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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: radevfanitaly

i feel that rags need to see a doc... she looks sick n has a serious disorder of living in her own dreams... i feel that she has obsessive compulsive disorder for laksh.

Yes I do agree rags is suffering from OCD, she does need help
I don't think she is a hardcore criminal
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: White-Rose

Disagree

No one is responsiblelder for your action. Her childhood was normal and burden free. She was taught to be a Marwadi bahu but same time they taught her animal eating is a sin (dadi never never missed a chance to taunt shomi coz she is non vegetarian). She was taught not to kill animals but forgot to add that not to kill human being?


Exactly thats what I am trying to say her childhood was very superficial
I mean she was taught to be a sanskari marwadi bahu but what does this term actually mean?????
Does this term mean to wear clothes that cover you fully? Does it mean to cover your head ghunghat? Does it mean being a vegetarian?
A girl wearing modern clothes without any ghonghat and eating non ceg can also make a good marwadi bahu like swara
I agree no one is responsible for your action but there are many factors that pushes a normal person to be a criminal in some cases its injustice in some its poverty but in rags case it was obsession which was seeded in her brains by her family and then Lucky's rejection, acceptance and again rejection
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yess i completely agree to ur point
She has been not given freedom choice and dats the reason she turn so negative and selfish
I feel pity for her .Abhi swara ko toh sanskar and lakshya dono mil rahe hai aur uss beechari ko
I knw she was bad and her deeds cannot be justified but jealousy can do anythng
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: luvakanksha


Yes I agree rags did cross the line
But according to Me she was pushed across the line by 3 people
1) shekhar 2) dadi 3) lakshay
Shekhar should not have given rags false hopes of getting lakshay
Dadi should have given her motives to live, her life purpose was to make rags a good marwadi bahu nothing else
Lakhshay is confused soul he used rags a lot
Rags would not be what she is if these three people were not present in her life



Of course I blame dadi and shekhar and Laksh even more but what she became is due to her greed and her greed for Laksh alone
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well in India, there are thousand of girls who are taught that the only aim in life should be to get married and take care of their husband and family. Some of them have bad marriages top. But that doesn't mean , all of them start doing things that Ragini did.
So even though I agree with you that Dadi and Shekhar didn't provide her a proper upbringing, but I do believe that whatever Ragini did, she herself was responsible for that.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: luvakanksha

I am not at all supporting a criminal act for god sake
I am just saying that the factors that made her a criminal are her 1) dadi 2) shekhar and 3) lucky
Have u ever watched gumrah on channel v if not please I suggest u to do that, at least watch an episode of any series
That show does not support criminal but they do mention how that criminal could have been saved from being a criminal and that's what I am saying
Rags could have been saved from all this

I think u forgot to mention sanskar... He was the main who provoked her... And ya Shekhar dadi and lucky made her criminal????? Correction dear... Dadi never supported her in criminal deeds... In the very beginning she told her laksh loves swara u forget them why are u taking sanskar's help... Then she told her dadi that she will never repeat it and will try to move on... And if a groom family comes to see a girl for marriage... Engagement done and then broken this really doesn't make anyone criminal... And by the way when first engagement broke she was OK with it because that time her family matters for her... It was swara who use to tell her lucky luves u without knowing the truth... And one more thing second engagement was forced by dadi herself... Otherwise it wouldn't have happened... Lucky was clear with his feelings and he declared it in very early stage to swara... And Shekhar his only mistake was blind faith on daughter... But I don't think if a father has blind faith then it provokes a girl for criminal deeds... And sanskar himself backed off on time in fact he tried to convince ragini but she didn't listened... I am sorry but I totally disagree with all her justification... It's simply like... I am still an innocent... It's all my family fault...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: swalak_shivya

I think u forgot to mention sanskar... He was the main who provoked her... And ya Shekhar dadi and lucky made her criminal????? Correction dear... Dadi never supported her in criminal deeds... In the very beginning she told her laksh loves swara u forget them why are u taking sanskar's help... Then she told her dadi that she will never repeat it and will try to move on... And if a groom family comes to see a girl for marriage... Engagement done and then broken this really doesn't make anyone criminal... And by the way when first engagement broke she was OK with it because that time her family matters for her... It was swara who use to tell her lucky luves u without knowing the truth... And one more thing second engagement was forced by dadi herself... Otherwise it wouldn't have happened... Lucky was clear with his feelings and he declared it in very early stage to swara... And Shekhar his only mistake was blind faith on daughter... But I don't think if a father has blind faith then it provokes a girl for criminal deeds... And sanskar himself backed off on time in fact he tried to convince ragini but she didn't listened... I am sorry but I totally disagree with all her justification... It's simply like... I am still an innocent... It's all my family fault...

Just like Sanskar provoked Ragini, it was him who asked her to mend her ways. Ragini listened to him when he was wrong, but did not care to listen to him when he tried to show her the right direction.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: preetywoman

Just like Sanskar provoked Ragini, it was him who asked her to mend her ways. Ragini listened to him when he was wrong, but did not care to listen to him when he tried to show her the right direction.

I mean the same... Even I mentioned that sanskar backed off on time and tried to convince ragini but she didn't listened...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i agree dadi, shekhar and sanskar r equally responsible for her condition.

okay her family said that laksh is her husband but why did she forget her all sanskars what her family taught since childhood.??😲 did they teach her to take someone else life for your happiness? did they teach her play with everyone's emotions??
NO right..!!!

what she thought about her family. why did she think that her family is not bothered about her happiness?? their decision was right to allow sawalk marriage. it was good for ragini. but her obsession destroyed everything..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ragini was thought right from wrong...
So what ever she decided to do was no ones blame but hers...she decided to take drastic measures to get the person she was obsessed over...

You cant put the blame of her doing what she did on Dadi, Shekar, Laksh or Sanskar...

She and she alone has to take responsibility of her actions...

As no one can ever force a person to do anything without that persons own will or wish...

Her wanting to harm Swara...etc ...was her own mind and heart doing...


She knew very very well what she was doing...she knew she was wrong and did everything in order to hide her truth ...

Thus...Ragini is to blame for her own heinous crimes and bad deeds...which were truly out of greed and obsession...

No one can be blamed for it...


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