True love of Lakshya and Swara

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Posted: 9 years ago
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With the current spate of spoilers, too many topics are going on regarding how Lakshya and Swara are a made for each other couple.

First and foremost in India, marriage is not a game of musical chairs with brothers. One brother then another then back to the first and so all. Not done.

Even if one forgets that the ideas being floated are vulgar and immoral are they even practical?😕

Lets look at the so called star crossed true lovers:

1. Lakshya

Lakshya is a brainless idiot but yes he cannot be blamed completely for the break up. The situations created were convincing and he would genuinely would have to be a saint to trust Swara in that situation.

Agreed. But did he really have to go and marry Ragini? More than concern for his friend it was his bruised male ego.🤢

Further, after Swara returned what did he do? If you really and truly love someone you will never hurt them beyond a point. Because whatever that person might have done (as per you) you cannot see them in pain.😡

Let me explain this with a simple example.

A mother's love for a child is true, right? If my son hurts me in any way do you think I will hurt him equally? Can I imagine doing that? Or can our parents imagine giving us back the slights/hurts we give them day in and day out?

Because children never love parents as much as parents love them. So they are able to hurt them much more easily. But parents whose love is genuinely true will be angry but will never genuinely hurt us.

Now tell me was Lakshya's love genuine? Wanting someone because she will make you happy and loving someone so that her happiness takes paramount importance in your life are two different things dear.

2. Swara

She loved Lakshya at one point of time. Again a special edition of love in which she never considered it important to share her fears, feelings and also important facts with him.

Lets assume that her love was genuine. But what happened after that. Whatever provocation Lakshya might have had, from Swara's perspective he was just not there when she needed him.

Love is perfectly capable of dying especially if it is dragged and mutilated beyond a point. Such eternal love happens only in mills & boon where the rich and handsome hero humiliates the poor heroine, even puts theft charges on her, she ends up being pregnant, raises the child alone for a few miserable years and when he realises his mistakes and beckons to her she falls in his arms.

In real life the woman would be seething with hatred for such a guy. Swaara's mahaanta is not in accepting Sanskaar, it is in forgiving Lakshya.

It is very easy for a female to imagine herself in love if a handsome, eligible guy constantly rants in front of her that he is in love with her. But the acid test as to whether it is love or a combination of lust and infatuation is the trust and communication in the relationship. Was it there?

Surprisingly, that trust and communication is in spades in the so called forced relationship of Swasan.

And those who want to chant Swara does not love Sanskar, dear these two are the major ingredients of love alongwith caring and physical attraction. Stop confusing physical attraction with love.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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bang on post man wat u said is true swara mahanta is in forgiving dat luxji doesn't deserve it dat guy

are u new here ur name pls
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Messi2

bang on post man wat u said is true swara mahanta is in forgiving dat luxji doesn't deserve it dat guy

are u new here ur name pls


Thanks a ton. 😳

My name is Paayal.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Great post.
Lux had proofs enough to doubt swara. So thike chalo he was justified in thinking that she had jilted him. But there was absolutely no reason to marry ragz. When a person threatens to commit suicide, you save them and call a doctor. Suicides never lead to marriages, at least with normal people.


But what makes lux unsuitableb for swara is how he repeatedly went out of his way to insult her, humiliate her. Ragini made a cd of swasan SR he sits to watch it while the other men left! Instead of shouting at ragz to stop her ghatiya harkatein he joins in the show. Some love. Thinks swasan marriage is fake, gets proof by peeping into their room/ tent, another man would have confronted swara and tried to knock some sense into her. Here this fella brings the house down with his screams maligning swara's character in the process. Then he takes it upon himself to leave her with no choice: own up or get married. And after all this now that he has proofs that she was always innocent, now he goes to meet her when she is alone in her room at 2. Once again tarnishing her reputation.

Lux love needs constant proofs. His love doesnt know how to trust and life with such a man can be very difficult for you cannot have a proof for everything in life. Otherwise there is no difference between home and a court


Edit: actually raglak have amazing amounts of trust between them, from lux side. He has always trusted her blindly. Even after her lies were exposed look at him yesterday, once again falling for her lies and going to console swara. That is the sort of vishwaas a woman needs from her man 😉
Edited by The.Lannister - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Another bang on post. Some fans definitely need a reality check 😉
If you peeps remembered when Swara was drugged and was in the hotel... the person she went to was Ragini (who she loves the most) and not Lakshya.

Current situation: Yesterdays episode bhabhi- devar in the room... the first who she tried to explain the situation was to Sanskaar ❤️ and also Ragini. Swara doesn't even think about Lakshya.

