa 20 Oct 2025 Written Update & Daily Discussions Thread
Book Talk Reading Challenge & Book Bingo, November '25 || Sign-up OPEN
Indian tv Blockbuster ! Parvati & Tulsi : The OG Bahus Mahasangam Epi
Ibrahim Ali Khan Admits Nadaaniyan Was A Bad Film
Veteran Actor Asrani Passes Away
Bill Gates To Appear on Kyunki?!
Mihir is a loser
🏏IPL 2026 Schedule: Time Table, Teams, Match List, Fixtures🏏
Malti hinted at Baseer being gay!
Originally posted by: -FlameOfHope-
Wait, wait. 'Have the cake and eat it too' theory refers to having both the old and building new memories? I didn't see this! π
Originally posted by: CogitoErgoSum
All very valid points. π€ You have me convinced, that Swara needs to remember Sanskaar and the amazingly lovely bond they shared, at some stage in the near to mid term future.But I would like to see her fall in love all over again with Sanskaar in the interim, experience all those lovely firsts that they had, once again. And then remember those previous moments, in all their glory. π³
Originally posted by: CogitoErgoSum
Yup. π It means building new memories, Swara getting to fall in love with Sanskaar again, experience all those "firsts": mutual love confession, date, romantic proposal, kiss, making love βΊοΈ etc etc. And THEN, recover the beautiful earlier memories, while still having these special latest ones. The "have the cake and eat it too" model.It wasn't in the initial post. But came up in discussions on page 1. ππ
Originally posted by: Sakura24
Unres as my 3800th postπ³,
What I believe in is that you have to lose something to really know what place in your heart it occupied. Then finding it, having it returned to you is an out wordly feeling. This is what I want, as you said Viji dearest, it is the selfish SwaSan fan's model of have the cake and eat it too!
I want Sanskar to fight and try to win her heart, I want Swara slowly melting towards the man who she believes wishes ill for her. I want her to see the light within his soul and yet restrain herself thinking he is just pretending. Then perhaps feel guilty for all that she did and try to stay away in order to not hurt him more...I want all the faint smiles, light brushings of hands, hidden tears, longing sighs in between. Then I want him to almost lose hope, I want her to regain her memories realize what she meant to him and how whatever she does she can never hurt him, see how they are always meant to be together and then I want her running back to his embrace and perhaps another wonderful confession.
This is my idea of having the cake and eating it with Icing, frost, plums, nuts and cherries too!π³
Love,
Saku
Originally posted by: -FlameOfHope-
Hey Viji, yes I remember. I haven't forgotten at all actually. I have good memory. π
Oh, oh. See what Internet makes people do. π I am now finally to hit it.Ah yes, it's a clear winner. It was bound to be after all, it has the best of both worlds. π