Is Swara's behaviour really weird?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I am glad to see the number of positive posts here after yesterday's episode...and the following is my contribution to keep our spirits high. 😊

Is Swara's behaviour really weird? 🤔

After watching the epi yesterday, I was pretty upset. I understood the doubt Swara would get seeing the evidence piling up against Sanskaar, but I did not like the way she handled the situation. To just assume he is guilty without thinking over or asking more questions was just too much to take.

Today morning, I watched the repeat and I have a different take on the situation. 😊

Was Swara really out of character in jumping to the conclusion that Sanskaar is the kidnapper? Not really, I feel, when you think over it. 😊

Swara is not yet in love with Sanskaar, while he is head over heels in love with her. His trusting her when all the evidence seemed against her is not surprising. Not only does he love her, but he knows what kind of a person she is. She is not the kind who would harm anyone, even her worst enemy. She forgives people who hurt her at the drop of a hat and the present situation involves Ragini, whom Swara loves unconditionally.

But it is not the same in Swara's case. She sees things which makes it look like Sanskaar is the culprit and she knows he is capable of it. He has a history of doing wrong when he can justify it, and he can be ruthless when the situation demands it. He is not sympathetic towards Ragini; they have had enough of disagreements over this. She sees him burn the blanket and then finds the receipt. She remembers other small things, like the drug. She jumps to the conclusion that Sanskaar has done it.

Thinking a little further, I feel that somewhere in her subconscious mind, she still holds Sanskaar responsible for everything that happened, and she is not really wrong in thinking so. Yes, he has apologized, helped her thru every difficulty and more than made up for the hurt he caused her. But there is still something that he has not been able to put right...the bond that Swara and Ragini had before everything blew up in their faces. It was not really Lakshya rejecting her that tipped Ragini over, not even the fact that he loved Swara instead, but the fact that Swara responded to Lakhshya's love for her. It was when Swara told her that she also loved Lakshya that Ragini changed towards Swara. And who was the cause? Sanskaar. He forced the situation with his revenge act and also involved Ragini in his plans. What happened later caused a rift in SwaRagini relationship. Swara's biggest happiness was her and her mom being accepted by her father and even that went for a toss. While the subsequent events and Sanskaar's penitence and support of Swara healed every breech, it still has not closed the chasm between Swara and Ragini. I feel that this is the prime reason Swara is in denial about her feelings for Sanskaar. 🤔

My hope is that what is coming is a redemption track for Ragini. I had initially thought Ragini is hand in glove with Lakshya in the kidnapping, but now I don't think so. I feel it was Lakshya's plan only (which surprises me a lot! 😲) and that Ragini is shell-shocked at what happened to her. This track will hopefully bring Swara and Ragini together again. I also wish that Sanskaar has a big hand in Ragini's redemption. Only Ragini's redemption and Swara and Ragini being together again will make his redemption complete. That is when Swara is going to realize Sanskaar's place in her life. His past has not finished with him yet, he has to pay some more for what he did. (This has been my pet theory always and I hold on to it! 😳)

Of course, the CVs are not dependable. 😳 They might throw a spanner in the works by making the MU big 😭, or the MU fake (Swara pretending to double Sanskaar) or keeping Ragini still negative (she is deceiving Swara). But until I see these things happen, I am going to sit back and enjoy the current track.

Do comment...if you have had the patience to read! And please don't get me wrong...I am first a Sanskaar fan and then a SwaSan fan and finally a Ragini fan. Sanskaar is the best male character of all the TV soaps I have watched so far, SwaSan chemistry I love with every romantic fiber in me, and Ragini is the first negative character I have been able to connect with...

...so cheers to SwaRagini!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree with most of the points, Shobhs. Swara certainly knows that Sanskaar can be ruthless, especially when something very dear to him is threatened. In this case, Swara knows very well, that Sanskaar absolutely adores her, loves her unconditionally, though she herself hasn't realized the depth of her emotions for him.

Swara & Sanskaar both know Ragini attempted to malign Swara's character, and portray her in a very poor light in front of the Maheshwari ladies. It is not really out of character for Swara to put 2 and 2 together to make 22, and doubt Sanskaar when she sees these supposed "clues". Especially when she knows, that Sanskaar has always felt that if the ends are acceptable/ worthy; then the means are justifiable.

