Why I think Swara's reaction was justified today!

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.Sarcasmazing.

@.Sarcasmazing.

Dazzler

+ 6

Posted: 9 years ago

Alright so I see a lot of posts on Swara's reaction to Sanskaar today & here's my take I just wrote in another thread:

Didn't you all feel Swara was trying to convinceherself more of love not happening between them than Sanskaar himself? IDK maybe I saw it in a completely different way or my rose tinted glasses were on but it seriously felt that she was literally trying to physically & emotionally run away from her own myraid of emotions. Like no this cannot happen again, I have a mission to focus on!

She probably broke all ties with him cos she maybe fearsthat if she doesn't do this she might be so gone, it would be impossible to come back again? She's seen how love can hurt & break someone, experienced it first hand from the younger brother of the guy who just professed his love for her. Maybe she thinks, both are afterall 'brothers' & this one might break her heart too?

She's seen how love hurts & probably wants to break Sanskaar's heart now itself when she's not too gone & can still learn to learn to live without him before he breaks her heart like his brother did. I might be the only one to interpret her actions this way but that is just how it felt to me.

She won't realize when she fell for him & probably miss him a lot when he actually will respect & agree with her decision keeping away from her as much as possible. Swara will be too gone in love with him when she'll see how different he is from his 'brother' who broke her heart. She'll be deeply in love, more than Sanskaar with her ❤️ The girl could've obviously been more polite but hey aren't declarations & confrontations meant to be dramatic in daily soaps? Swara is an extreme girl afterall 😆

^ This is just how I feel about the whole thing today. Would love to hear what you guys feel :)

Edited by .Sarcasmazing. - 9 years ago

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Smilelicious

@Smilelicious

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

You are completely right Kavya 👏👍🏼
Even i think that she might be afraid of falling in love once again. It hurts a lot when your hearts get broken and she doesn't want to experience it again.
And yeah i feel she has some hidden feelings but she is afraid to express them, maybe she just want to focus on her mission to unite her maa and baba.
But i think she should focus on her life as well, she easily said that after the mission gets completed wo apne raaste aur Swara apne raaste, but it won't be so easy.
They got married no? (He applied sindoor in her forehead and they might get married with all the rituals)
So how will she explain the family members that this was just part of the plan? Okay maybe the Maheshwaris and her maa baba will understand but what about the other people? They will talk about Swara negativetely saying that she lived with a boy, shared a room with him and all...
Shaadi is not a joke and she is well aware about it. So aage jaa kar i think she might express her feelings as Sanskar did 😳 I'm just waiting for that day, i want Sanskar to stand by her always and make her realize that she is not alone, he is always with her <3

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DivineDarkness

@DivineDarkness

Stunner

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Posted: 9 years ago

the problem here is she didn't get time to analyse what went wrong in her and Lux's relation and why there was lack of trust in their relation... She couldn't even cry her heart out about her broken relation... and every other day the guy who claimed to Love her is insulting her so it's natural that she reacts this way...

She is feeling betrayed rightfully so coz whoever promised her of love affection and care never stood up for her and brutally broke her trust be it her father or her boy friend.. So when she realized the person whom she started to depend on for anything and everything , the one whom she considered her bff fell in love with her even after knowing everything she couldn't come to terms with that... You can't expect her to accept Sanky's feelings this soon.

Like Kavya said her denial and the way she spoke to Sanky it was clear that she was trying to convince herself more than Sanky and yes she could feel that tension between them and is trying to avoid it by being in denial mode.. She is not going to trust anyone soon in something like this which involves her heart ,her very being...

Edited by DivineDarkness - 9 years ago

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rimis

@rimis

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Posted: 9 years ago

With tears in her eyes "tumne mera dost chhinliya, wohi sari bakwas batein karke"

I think her this line says it all.

she could have ended everything by simply saying

"i don't feel the same for you sansku" 😆

which somehow seemed much difficult for her to say

Edited by rimis - 9 years ago

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Shona

@Shanaia

Inactive

Posted: 9 years ago

Bang on post...simply brilliant👏👏

You snatched the words right out of my mouth😃

Swara is so afraid of history repeating itself.She fell in love with a guy who was her best friend.And now a time has come that he degrades and questions her character at every given time.

So of course she is gonna be afraid of being hurt again.She is scared of losing her one and only supporter and best friend.

And for me her reaction is completely justified😊

Thank you so much for creating this post caus I was tired of presenting Swara's perspective everywhere😆😆

Edited by Shanaia - 9 years ago

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Malangan

@TeriMalang

Sparkler

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Posted: 9 years ago

I sooo agree with you !

If sanskar is loving her it doesn't mean she is going to fall in his arms next instant thanking heavens for saving her love life and not forecasting her future with dozens of kitten and knitting as her probable future love.

Once bitten twice shy ! DAT is wat her situation is she wouldn't wantedly jump into a pit wer had been earlier or may be still struggling to get out of .u cannot stop loving or disliking a person in blink .feelings/emotions linger longer than they are talked about.

And being rude to sanskar .wat according to her is sanskar fell for a innocent,forgiving,smiling,fighting swara. Or may be out of guilt .she cannot just accept love from a person who has been her friend all this while. Maybe somwer she felt guilty about making him fall for her.and she is confused above all. She hasn't been recovered frm her last heartbreak yet ..nd you talk about happy endings.she didn't even had tym to cry over her lost love .she didn't had time soothe her breaking heart and talking about binding relations sound insane and absurd.

Swara is not wrong here neither sanskar is ..but the tyming is not perfect ;)

They both need time to nurture their hearts to decide wat is real ..wat could be taken forward and wat shall be eneded even before is strts.

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tootiefrootie11

@tootiefrootie11

Rocker

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Posted: 9 years ago

As you know from my answer on the other post, I agree.

