Calling all SwaSanians : Let's keep the faith, guys :) :) - Page 8

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ssroomani



Viji, I am glad to read this post from you! I have seen quite a few positive posts on the forum after the initial angst...I have put in my bit as well. Do read and tell me what you feel.

I must admit I was very upset after the episode but thinking it over, I am feeling positive about the whole situation. So cheers! 🤗



Hey Shobhs! I had posted on your thread earlier today, so more or less put forth most of what I wanted to say, there. 😊 You & I seem pretty much of a similar opinion regarding Swara (what she did was inexcusable, without perhaps being unforgivable). We need to cut her some slack for her trust issues which were bound to be there; the only thing is, I wish she had taken some time to reflect that Sanskaar would never have let her take the blame, had he been the perpetrator. She should have used her little grey cells! 😆 But chalo, if this paves the way for her realization, well and good.

But I am more seriously worried about the spoilers today, indicating that Ragini is not being redeemed? She is still being pushed into further diabolical behavior, apparently? Why yaar...the CVs are losing such a golden opportunity!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: CogitoErgoSum



Yeah Fari...I also disliked how little faith she showed. She could have at least considered that Sanskaar would have never let her be blamed for the crime, had he been the kidnapper. He would have rather confessed straightaway.

But still, we need to give Swara the benefit of the doubt, since she has suffered so much backstabbing from her father, sister and her loser of an ex fiance! It is not surprising that she could have trust issues.

Anyway, hoping that she realizes her love soon, and the MU between SwaSan does not last for too long.


A lack of trust in a relationship is a destructive force. without trust, it's hard to feel secure and you may be wondering all the time whether the other person is being faithful, truthful or genuine

and i agree with u .. i can completely understand her situation .. i knw she suffered alot .. and she needs time to think abt her relationship with Sanskaar .. n i'm sure they will end up together 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Monica_Suhasini

Viji dear🤗 much needed post

Thankyou very much dearie
S disappointed with swara .. bt wanted to give her chance of doubt...as she has trust issues.
Many put their views...very happy for the positivity...
Love swasan😳


Thanks Suha my dear friend, for that lovely comment 😊 .Yeah, I am upset with Swara too. But willing to give her some slack this time since she obviously would hae trust issues. Hope this paves the way for her realization of how much Sanskaar means to her. 😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: naran1986

I was not much bothered by what Swara did.As she said she would have thought the same of anyone else.
She is still not at the same place where Sanskaar is regarding them.It will take her time..I can wait.

As our SANSKAARI elders tell "sabr ka phal meetha hota hai".So I think it will be very sweet when swasan happens.

So I ask my fellow swasanians to not lose heart or to blame Swara..she will reach the destination (i.e swasan) in her own way .there will be heart pains ,heart break but it will be momentary and when swasan happens everything will be alright.

As Saskar said if and when she falls I will be with her.😊


Hi Naran

Yeah...that's true. Swara hasn't yet realized or accepted what Sanskaar means to her. Given her trust issues, abandonment issues, it was always going to take time for her to trust him absolutely, the way he trusts her.

That's why I am not too upset with her doubting him, especially since Sanskaar has been a tad ruthless in the past, when people dear to him were threatened. (He did get Lakshya kidnapped, trying to head off their forced wedding). He does feel that a worthwhile end justifies the means, so Swara could have thought he kidnapped Ragini to punish her for maligning Swara.

But where I felt really upset , was that she ought to have realized, if Sanskaar was the kidnapper, he would never have let the family blame her for it. Not in a billion years. He would just have confessed instead. Leave everything else, this one thing is what made me feel very upset with Swara's stand yesterday.

But chalo, if this paves the way for her realization of what Sanskaar means to her, it's acceptable, I guess. 😊

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: MusicAddict

Yo Viji!
Very soon, this MU will be sorted


Hey Sakshi. ..🤗

I hope so, too. I don't like long drawn out MUs between a couple I am so emotionally invested in. 😉
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: kulsum_5

Viji ji.. thank you for this post..😊

But i would be more angry if they didn't show swara trying to say sorry and sanskaar ignoring her..😡
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Hey Kulsum. ..🤗

I agree with you completely. If they don't show Swara pining for him, winning back Sanskaar's trust, I will be seriously 😡. I am also very eager to see Sanskaar distancing himself slightly from her, till she realizes what he means to her.