So far, I am willing to cut Swara quite a bit of slack. But where I felt very upset with her yesterday, was when she confronted Sanskaar, and he told her how hurt he felt by her lack of trust. Ok, he didn't outright tell her in plain words "I did not kidnap Ragini". But he did say, that in a similar circumstance, when all the supposed proofs were against Swara (her alleged stringing along of both him and Lakshya), he never doubted her for a moment. It was pretty clear that the implied meaning of the words were: "I can't believe how you could doubt me like this". But Swara still chose not to trust.

I find that inexcusable, but yes, definitely not unpardonable. She surely would have trust issues, with the way she's been back stabbed repeatedly by her own flesh and blood (as well as that loser of an ex fiance!!😡), so I really can't condemn her too much, for being reluctant to trust Sanskaar absolutely, as yet. In all relationships, be it friendship or love or a marital relationship, trust takes time to evolve, and often, the partners don't proceed at the same pace in developing this feeling. It doesn't make Swara a bad person just because she's slow. 😛 Misguided, dense and frustrating, yes. But not so bad as to make her the villain of the piece.

She's going to realize soon enough what Sanskaar means to her, but it will take time. Probably being taken for a bit of a ride by Lakshya, is the wake up call she needs. And yes, the CVs better make her work hard to win Sanskaar's trust back again--I really do not want him to immediately tell her everything's fine, the moment she sheds a couple of tears. Just as in the real world, trust takes time to evolve, a breach of trust takes time to heal, too!

And yes-- I too hope that we are going to get a genuine Ragini redemption track, and not further irritating tracks of her using Uttara as a cat's paw against Swara! I would love to see Sanskaar actually helping Ragini in this process--just as friends. I think that is part of the closure he needs as well, to fully redeem himself from his past sins.


Edited by CogitoErgoSum - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: CogitoErgoSum



She's going to realize soon enough what Sanskaar means to her, but it will take time. Probably being taken for a bit of a ride by Lakshya, is the wake up call she needs. And yes, the CVs better make her work hard to win Sanskaar's trust back again--I really do not want him to immediately tell her everything's fine, the moment she sheds a couple of tears. Just as in the real world, trust takes time to evolve, a breach of trust takes time to heal, too!

And yes-- I too hope that we are going to get a genuine Ragini redemption track, and not further irritating tracks of her using Uttara as a cat's paw against Swara! I would love to see Sanskaar actually helping Ragini in this process--just as friends. I think that is part of the closure he needs as well, to fully redeem himself from his past sins.



@bold: Viji, I want this too...very much! Swara needs a redemption as well, as much as Ragini and Sanskaar!

@blue: Will we get this, I wonder! There was some spoiler which said Ragini is going to use Uttara against Swara...which does dash my hopes. What I am wishing for is that Uttara is taking the blame because she is working with her bro to smoke out the culprit, and not her cousin Lakshya! One can always hope, right?


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Completely agree...
S Dr one can always have hope
Very happy to see positive posts here after ysterdays episode
Thanku😊
Edited by Monica_Suhasini - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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sorry, i am not agree with you .i like teju but not ragini because she has tried murder attempt twice & when swara was fighting for her during navratri ,she still thought swara just pretended & in jealousy she want revenge .i hope something will be done & swara will realise about her feeling towards sanskar .for lux,i know most of all hate or dislike him but i like him the way he has taught lesson to ragini .only he is able to punish ragini which she truely deserves.i don't like lux's only habbit is that he is after his " bhabhi"...i don't want swaragini together .i hope swara doesn't trust ragini easily like always ...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Bang on post!! I loved it 👏👏

Swara's character sketch has kind of deteriorated and CVs need to work on her characterization. I love Sanskaar and his shades of grey. Having said that I would like to say something in Swara's defense from her pov.

As foolish as it might be, she is someone who always believes to see good in people. Even when Laksh said he would forget her and give Ragini a second chance she believed him. When Ragini said that she is changing she again believed her. When she got to know about Sanskaar trying to drug her, she still forgave him. Had Sanskaar told her he is not responsible for the kidnapping and given her a half convincing reasoning, she would have believed him because thats how she has always been. She cant read between the lines. She takes things by their face value. She believes what she sees and hears. I feel that they could have handled it differently. Swasan trying to solve it together or something...

