did you like sanskar? - Page 2

yes i like him bcoz swara broke his trust

i voted yes
m liking this version of sanskaar.. i know many r not liking dis behaviour of his
nd i don't think cvs has ruined his character
..suppose if swara was in place of sanskaar..suppose if swara would have fallen in love wd sanskaar nd sanskaar would have not reciprocated his love for swara..he qould have snapped their friendship..and all of the above he would have distrusted swara..m sure swara would not even like to look at him..uske pyaar pe vishwaas toh bahut door ki baat hai
i think his behaviour is justified.. nd m damn sure sanskaar will make up to all dis!

And WHY would anyone hate him ? Because he didn't believe swara's love ? Swara's realization happened overnight...she NEVER even once said she wanted to continue this marriage before. Did we hate swara when she insulted his love on every ocassion possible ? Did we hate swara when she made everyone else her priority except her husband...the one person who stood by her through thick and thin ? No. Then why will I ever hate sanskaar ? Yes he is rude. His rudeness is NOT fully justified. But dear jwala he's human. A highly flawed one but the most real character of the show. Can we wait for his wounds to heal instead of judging him ? We can all see swara's tears can anyone see sanskaar's pain ? People would argue ..his pain is self caused. He can accept swara and end this trauma for both of them but no he cant. For him, swara's love is somewhat pity love right now. He feels she is loving him cause she feels obligated to do so. We all know how swara forced lakshya to give ragini another chance because he's married to her. Because according to her, that's the right thing to do. Sanskaar fees the same...she's loving him because she feels its the right thing to do. Sanskaar still hasn't understood the depth of her love for him. But did swara understand his ? No. For the longest time she was ignorant about his feelings for her. She doubted him...broke the very base of their relationship and was about to blame him in front of the police for which he would have been arrested even ! She only stopped cause ragini asked her to. Now how would sanskaar feel ? He was the only person who stood by her when everyone was maligning her character. The only person who stood up against his mom and badi maa. Darling he has always stood up for her ! Even when he was angry at her he shut ragini's mouth on the staircase that day. He didn't let swara serve in front of the guests and chose to turn a waiter himself. Now you would say...why didnt he stand up for her when she was being 'humiliated' in front of the family. Well...how can he stand up for her when he himself isn't sure about her feelings ? Why would he stop swara when he doesnt believe she loves him ? He did try to shut ragini's mouth once in that particular scene if you remember. I'm not justifying his behavior. I'm just trying to understand him. He's trying to protect himself from getting hurt...his way of acting is very wrong but his intentions and reasons are still understandable. He's not mahaan like swara. He's not dumb and impulsive like lakshya. He isnt evil and cunning like ragini either. He's human. He's perfect with all his imperfections and that is what makes me love sanskaar maheshwari soo much !😳

Originally posted by: tiny15

i don't like his present behaviour but i don't hate him just like i din't like swara's behaviour wid sanskar but never hated her.

i cud understand her so i understand sanskar 2.

tho it luks bad that hes not saying anything abt swara getting insulted but his expressions on her insult clearly showed hes restraining himself. either he wants her 2 go away 4 her safety & so not saying anything.

i m angry wid CVs bcoz its not sanskar's ckt.he mite b angry or in denial he wudn't'd said swara as trying 2 b mahan etc.

i wish hes playacting & CVs just 4 a min show his monologue abt it.

Totally agree with you,
I never hated Swara then, and I don't hate Sanskaar now. You see it's normal human behavior.
Yes I'm sad for Swara...I really can connect with her feelings. She'll be worried and insecure cuz she knows what Kavta means to him.
Sanskaar loved Kavita in the past, and he was ready to give evrything up for her.and suddenly she re-appear. I'm sure he has feelings for her. He will obviously be confused in the beginning. But I have no doubt on his love for Swara.
He will get his closure after this. Swasan need to pass this space, it's better now than later. But I hate CVs for putting us in this toture.

