Originally posted by: temishfan
But words do make an impact on a person, even if in his heart all 3 are equal for him but he says that you are my daughter and you are my bahu then the other will feel bad and I don't blame parineeta here, she has been the bahu since so many years and she has been serving and taking care of this family even before ragini swara came so he should have said that parineeta is my daughter
I get what you guys are saying. But its how he sees it. Ever since he has realized how wrong he was in judging Swara, he had developed a special soft corner for the girl. And she has also earned that love and respect by constantly risking herself and helping and saving them. Call that Swara's Mahaanta or dedication and devotion for the family.. Its like if god would ask DP what would you like in his next birth, i think he will say a daughter like Swara. Even Ragini smiled dil se when Swara was called the beti of the house.
Agree, Parineeta is the eldest bahu of the house and she should always receive the audha or respect based on that. And she still does. And as Luvakansha said, even though he is saying there are two daughters and daughter in laws in the house, he still treats them equally.
He just has a very soft corner in his heart for Swara and I think he loves her more than Uttara as well.