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Posted: 9 years ago
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Kavya, you know, after reading this lovely thread of yours as well as the earlier (KDR) one, I went back and watched the scene twice again? 😊 I'd recorded the episode as I had something to do at 9.30, and it sure came in useful for repeat watching, 😊

As you know, I always love your posts, and this time, I so, so, wanted to see things the way you've written them. But, I don't know, probably this is me being massively nitpicky (is that an oxymoron, BTW? 😊) I still found Swara's "no more friendship" very unlike her, and IMHO, not suiting an otherwise wonderful scene. I still feel that dialogue took the sheen off it, for me at least.

Some people have been asking me on my thread, whether I expected Swara to jump into Sanskaar's arms immediately, or hug him! 😛 That's like the absolute farthest thing from my mind. Of course, Swara would be angry, frustrated, irritated, all of that. I don't have a problem with angst or frustration, most my OS/SS have it in liberal doses 😊, you & I were discussing this the other day when you gave me that lovely comment on my last OS. My TS before was, if anything, even more angst-y 😛

But here's the deal: I can understand Swara feeling sooo massively irritated at Sanskaar right now, and not even perhaps, wanting to let him down gently or politely. But, lets not forget, this is the girl who repeatedly says "Ragini is still my sister, she's not my enemy". When Lakshya abuses her and Sanskaar gets upset, she rationally explains why Lakshya feels that way.

She is perceptive enough to make excuses and understand motives for her ex fiance and her murderous sister, but wants to just say "you & I are not friends anymore, just our mission now!" to Sanskaar beacause he confessed he loves her?

Again, not wanting to be nitpicky, I could even understand her saying, angrily, that he let down their friendship. But saying she wants to snap the friendship, given all the value she attaches to relationships and all the empathy/ understanding/ sympathy she shows Lakshya and Ragini (Ragini doesn't deserve it by a mile), this dialogue by her, seemed OTT. Just unlike Swara, at least, IMO. Coupled with the fact that she also says their mission is the only thing that matters now, this dialogue even seemed completely contradictory. Where is the question of their mission if she wants to cut off ties?

I just wish the dialogue had stopped with "I can never feel this way about you, I have lost all faith in love. Don't ever bring this up again, otherwise I would have to avoid you, give up our friendship" 😊

A last warning types. 😊 Achieves pretty much the same effect na:

1) Sansku feeling quite heartbroken

2) Swara venting out her pain and frustration

3) Laying the ground for future track where Sansku will never force his love on her, but will not deny it, either. He may just believe she cannot love him back.


Edited by CogitoErgoSum - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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totally agree with you. nice post.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Kavya u really deserve a jhappi fr dis post 🤗

IMO I feel she z scared of feeling 'LOVE' nw
Whoever claimed to love her & trust her always ended up breaking her heart into pieces
I feel she hz developed sm lil feelings fr Sanskaar bt will nt accept it out of fear.
What if Sanskaar too ditch her?
What if he too doesn't trust her?
Her mind z surrounded by all dis Ques
& still she hz nt recovered from her last heart break
She knew how it feels when u love someone & dat person doesn't trust u or understand u.
Right nw she z only thinking abt her mom's happiness
She hz seen her mom craving fr her baba's love all her life & when her parents united she got time to think abt her life & wz ready to marry her best friend...though Ragini & others forced her to accept her feelings fr Laksh bt nw again her parents r separated & d person she loved distrusted her during d most difficult phase of her life so nw her reaction of denying Sanskaar's love z right

She needs time
Sanskaar got time to heal himself from dark past bt Swara still hvnt cried out & get over her past.

She will surely fall for Sanskaar deeply once her mission z accomplished ❤️
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: MusicMyLife.

