Originally posted by: billorani123
With the current spate of spoilers, too many topics are going on regarding how Lakshya and Swara are a made for each other couple.
First and foremost in India, marriage is not a game of musical chairs with brothers. One brother then another then back to the first and so all. Not done.
Even if one forgets that the ideas being floated are vulgar and immoral are they even practical?😕
Lets look at the so called star crossed true lovers:
1. Lakshya
Lakshya is a brainless idiot but yes he cannot be blamed completely for the break up. The situations created were convincing and he would genuinely would have to be a saint to trust Swara in that situation.
Agreed. But did he really have to go and marry Ragini? More than concern for his friend it was his bruised male ego.🤢
Further, after Swara returned what did he do? If you really and truly love someone you will never hurt them beyond a point. Because whatever that person might have done (as per you) you cannot see them in pain.😡
Let me explain this with a simple example.
A mother's love for a child is true, right? If my son hurts me in any way do you think I will hurt him equally? Can I imagine doing that? Or can our parents imagine giving us back the slights/hurts we give them day in and day out?
Because children never love parents as much as parents love them. So they are able to hurt them much more easily. But parents whose love is genuinely true will be angry but will never genuinely hurt us.
Now tell me was Lakshya's love genuine? Wanting someone because she will make you happy and loving someone so that her happiness takes paramount importance in your life are two different things dear.
2. Swara
She loved Lakshya at one point of time. Again a special edition of love in which she never considered it important to share her fears, feelings and also important facts with him.
Lets assume that her love was genuine. But what happened after that. Whatever provocation Lakshya might have had, from Swara's perspective he was just not there when she needed him.
Love is perfectly capable of dying especially if it is dragged and mutilated beyond a point. Such eternal love happens only in mills & boon where the rich and handsome hero humiliates the poor heroine, even puts theft charges on her, she ends up being pregnant, raises the child alone for a few miserable years and when he realises his mistakes and beckons to her she falls in his arms.
In real life the woman would be seething with hatred for such a guy. Swaara's mahaanta is not in accepting Sanskaar, it is in forgiving Lakshya.
It is very easy for a female to imagine herself in love if a handsome, eligible guy constantly rants in front of her that he is in love with her. But the acid test as to whether it is love or a combination of lust and infatuation is the trust and communication in the relationship. Was it there?
Surprisingly, that trust and communication is in spades in the so called forced relationship of Swasan.
And those who want to chant Swara does not love Sanskar, dear these two are the major ingredients of love along with caring and physical attraction. Stop confusing physical attraction with love.