As for her ever forgiving nature towards her family, did she not always crave for a family. Did she not want to be accepted and loved like Ragini? After being taunted as a fatherless child for years, she finally had a complete family. No matter how partial her father was, the fact that she had one seemed to be enough for her. What Sanskaar did, shattered this illusion she had created for herself and she was again branded as the bad one. He did help her regain what she had lost. She did forgive him long time ago. But it will take her time to built that unconditional trust
in him. To Sanskaar, swara was a fallen angel who healed him. But in Swara's case it is not
exactly the same.

Trust builds with time. Wounds heal with time. Swara was once burnt in the name of love. She
will take time to feel and accept the love again. Expecting her to love him the way he loves her
is impossible. I want swara's realization to be well constructed. I want her to work for Sanskaar's trust and love. I want them to put the past behind them, before they confess.
Edited by moonstonespirit - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: dattu21

sorry, i am not agree with you .i like teju but not ragini because she has tried murder attempt twice & when swara was fighting for her during navratri ,she still thought swara just pretended & in jealousy she want revenge .i hope something will be done & swara will realise about her feeling towards sanskar .for lux,i know most of all hate or dislike him but i like him the way he has taught lesson to ragini .only he is able to punish ragini which she truely deserves.i don't like lux's only habbit is that he is after his " bhabhi"...i don't want swaragini together .i hope swara doesn't trust ragini easily like always ...



No problem at all! A forum is for debate and if everyone agreed on everything, there would be no fun!

I too want Swara to realize her feelings for Sanskaar.

And Swaragini is going to happen sometime or the other...the show is titled that and it is going to remain story of two sisters primarily, I am afraid!

Please change the word "lux" in your post, this is not allowed as per the new rules...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Great post Shobs ! I think a lot of people including me had a knee jerk emotional reaction after watching the epi yesterday !After a good nights sleep a calming yoga session in the morning😆 and after re watching the episode my perspective has also changed a bit ! The whole time swara was searching sanskar's room and questioning him she was clearly feeling guilty it was not easy for her to question him like that ! And I liked your take on sanskar's redemption maybe there still more left to do on his side ,he was after all the person who was in a some way responsible for breaking up swaragini maybe after all this the sisters genuinely come together ,the revenge saga that sanskar started can come full circle .I hope this is genuinely a ragini redemption track and we don't get BJKT from the CV's ! But after all this I need to see that swara is genuinely sorry for not trusting sanskar and she gives him the respect he deserves.
Edited by sam. - 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: moonstonespirit

Bang on post!! I loved it 👏👏

As for her ever forgiving nature towards her family, did she not always crave for a family. Did she not want to be accepted and loved like Ragini? After being taunted as a fatherless child for years, she finally had a complete family. No matter how partial her father was, the fact that she had one seemed to be enough for her. What Sanskaar did, shattered this illusion she had created for herself and she was again branded as the bad one. He did help her regain what she had lost. She did forgive him long time ago. But it will take her time to built that unconditional trust
in him. To Sanskaar, swara was a fallen angel who healed him. But in Swara's case it is not
exactly the same.

Trust builds with time. Wounds heal with time. Swara was once burnt in the name of love. She
will take time to feel and accept the love again. Expecting her to love him the way he loves her
is impossible. I want swara's realization to be well constructed. I want her to work for Sanskaar's trust and love. I want them to put the past behind them, before they confess.


Thank you! @bold: Exactly, this is what I was trying to convey...you put it in better words! 😊


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sam.

Great post Shobs ! I think a lot of people including me had a knee jerk emotional reaction after watching the epi yesterday !After a good nights sleep a calming yoga session in the morning😆 and after re watching the episode my perspective has also changed a bit ! The whole time swara was searching sanskar's room and questioning him she was clearly feeling guilty it was not easy for her to question him like that ! And I liked your take on sanskar's redemption maybe there still more left to do on his side ,he was after all the person who was in a some way responsible for breaking up swaragini maybe after all this the sisters genuinely come together ,the revenge saga that sanskar started can come full circle .I hope this is genuinely a ragini redemption track and we don't get BJKT from the CV's ! But after all this I need to see that swara is genuinely sorry for not trusting sanskar and she gives him the respect he deserves.


Thank you Sam! Yes, Swara was very uncomfortable searching his room...her hands were shaking! It was difficult for her to question him...she was having conflicting emotions at that time!

Oh, please CV gods, do not give us a BJKT again! Please let this be Ragini's redemption...pretty please!

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