Kavya u really deserve a jhappi fr dis post 🤗

IMO I feel she z scared of feeling 'LOVE' nw
Whoever claimed to love her & trust her always ended up breaking her heart into pieces
I feel she hz developed sm lil feelings fr Sanskaar bt will nt accept it out of fear.
What if Sanskaar too ditch her?
What if he too doesn't trust her?
Her mind z surrounded by all dis Ques
& still she hz nt recovered from her last heart break
She knew how it feels when u love someone & dat person doesn't trust u or understand u.
Right nw she z only thinking abt her mom's happiness
She hz seen her mom craving fr her baba's love all her life & when her parents united she got time to think abt her life & wz ready to marry her best friend...though Ragini & others forced her to accept her feelings fr Laksh bt nw again her parents r separated & d person she loved distrusted her during d most difficult phase of her life so nw her reaction of denying Sanskaar's love z right

She needs time
Sanskaar got time to heal himself from dark past bt Swara still hvnt cried out & get over her past.

She will surely fall for Sanskaar deeply once her mission z accomplished ❤️



Hi Misha. I agree too, that she's scared of exploring what her feelings for Sansku might be. But I feel there's a difference between saying angrily "I didn't expect this from you, you are my best friend and you should not have risked that relationship" --and saying "From today we are no longer friends".

The latter seemed like a very--well--Un-Swara way of handling a delicate situation. Surely, this is not a way of handling unrequited feelings from a close friend. Swara, who makes excuses for Ragini's sheer psychotic plotting, and for Lakshya's jealous sneering and insults, seems too mature to have made this statement: you love me, so I don't want to have any friendship with you! I was perfectly fine with her even saying she felt let down by him; but saying "aaj se only mission, dosti sab khatam" rang too false.

Of course, she is going to realize it in future. The signs are all there, that she will fall deeply in love with him, but he'll still be respecting her decision and keeping away from her.

But the point is, at least to me, this snippet of dialogue rang very false. Maybe its me being utterly, completely nitpicky. 😛 But couldn't help it!



Edited by CogitoErgoSum - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Viji she ended friendship to convince herself dat nw we will nt be friends so whatever I'm feeling fr Sanskaar will nt get deeper.
Or she broke friendship only to test Sanskaar's real feelings.
She must be thinking dis guy lives wid me support me so he z just infatuated like Laksh wz wid her b4 so nw if she ends her friendship wid him & will nt talk wid him in friendly way then according to her der r possibilities of Sanskaar realizing his real feelings dat he z nt in love wid her.
Only we knw Sanskaar's feelings r genuine fr her & its deep love feelings ❤️
Swara will realize dis too when she ll see despite of her ignorance d guy z loving her more & more ❤️
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Agree with you..
She is trying to convince herself that she is not diverted from her mission..
She want to unite her parents.
She is a selfless girl, who always sees her dearone's happiness above her own..
She never said, she don't love him..
Yes, she is annoyed by his revealation, because so far she had no idea about such a feeling in him
It is just a starting..
She will have to think about it, for which so far she didn't get time after his confession.
She is too busy in her mission..
She may realise her feelings, when she will have to go away from him..
She is a girl who cant see anybody in pain, even her enemy's..
Then how can she leave Sanskar in pain, who already has an experience of heart break?
I think she will express her feelings after Ragini's truth revealation only..

I think, they are planning to extend marriage drama, till mandap.
Ragini will try her best to not to reveal, but in the last moment she will reveal it..
Hope this will be the end of Nagini track..
And next is Ragini's rebirth...
Edited by Shreeswathy - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#17
completely agree with you...
swara is a broken heart..
and she is betrayed by her own sister and somewhat her lover...
bcoz he didn't trust her...
so its take a lot of time for her to again welcome love in her life
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Simple si bt hai yr sanskar lost his love to death toh Mai ye bhi keh rhi Ki uske liye pyaar karna asana hoga fobara bt he still fell for her becuz of her compassion honesty trust n love too ... But swara even if she didn't love lakshay wholly she still loved him she trusted him and dat was broken to d vry extent Ki dat idiot lakshay ji married her own sister dat too to show her down ... She is betrayed but she cares for sanskar dat too more Dan friend but doesn't want to accept it ... She is falling in love bt slowly... N she doesn't want to face it ryt now cuz fr hr it is bakwas Ki baatein...

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