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Posted: 9 years ago
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I partially agree with whatever you have said. But even then I still think Swara was wrong in blaming Sanskaar for one & one reason alone. Had he truly kidnapped Ragini & seen the blame falling on Swara he would have confessed. He would never have allowed his ma & badi ma to insult her so badly for his crimes. He would never have let her suffer. The arrest was also a result of the kidnapping. She should have had that much trust in him at least that no matter what he would never do this to me. He might kidnap Ragini for me, but in no universe will Sanskaar let me suffer for his mistakes. You dont need to love a person to realize this much about him. Even friendship can have that amount of trust. And if none of the above struck her, his being hurt by her accusations should have stopped her.

You first find the proofs, determine the motive & then decide the culprit. Instead Swara decided Sanskaar was the culprit when she saw him burning the blanket (or maybe she doubted him even before that as she was hiding when she saw him come down) & then went ahead to find more proofs. And she yet hasnt determined what his motive in kidnapping Ragini could be. He is the one person among the four who has least to gain & more to lose by kidnapping Ragini


@Ragini: I truly hope that we get a redemption track for Ragini now. I am very very tired of her never ending crimes.Her redemption is like a now or never kind of a situation now. And even I will love to see Ragini & Sanskaar back as friends together with Sanskaar helping her find the true culprit. Maybe once she knows it is Laksh she can finally get over him & begin life afresh?


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: The.Lannister

I partially agree with whatever you have said. But even then I still think Swara was wrong in blaming Sanskaar for one & one reason alone. Had he truly kidnapped Ragini & seen the blame falling on Swara he would have confessed. He would never have allowed his ma & badi ma to insult her so badly for his crimes. He would never have let her suffer. The arrest was also a result of the kidnapping. She should have had that much trust in him at least that no matter what he would never do this to me. He might kidnap Ragini for me, but in no universe will Sanskaar let me suffer for his mistakes. You dont need to love a person to realize this much about him. Even friendship can have that amount of trust. And if none of the above struck her, his being hurt by her accusations should have stopped her.

You first find the proofs, determine the motive & then decide the culprit. Instead Swara decided Sanskaar was the culprit when she saw him burning the blanket (or maybe she doubted him even before that as she was hiding when she saw him come down) & then went ahead to find more proofs. And she yet hasnt determined what his motive in kidnapping Ragini could be. He is the one person among the four who has least to gain & more to lose by kidnapping Ragini


@Ragini: I truly hope that we get a redemption track for Ragini now. I am very very tired of her never ending crimes.Her redemption is like a now or never kind of a situation now. And even I will love to see Ragini & Sanskaar back as friends together with Sanskaar helping her find the true culprit. Maybe once she knows it is Laksh she can finally get over him & begin life afresh?



I get what you are saying. Yes, she should have understood that Sanskaar would not let her be blamed for something he did. But what I am trying to put across is, she does not yet feel that way about Sanskaar. She says he is her best friend...but has she always treated him as her best friend? No. She has not really considered his feelings seriously anytime. She has trust issues and it will take something big for her to change...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: The.Lannister

I partially agree with whatever you have said. But even then I still think Swara was wrong in blaming Sanskaar for one & one reason alone. Had he truly kidnapped Ragini & seen the blame falling on Swara he would have confessed. He would never have allowed his ma & badi ma to insult her so badly for his crimes. He would never have let her suffer. The arrest was also a result of the kidnapping. She should have had that much trust in him at least that no matter what he would never do this to me. He might kidnap Ragini for me, but in no universe will Sanskaar let me suffer for his mistakes. You dont need to love a person to realize this much about him. Even friendship can have that amount of trust. And if none of the above struck her, his being hurt by her accusations should have stopped her.

You first find the proofs, determine the motive & then decide the culprit. Instead Swara decided Sanskaar was the culprit when she saw him burning the blanket (or maybe she doubted him even before that as she was hiding when she saw him come down) & then went ahead to find more proofs. And she yet hasnt determined what his motive in kidnapping Ragini could be. He is the one person among the four who has least to gain & more to lose by kidnapping Ragini


@Ragini: I truly hope that we get a redemption track for Ragini now. I am very very tired of her never ending crimes.Her redemption is like a now or never kind of a situation now. And even I will love to see Ragini & Sanskaar back as friends together with Sanskaar helping her find the true culprit. Maybe once she knows it is Laksh she can finally get over him & begin life afresh?




Wonderfully put, Shruti. I agree with this, 100%. The fact that Sanskaar would never, ever let any blame fall on Swara, should be so clearly obvious to her. The fact that she still didn't think of it...😕 Ah well. As I said in one of my posts earlier, she is just so misguided, so dense.

I just hope and pray, that she is shown repenting majorly for this. If after Lakshya's truth is out, she just sheds a couple of tears, and Sanskaar gives her his kerchief and goes back to normal, I will literally blow a blood vessel. No one ever seems to repent for their mistakes, except for Sanskaar, who has been walking over hot coals to redeem himself.

Just like Annapurna and Sujata, who never apologize to Swara for all the crap they speak, if Swara is shown to be laughing off this breach of trust, it would be a grave injustice. I may be a sadist, but I want Sanskaar to distance himself a bit.

Ok, we say in Swara's defense that trust takes time to evolve. I agree with this. But breach of trust takes time and effort to heal, too. It doesn't go back to hunky dory at the snap of one's fingers.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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wow bang on post..👏
agree with your points. swara shouldn't have taken such drastic step against sanskaar and i m not going to defend her. and personally i want her to pay for it even if it hurts sanskaar. yes i m may sound sadist but i want this to accept her sanskaar's love. it's difficult for me to watch him hurt becz of her stupidity.
SwaRag union.. i don't care. i was watching it only for swasan and now it's for only sanskaar till she begs sorry and reaize her mistake..😡
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I am not really defending Swara here. She should have learned her lesson long back after all that has happened...but Swara, I have found, is very slow on the uptake. And the fact that the people in her life whom she valued most back-stabbed her is making it difficult for her to accept Sanskaar's unconditional love. Her feeling of self-worth is rather low, I feel.

She gives unconditional love to her family because she has this need to be accepted by them...but she has not realized yet how much she needs Sanskaar in her life!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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She is not weird, but her problem is except for her family ie ma baba n ragini she sees everyone else at the same
footage
Ragini cant be wrong who does everything
wrong
Her baba also did not trust her
Shomi has not done anything yet.

But atleast before questioning sanskar she should have been seen in a turmoil as to whether he can do it or not
Like heart saying no n mind yes...should have been a better option because her relation wid sanskar is not that of love as yet ...but trust

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