BTW please call me Viji yaar...why Viji ji. 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: CogitoErgoSum


Thanks Suha my dear friend, for that lovely comment 😊 .Yeah, I am upset with Swara too. But willing to give her some slack this time since she obviously would hae trust issues. Hope this paves the way for her realization of how much Sanskaar means to her. 😳


Yes viji hopefully...
We are ready to wait...
They can concentrate on ragini's redemption but simultaneously they should give proper swasan Love track
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: RUQAIYA10

Hey Viji😊

So there's a lot of mixed reactions on this whole trust issue. Frankly speaking I'm not really upset with Swara and probably because I kind of expected this apparent lack of trust from her. After watching the day before yesterday's epi nobody needed to guess the next step that Swara would take. It was pretty obvious. Swara is at best delusional. She claims to understand Sanskar and his emotions merely by looking in to his eyes. She knows that sometimes Sanskars words are said just to appease someone but the truth is usually hidden in his eyes. So why did she fail to notice that he looked away from her when he answered her question about the port receipt. A constant thing with Swara is that her judgement is always wrong. She believes the wrong people, puts her faith in the wrong hands and yet always misjudges the one person who is right. For some one who has been twice betrayed by her own family member would surely be more wary but such experiences also teaches one to have a better sense and understanding on whom to trust.


Hi Ruqu. ..🤗

Yeah I'm not TOO upset with her either. ..coz I would like to give her the benefit of the doubt this time, owing the trust issues she's bound to have.

What bothered me, is that even if she suspected that Sanskaar could have kidnapped Ragini as a revenge for her maligning Swara, she should have at least realized that Sanskaar would never allow her to be blamed for this. He would rather have confessed than let his Badi ma and mom insult Swara the way they did. 😕

But chalo, if this paves the way for Swara's realization of whom to trust, and how much Sanskaar means to her, it's welcome. Its long overdue anyway, it's so obvious that she feels for him as more than just a bestie...but where does she take time to introspect? 😆 she's always busy in some mission or the other.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nynaeve

Dear Viji (right)

I do agree with all the points raised here - and you are right that Swara has been so badly betrayed (too strong a word?) that she has certain trust issues. But I think the clincher is that she has put Sanskar in the same bracket as all the others (she does say that she would have questioned anybody and everybody the way she is questioning him) - that hurt. A lot.
Agreed she has trust issues.
Agreed that she is not in love and / or does not love Sanskar (she says that)
Agreed she is trying to play fair (????)

But even then, one expects her to give some weight to what Sanskar says and does - He would never, even in the most extreme circumstances and even in times of personal peril, ever let anyone raise a finger at her or harm her.

Just hoping that this track leads to Swara's realisation - at least a start.



Yup, Viji here. 😊. Do let me know your name too...

I agree with you on this. That dialogue seriously made me cringe. Swara needs to realize that Sanskaar is a lot more than just "anybody else" to her, in fact, it's pretty clear she feels for him as more than a bestie, she's just in denial of her own feelings.

What upset me also, was the fact that she just didn't realize, even if Sanskaar had been the perpetrator , he would never have kept quiet and let his family blame her. He would have confessed straightaway, rather than let that happen.

But oh well...this is a drama after all...and the CVs have to show some MU to spice things up. 😕 If it paves the way for Swara's long overdue realization, it's OK I guess...

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sarra0


This is where my issue comes in...if she had trust issues i cud accept it because i cud relate to it after everything she has been thru its natural...but she doesnt appera tovhave trust issues with ragani..she still believes ragani..she still believes laksh...her father v havnt needed to c...so the doubtvseems to b on sanskaar and not on others..

Her having doubt i have no issue with..i have issue with the same thing u do that how cud she think he wud leave her to takr the blame?? And not step forward to protect her if it was in his power do so...and then twlling ragani and wud have told the police without reflection...lets hope she is shown to think he wudnt do that to her..


Yup I hope so too. It would be great even if they show this as a flashback, Swara mulling this over and realizing that Sanskaar would have never let her be blamed, even assuming he was the kidnapper (in fact I would like them to show her doubting her very assumption that he's the kidnapper, in her mind, independently of what Ragini tells her or not). May be wishful thinking...but hope springs eternal na? 😆

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