I feel Swara's reaction not being her usual logical, smart and even understanding self to Sanskaar is a total indication that she feels differently with/ for him. When our feelings are involved and overcome logic files out. I actually think Swara being too logical and assuring him of how things should be (according to her) would be unnatural. I think this plus her repeated FBs of his confession and how she is so aware of him now and uncomfortable around him, shows that she is now suddenly aware of him and the anger is her way of immediately lashing out- a lot of this is born of fear. She wants to feel the somewhat fake comfort of friendship and he's jolting her out of that, she won't go without a fight. This is a girl having gone through hell and back, her world is turned upside down (I said the same in my rocky road for SwaSan post), she can't simply be accepting his declaration as she never thought that before he said it.

I feel this is good for them, It will show her he still didn't force her but didn't withdraw his love at her apparent rejection. Swara needs to learn to trust again and she will now do so with Sanskaar.

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merrydock

@merrydock

Voyager

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Posted: 9 years ago

i think so too, swara has gone through a lot. all the men in her life be it her father shekhar, lakshya who proclaimed undying trust on her have bothe let her down. her father never gave swara unconditional love that a father should give his daughter. he condemned her without even giving her a chance to defend herself. lakshya betrayed her and her love as he to didn't wait to hear her side of the story and married her sister in hast. since then he never believed anything swara say's. she has closed in on herself, and justs needs a friend, sanskars confession has jolted her out of her secure place, as the emotion of love is not something she can comprehend at the moment. she is afraid of letting herself feel for fear of getting hurt once again.

swara has always been a focused girl, her family is the most important for her. restoring her parents marriage and happiness is more important to her, then finding love for herself. besides she has barely really come out of the heartbreak lakshya has caused. and cannot let another man into her venerable heart. she needs time to set things right for her parents. she is conflicted by her love for her sister ragini, while loathing her sisters underhanded and evil tricks.

swara needs time to set everything right for herself. before she is able to love again

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-Ros-

@-Ros-

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

I completely agree with you!

I saw those posts after the episodes aired and my enthusiasm kinda died down a little after reading them, cause I thought Swara went over the top and we would miss the raw emotions that scene can bring. Hence I chose not to comment until I saw the epi.

Boy, was I wrong!

I think they both executed that scene beautifully, especially Varun. 😳

I didn't think her reaction was OTT at all. Yes, she was rude. Yep, she was totally pissed off at him, but I felt it was completely apt for that situation. She would still have that anger and shock within her, because he had only blurted out this thing a few hours ago. She hadn't even had a chance to think it over, she hasn't had a chance to digest it all.

I 100% think that she's trying to convince herself more than anyone that SwaSan can not happen. I don't know if she has started loving Sanky yet, but you can tell she doesn't want to fall in love with him. And the reason for that I believe is a mix of keeping up her morals (she's her ex-love's bro after all- I know that Laksh getting hitched to Ragz wasn't exactly upright, but Swara is supposed to be a mahaan 😉) and like you said, she is very afraid of getting hurt. She called his confession "non-sense" today, which tells you that she has pretty much lost faith in love.

When Laksh confessed, shit went down. She smacked him, shouted at him. She was fully furious. She even said she hated him. When Sanky confessed, she didn't even say a word. She was utterly shocked. Her reactions are obviously poles apart, surely that says something? She herself doesn't want to confront him. She doesn't want him to explain anything. She doesn't want to hear justifications, because what happens if she starts loving him too? It makes sense that she was ignoring him, why she walked away from him when they were alone in the hall. She couldn't even make eye contact with him, as if though she was guilty of sth.

And today, when he tried to stop her by grabbing her hand, her reactions was just.. I love the way she asked him what he wants.. it seemed so genuine, real, loved how Helly executed that. I don't think she doubts his love for her. When she said that he betrayed her, I felt as if though she was asking why he had to fall in love with her? Why he had to put her in this position, where she KNOWS that he loves her deeply, but she can't return those feelings even if she wanted to...because when Ragz's truth comes out, they will have to go their separate ways anyway, so it would have been easier to part as friends.

Did you notice how sharply Swara's face turned when Sanky said OK to her demands- that there is no rishta between them and she's outta there as soon as her ma-baba (I hate even typing these words, heard them so many times 🤢). She wasn't expecting him to selfless and so accepting. She was expecting him to pester her to accept his love, like Laksh did. She got really annoyed with how casual he was being about this and left the room.

Sorry for ranting so much, but I loooved that scene. I'm not commenting much about Varun's acting, cause we were discussing Swara, but he nailed it today.

EDIT: I get that when Laksh confessed, contexts were different and she may have behaved like that cause she had the freedom to as they were outside, unlike when Sanku confessed in front of the whole family and she obvs couldn't lash out cause then they'd know the marriage is fake..but then I'm doubting if that's really what was going through her mind..

Edited by ros_aavir - 9 years ago

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Preet

@RadhaKrishan

Sparkler

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Posted: 9 years ago

#10

I agree with you Kavya.

Just think from her perspective, she has lost her love and have seen her mother suffer her whole life because of love..Does she have it in herself to even think about love once again?

She doesn't want her mother to live the same life again and that's the reason she came to MM with Sanskaar, she trusted him with the most important thing in her life. He became her anchor, her friend and she trusted him probably the most at this time.

But she is afraid that now with his love, everything will once again, fall apart in her life. She gave one chance to love in her life and she lost everything and now, she is afraid with even an idea of love. She is afraid that if she will give a chance to love again, then she will loose her friend also. She is declining any relation with him because she feels that it's easier to stop now. She may be afraid that Sanskaar will once again be heartbroken when she will leave and so, she just wants to focus on her mom and dad.

Give her some time to atleast miss him, we know she will not be able to live without Sanskaar for a long time 😉

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