why swara is not considering sanskaar - Page 2

Originally posted by: The.Lannister

@bold: I would actually love it if Sanskaar says these things to her face before he does the whole mahaan tyaag circus

I said it in some thread before...many people in India still get into arranged marriages & those marriages are successful. Why cant she treat her marriage like an arranged one where she has the advantage of knowing the guy in advance? Not arranged by her parents, but by destiny OR her sister maybe? It is not as if the guy is forcing himself on you, is abusive. Instead of divorce why not ask for some time to come to terms with everything? Stay with him or stay away, but at least try one time.

After all how much time does it take to sign the divorce papers? Not much.

I dont want Swara staying back because the court forced her into it or because she starts a new mission RagYa & needs to use Sanskaar again. If she comes back to him with either of these reasons he should really show her the door

i guess she is right in taking divorce from sanskar. swara is independent girl and she has right to take her own decision. this marriage happened by force. and it's not swara's fault if sanaskar fell in love with her. in starting only she clearly mentioned him that after this mission she will go back to her home. now mission is over but things are not same. marriage became real and sanskar fell in love. in both cases swara is not responsible.

Originally posted by: kulsum_5

i guess she is right in taking divorce from sanskar. swara is independent girl and she has right to take her own decision. this marriage happened by force. and it's not swara's fault if sanaskar fell in love with her. in starting only she clearly mentioned him that after this mission she will go back to her home. now mission is over but things are not same. marriage became real and sanskar fell in love. in both cases swara is not responsible.

just because sanskar in love with her it is not necessary that she should give second chance to this marriage. she lost faith in love, she is not sure if she will be able to love someone again in her life. this second chance will give sanskar hope of getting love of swara. just imagine what if things won't work out. will it be fair if she takes divorce after this? what sanskar will feel?

she just want everything to end on good note. she don't want him to suffer more in his life because of her.

I too feel that Swara is wrong. But if she doesn't give marraige lectures to Laksh then I am ok with her but I think that she is surely going to tell Laksh to keep on his marraige with Ragini.

swara is just running away from her feelings...nothing else...she is scared to fall in love all over again and get hurt in the process...she has already gone through once...she doesn't want to go through the pain again...she has not give a second thought on love again...there is too much happenings in her life thus she was not in the right frame...now since everything cleared and exposed...her divorce decision...staying sway from sansku will help her realise what importance sansku has in her life...sometimes distance brings two pure souls closer...she will give a thought abt sansku...all she needs now is time to dig out what is in her heart...for whom her heart beats lakshya or sanskaar...