why swara is not considering sanskaar

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Posted: 9 years ago
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with latest spoiler floating around with the divorce track ... i just have one question... why swara is not considering sanskaar...
B4 this she was in deep stress and trouble, with her marriage turning upside down, she met an accident, her ma n baba issues, ragini on the other side, and laksh...

But now considering if the truth is out, why swara is still not considering sanskaar... The word barbaad again comes into my mind... each and everyone was using this word when swara went on getting married to sanskaar... of course she did not want to but for her mum she had to do it...Considering the marriage is done, why cant swara give this marriage a chance... Like someone said in the forum, having a fren as ur huband will be a + point...

Even though sanskaar was in the wrong path, when he realises it he repented ... n is still doing his very best for swara...

She told laksh on the bridge the other day, marriage is a very pure thing and she has no intention to break his n ragini's r/ship... but what makes her to not consider sanskaar... But she made it clear to sanskaar after the confession that once mission is done, u go ur way n i go may way...

Is laksh the reason... even though she says she dun have feelings for him now, it will take time to forget him, to heal her wounds... n with sanskaar being his bro... it will be difficult for swara as well...

neway how and what, i just want swasan together bas 😆

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I am also not getting this divorce move of swara
She is contradicting herself
She said that for her marriege is a sacred bond ( pavitra bandhan) so how is she divorcing sanskar without giving her marriage a chance
I mean she convinced pari to give a second chance to adarsh who was cheating her and everyone in mm was expecting the same from her why???????
I mean if pari would have cheated, adarsh would not be expected to give her a second chance
Beside sanskar has done whatever swara expected from him even more
He is not imposing this relationship on her even though he loves her
He has redeemed himself for her
But still adarsh should get a second chance but he should not even get a chance 😡

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Maybe this divorce track is something which will bring SwaSan closer.. Divorces unlike in real world are to bring the couples closer in tellyworld like 6months under one roof before divorce and all lets see kya hota
Edited by manasie23 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I think the main reason shes not considering Sanskar is right now shes not in the right frame of mind to do so...
She hasn't completely gotten Laksh out of her heart or mind...no matter whats shes telling herself...and the marriage was forced on Sanskar and her...

Laksh and Ragini...marriage was not forced...Laksh took a decision in anger ..or guilt or for whatever reasons to marry Ragini...he didn't have to but he did it with his whole mind...


Here Swasan...both were not ready to get into a forced marriage at all...they both didn't want it...no in such a manner..

Thus her considering divorce and Sanskar being with her on this as a friend and also as his redemption...


As Manasie said in Indian Serials Divorce tracks are used to get the couple closer then...separate them...thus this track is surely going to be awesome for Swason...😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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hypocrisy at its best

everyone's marriage is sacred except hers ... luxji should stay married to a psychopath, pari shld stay with a cheater, her mom shld stay with spineless jerk ... but she ! god forbid she even CONSIDERS staying with a man who loves and supports her unconditionally


I don't say that she has to stay just because sanskar loves her ... she has no obligation to love him at all ... but what are the chances that she will lecture luxji to forgive ragini bec marriage is sacred - 100% ... so different standards for different people
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: bips

hypocrisy at its best

everyone's marriage is sacred except hers ... luxji should stay married to a psychopath, pari shld stay with a cheater, her mom shld stay with spineless jerk ... but she ! god forbid she even CONSIDERS staying with a man who loves and supports her unconditionally


I don't say that she has to stay just because sanskar loves her ... she has no obligation to love him at all ... but what are the chances that she will lecture luxji to forgive ragini bec marriage is sacred - 100% ... so different standards for different people


THIS! 👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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^^^

thank you. I just don't get it . I see so many posts on the forum about how the marriage was forced .. but then luxji marriage was also by means of deceit and murder

everyone talks about swara's right to choose ... but what about sanskar's rights? so in a marriage if out of 2 ppl one person wants to try and the other person wants a divorce - then kiski chalni chahiye? ... why should what swara want be more imp than what sanskar wants. .. equal hona chahiye .. should she not even give this marriage a TRY ... bec that's the lecture she gives everyone else
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: bips

hypocrisy at its best

everyone's marriage is sacred except hers ... luxji should stay married to a psychopath, pari shld stay with a cheater, her mom shld stay with spineless jerk ... but she ! god forbid she even CONSIDERS staying with a man who loves and supports her unconditionally


I don't say that she has to stay just because sanskar loves her ... she has no obligation to love him at all ... but what are the chances that she will lecture luxji to forgive ragini bec marriage is sacred - 100% ... so different standards for different people

omg wow 😲 this s so true 😲
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: bips

hypocrisy at its best

everyone's marriage is sacred except hers ... luxji should stay married to a psychopath, pari shld stay with a cheater, her mom shld stay with spineless jerk ... but she ! god forbid she even CONSIDERS staying with a man who loves and supports her unconditionally


I don't say that she has to stay just because sanskar loves her ... she has no obligation to love him at all ... but what are the chances that she will lecture luxji to forgive ragini bec marriage is sacred - 100% ... so different standards for different people



Originally posted by: bips

^^^

thank you. I just don't get it . I see so many posts on the forum about how the marriage was forced .. but then luxji marriage was also by means of deceit and murder

everyone talks about swara's right to choose ... but what about sanskar's rights? so in a marriage if out of 2 ppl one person wants to try and the other person wants a divorce - then kiski chalni chahiye? ... why should what swara want be more imp than what sanskar wants. .. equal hona chahiye .. should she not even give this marriage a TRY ... bec that's the lecture she gives everyone else




@bold: I would actually love it if Sanskaar says these things to her face before he does the whole mahaan tyaag circus


I said it in some thread before...many people in India still get into arranged marriages & those marriages are successful. Why cant she treat her marriage like an arranged one where she has the advantage of knowing the guy in advance? Not arranged by her parents, but by destiny OR her sister maybe? It is not as if the guy is forcing himself on you, is abusive. Instead of divorce why not ask for some time to come to terms with everything? Stay with him or stay away, but at least try one time.


After all how much time does it take to sign the divorce papers? Not much.


I dont want Swara staying back because the court forced her into it or because she starts a new mission RagYa & needs to use Sanskaar again. If she comes back to him with either of these reasons he should really show her the door
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Posted: 9 years ago
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^^^^

you said it perfectly ... and I love the line you used "needs to use sanskar again" ... bec THAT is what she is doing .

he hurt her.. and he has apologised a thousand times for it. he has not just said empty words but has atoned for it ... he confessed to all his crimes in the hope that she may get some help ... after how much and how long will his penance be over ?

its all about swara - her sister, her ma baba, her mission. just name one thing ONE thing that sanskar gets out of all this. and on top of that she lashes out at him at every opportunity . she uses his love confession to shame him, to taunt him. and now she will use him again to get ragini accepted in luxji life.


... as you can see I am not liking swara right now all that much :)
Edited by bips - 9 years ago

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