Originally posted by: Cintila

And WHY would anyone hate him ? Because he didn't believe swara's love ? Swara's realization happened overnight...she NEVER even once said she wanted to continue this marriage before. Did we hate swara when she insulted his love on every ocassion possible ? Did we hate swara when she made everyone else her priority except her husband...the one person who stood by her through thick and thin ? No. Then why will I ever hate sanskaar ? Yes he is rude. His rudeness is NOT fully justified. But dear jwala he's human. A highly flawed one but the most real character of the show. Can we wait for his wounds to heal instead of judging him ? We can all see swara's tears can anyone see sanskaar's pain ? People would argue ..his pain is self caused. He can accept swara and end this trauma for both of them but no he cant. For him, swara's love is somewhat pity love right now. He feels she is loving him cause she feels obligated to do so. We all know how swara forced lakshya to give ragini another chance because he's married to her. Because according to her, that's the right thing to do. Sanskaar fees the same...she's loving him because she feels its the right thing to do. Sanskaar still hasn't understood the depth of her love for him. But did swara understand his ? No. For the longest time she was ignorant about his feelings for her. She doubted him...broke the very base of their relationship and was about to blame him in front of the police for which he would have been arrested even ! She only stopped cause ragini asked her to. Now how would sanskaar feel ? He was the only person who stood by her when everyone was maligning her character. The only person who stood up against his mom and badi maa. Darling he has always stood up for her ! Even when he was angry at her he shut ragini's mouth on the staircase that day. He didn't let swara serve in front of the guests and chose to turn a waiter himself. Now you would say...why didnt he stand up for her when she was being 'humiliated' in front of the family. Well...how can he stand up for her when he himself isn't sure about her feelings ? Why would he stop swara when he doesnt believe she loves him ? He did try to shut ragini's mouth once in that particular scene if you remember. I'm not justifying his behavior. I'm just trying to understand him. He's trying to protect himself from getting hurt...his way of acting is very wrong but his intentions and reasons are still understandable. He's not mahaan like swara. He's not dumb and impulsive like lakshya. He isnt evil and cunning like ragini either. He's human. He's perfect with all his imperfections and that is what makes me love sanskaar maheshwari soo much !😳

PS: Sorry for the rant 😆

you said it all Tuhi... but in much nicer way than me... I had my own rant written but I am holding it back for now...

Originally posted by: Lavender_Love

you said it all Tuhi... but in much nicer way than me... I had my own rant written but I am holding it back for now...

Originally posted by: Cintila

And WHY would anyone hate him ? Because he didn't believe swara's love ? Swara's realization happened overnight...she NEVER even once said she wanted to continue this marriage before. Did we hate swara when she insulted his love on every ocassion possible ? Did we hate swara when she made everyone else her priority except her husband...the one person who stood by her through thick and thin ? No. Then why will I ever hate sanskaar ? Yes he is rude. His rudeness is NOT fully justified. But dear jwala he's human. A highly flawed one but the most real character of the show. Can we wait for his wounds to heal instead of judging him ? We can all see swara's tears can anyone see sanskaar's pain ? People would argue ..his pain is self caused. He can accept swara and end this trauma for both of them but no he cant. For him, swara's love is somewhat pity love right now. He feels she is loving him cause she feels obligated to do so. We all know how swara forced lakshya to give ragini another chance because he's married to her. Because according to her, that's the right thing to do. Sanskaar fees the same...she's loving him because she feels its the right thing to do. Sanskaar still hasn't understood the depth of her love for him. But did swara understand his ? No. For the longest time she was ignorant about his feelings for her. She doubted him...broke the very base of their relationship and was about to blame him in front of the police for which he would have been arrested even ! She only stopped cause ragini asked her to. Now how would sanskaar feel ? He was the only person who stood by her when everyone was maligning her character. The only person who stood up against his mom and badi maa. Darling he has always stood up for her ! Even when he was angry at her he shut ragini's mouth on the staircase that day. He didn't let swara serve in front of the guests and chose to turn a waiter himself. Now you would say...why didnt he stand up for her when she was being 'humiliated' in front of the family. Well...how can he stand up for her when he himself isn't sure about her feelings ? Why would he stop swara when he doesnt believe she loves him ? He did try to shut ragini's mouth once in that particular scene if you remember. I'm not justifying his behavior. I'm just trying to understand him. He's trying to protect himself from getting hurt...his way of acting is very wrong but his intentions and reasons are still understandable. He's not mahaan like swara. He's not dumb and impulsive like lakshya. He isnt evil and cunning like ragini either. He's human. He's perfect with all his imperfections and that is what makes me love sanskaar maheshwari soo much !😳

PS: Sorry for the rant 😆

Originally posted by: The.Lannister

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Originally posted by: Cintila

Shruuu 🤗

@Tuhi, Nitz, Shruti : dekho yaar more u will try to defend Sanskar more people will tell u "Swara's pain not pain only Sanskar's pain pain" or u r a Sanskar fan that's why u r not ready to see Swara's POV.