Btw my name is Komal 😊
Edited by yoyorileysingh - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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bang on post siso...
hatss of to you
btw my name is shweta😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: billorani123



Thanks a ton.😳

My name is Paayal.



hey payal jesi here do join swasan at if u like
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hi Paayal (Is it alright if I call you that?)
You have said straight forward what we have been going round and round to explain to some people. Don't confuse love with physical attraction.
I agree on many of the points you've made.
Firstly, true, let's say Laksh was right in not trusting Swara at the moment, but why on earth did he went and got married to her sister? If he was broken to a length where he cannot take a sane decision then he should have given himself some time to reclaim his senses. And who on earth would want to be with a man who jumps on to conclusions every other minute and is impulsive enough to destroy his own life? What is the assurance of happiness is in a life with that sort of person?
Secondly if there is anything a girl would consider above her family and love that would be self respect. In real world, which woman would go back to the arms of a man who called her characterless? Not once but many times?
And who in the world said that a woman cannot fall in love again? What is the mahanta in accepting Sanskar? Anyone who thinks true love is first love is not creditable to have this discussion with. I mean has every first love ever ended up in marriages? Don't girls have a right to move on?
I have said this earlier and I have to say it again. anyone who approves Laksh's current behavior is doing a injustice against womanhood. When a girl says no, it means no...there is no reason to pick out non existing yes from that.
My post went a lot longer than I previously intended. But still I am glad that I've said these things. There's one more thing I'd like to add. Even though I am a SwaSan fan, if this scenario happened with a character reversal I would not have supported it. Being a fan doesn't mean justifying anything that character does.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: The.Lannister

Great post.

Lux had proofs enough to doubt swara. So thike chalo he was justified in thinking that she had jilted him. But there was absolutely no reason to marry ragz. When a person threatens to commit suicide, you save them and call a doctor. Suicides never lead to marriages, at least with normal people.


But what makes lux unsuitableb for swara is how he repeatedly went out of his way to insult her, humiliate her. Ragini made a cd of swasan SR he sits to watch it while the other men left! Instead of shouting at ragz to stop her ghatiya harkatein he joins in the show. Some love. Thinks swasan marriage is fake, gets proof by peeping into their room/ tent, another man would have confronted swara and tried to knock some sense into her. Here this fella brings the house down with his screams maligning swara's character in the process. Then he takes it upon himself to leave her with no choice: own up or get married. And after all this now that he has proofs that she was always innocent, now he goes to meet her when she is alone in her room at 2. Once again tarnishing her reputation.

Lux love needs constant proofs. His love doesnt know how to trust and life with such a man can be very difficult for you cannot have a proof for everything in life. Otherwise there is no difference between home and a court


Edit: actually raglak have amazing amounts of trust between them, from lux side. He has always trusted her blindly. Even after her lies were exposed look at him yesterday, once again falling for her lies and going to console swara. That is the sort of vishwaas a woman needs from her man😉



well said yaar such a face palm this should be to some people

yeah ragya have such a trust such a chemistry moh moh ang laga de
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sakura24

Hi Paayal (Is it alright if I call you that?)

You have said straight forward what we have been going round and round to explain to some people. Don't confuse love with physical attraction.
I agree on many of the points you've made.
Firstly, true, let's say Laksh was right in not trusting Swara at the moment, but why on earth did he went and got married to her sister? If he was broken to a length where he cannot take a sane decision then he should have given himself some time to reclaim his senses. And who on earth would want to be with a man who jumps on to conclusions every other minute and is impulsive enough to destroy his own life? What is the assurance of happiness is in a life with that sort of person?
Secondly if there is anything a girl would consider above her family and love that would be self respect. In real world, which woman would go back to the arms of a man who called her characterless? Not once but many times?
And who in the world said that a woman cannot fall in love again? What is the mahanta in accepting Sanskar? Anyone who thinks true love is first love is not creditable to have this discussion with. I mean has every first love ever ended up in marriages? Don't girls have a right to move on?
I have said this earlier and I have to say it again. anyone who approves Laksh's current behavior is doing a injustice against womanhood. When a girl says no, it means no...there is no reason to pick out non existing yes from that.
My post went a lot longer than I previously intended. But still I am glad that I've said these things. There's one more thing I'd like to add. Even though I am a SwaSan fan, if this scenario happened with a character reversal I would not have supported it. Being a fan doesn't mean justifying anything that character does.



hmm kya replys aarahein yahan well said yaar but still people think lux love is true nd dat true love happens only once lol people

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