did you like sanskar? - Page 5

Originally posted by: Cintila

What is your point Jwala ? All i tried to explain is why sanskaar doesn't believe in swara's love for him. All the while i've been saying his actions are rude and i do NOT support them but i totally understand where he's coming from ! He's lashing out because all his feelings have been bottled up since a very long time.

Originally posted by: Cintila

And WHY would anyone hate him ? Because he didn't believe swara's love ? Swara's realization happened overnight...she NEVER even once said she wanted to continue this marriage before. Did we hate swara when she insulted his love on every ocassion possible ? Did we hate swara when she made everyone else her priority except her husband...the one person who stood by her through thick and thin ? No. Then why will I ever hate sanskaar ? Yes he is rude. His rudeness is NOT fully justified. But dear jwala he's human. A highly flawed one but the most real character of the show. Can we wait for his wounds to heal instead of judging him ? We can all see swara's tears can anyone see sanskaar's pain ? People would argue ..his pain is self caused. He can accept swara and end this trauma for both of them but no he cant. For him, swara's love is somewhat pity love right now. He feels she is loving him cause she feels obligated to do so. We all know how swara forced lakshya to give ragini another chance because he's married to her. Because according to her, that's the right thing to do. Sanskaar fees the same...she's loving him because she feels its the right thing to do. Sanskaar still hasn't understood the depth of her love for him. But did swara understand his ? No. For the longest time she was ignorant about his feelings for her. She doubted him...broke the very base of their relationship and was about to blame him in front of the police for which he would have been arrested even ! She only stopped cause ragini asked her to. Now how would sanskaar feel ? He was the only person who stood by her when everyone was maligning her character. The only person who stood up against his mom and badi maa. Darling he has always stood up for her ! Even when he was angry at her he shut ragini's mouth on the staircase that day. He didn't let swara serve in front of the guests and chose to turn a waiter himself. Now you would say...why didnt he stand up for her when she was being 'humiliated' in front of the family. Well...how can he stand up for her when he himself isn't sure about her feelings ? Why would he stop swara when he doesnt believe she loves him ? He did try to shut ragini's mouth once in that particular scene if you remember. I'm not justifying his behavior. I'm just trying to understand him. He's trying to protect himself from getting hurt...his way of acting is very wrong but his intentions and reasons are still understandable. He's not mahaan like swara. He's not dumb and impulsive like lakshya. He isnt evil and cunning like ragini either. He's human. He's perfect with all his imperfections and that is what makes me love sanskaar maheshwari soo much !😳

PS: Sorry for the rant 😆

Originally posted by: Sree8410

Hi pubi, nothing good is coming our way anytime soon. Even for new year we have kavita returning to add more misery to our life.😭had hoped to see a some good moments, but they are not going to talk to each other till then and later ka koi chance bhi nahi.

@bold there has to be an explanation. for this we will have to wait till swara's life will be in danger or till kavita ask him to tell where his heart lies. I so want a bomb blast for him to wake up now. First it was for swara's realisation now for his. All hope is on Feb 14, where they can have a mutual confession.

Originally posted by: dattu21

sorry dear , i am not agree with you..i think according to your views sanskar willl select kavita over swara because he loved her ,believed in her love for him & became different person to take revenge ..

when sanskar proposed & after ragini's truth , swara told him to not involve but he himself involve in this mess & not to forget ...swara 's position where her marriage has been broken ,her sister betrayed her , her parents apart etc ...

now every 1 in both family know that swara loves sanskar even lakshya & ragini can see that even they said that differently in different way then how can sanskar is not able to see that??????????????????it's not same sanskar whom i like most...

Originally posted by: Cintila

Hello Vaibhi !😊

I would have appreciated if you directly quoted my reply and asked me..instead of replying like this but its okay. @Bold - now where did this come from ?? Why does everyone think whoever is defending sanskaar is against swara ? Isn't it swasan that we're supporting ? I love swara for her bigheartedness. I really do. Forgiving sanskaar for all the heinous things he did was what made me fall for swara's character. I love swara too !

Ofcourse she deserves forgiveness and she will get it eventually. I'm just trying to make people understand why its not right to hate sanskar for his behaviour at this point. I just tried to explain where he's coming from. Swara and sanskaar are two very different people. Swara forgives easily. She forgave sanskaar..she forgave lakshya and even ragini for whatever hey did. But sanskaar is not like her. He's the same person who held a grudge against his own family for 5 long years. They are two very different individuals and we just cannot compare them ! We can't expect swara to act like sanskaar neither can we expect sanskaar to act like swara.

Originally posted by: Cintila

Hello Vaibhi !😊

I would have appreciated if you directly quoted my reply and asked me..instead of replying like this but its okay. @Bold - now where did this come from ?? Why does everyone think whoever is defending sanskaar is against swara ? Isn't it swasan that we're supporting ? I love swara for her bigheartedness. I really do. Forgiving sanskaar for all the heinous things he did was what made me fall for swara's character. I love swara too !

Ofcourse she deserves forgiveness and she will get it eventually. I'm just trying to make people understand why its not right to hate sanskar for his behaviour at this point. I just tried to explain where he's coming from. Swara and sanskaar are two very different people. Swara forgives easily. She forgave sanskaar..she forgave lakshya and even ragini for whatever hey did. But sanskaar is not like her. He's the same person who held a grudge against his own family for 5 long years. They are two very different individuals and we just cannot compare them ! We can't expect swara to act like sanskaar neither can we expect sanskaar to act like swara.