Is Swara really angry with Sanskaar?

I've also been wondering why exactly she's angry. Actually, is she really angry or just irritated and confused?

Bang on! I always look forward to your posts, they are so very analytical and cogent, I feel you should have been the writer of this show and then we could have got such amazingly realistic and meaningful sequences.

I agree with you 100% that Swara is now feeling confused for all the reasons you have enumerated above. And, true to her nature, she is shoving all those distractions away since right now her priority is proving Sanskaar innocent of the crime she knows very well he would never commit.

The fact that the person she is working her guts out to defend, is so frantically trying to converse with her, is also a "distracting factor" for her right now. 😊 Just waiting to see where this build up leads to. Will Sanskaar finally crack under this, we could already see he was moving from puzzlement to hurt to frustration yesterday. How long before he demands to know why he is getting the cold shoulder (he knows, of course, but he will want to hear from her!) 😊 Am just imagining the sparks that would fly then.

Agree, too, that DP is actually on Swara & Sanskaar's side though he appears neutral, I think he's never forgotten all those doubts about Ragini, Dida and Sanskaar's earlier allegations against her, and Sanskaar's proof which he brought out recently. The only irritant: why he had to slap Sanskaar on the basis such flimsy allegations. Yelling at him or questioning him was fine, but that gesture seemed to be too extreme. But anyway, if he supports them in future, I shall forgive him. 😃

I think you are right to some extent. I think to some extent, she doesn't want to deal with Sanskar or her feelings. Her life was in turmoil and Sanskar was on her side. It is safe, she needs the friendship and she didn't want any complications. The timing is off he says he loves her in front of his whole family. He is Laksh's cousin!
I think Swaara needs Laksh and Ragini to move on, before she can move on. Not because she has feelings for Laksh but she needs the closure. Whatever happened between her and Laksh was just bad. She needs to know he will be okay, she feels responsible for Laksh. She knows they were not meant to be and she understands that, does Lasksh.

I think when she stops to think about her feelings towards Sanskar she is going to realize she feels something for him. She does have feelings. If she feels anything for Sanskar, she becomes the villain in her own eyes. She is playing two cousins.

Swara's life experiences, teached her a lot..
Now she wont blindly go behind the word love..
Along with the word, she will add many things, like trust, respect etc, that will be necessary for a good life..
She will think twice before taking a decision..
She will analyse the practical aspects of the situation..
So far, she witnessed many hardness in her life, &her mom's life.
Though she know well that Sanskar is a good person, his confession was a shocker to her..
Give she time, she will act normal...

Originally posted by: inlieu

That was a detailed and logical analysis of Swara's silent treatment " inlieu ". It never ceases to amaze me the ability of few viewers to understand and analyze the characters than the writer who created the characters.
It's not just his confession but also the fact that he announced it in front of everyone that bothered her. she didn't want Sanskaar to speak about his involvement and his bad deeds .His rambling and tent burning not only ruined their plans but also gave Ragini and now Laksh way to much ammunition! The whole strategy will have to be changed now.
As you analyzed the confession of love in the presence of Sanskaar's family after burning the tend and confessing his role in destroying Swara's image along with Ragini drama might have irritated her. Because she didn't want Sanskaar to spoil his image by confessing his bad deeds mostly because she forgave him the minute he started repenting and she knows that if Sanskaar confessed his role in plotting against LAksh-Swara marriage people will loss the faith in him . She was right , cause Laksh has pointed it immediately after the accusation of Ragini .

More than irritation his love declaration must be a shock for her and it might have made her little uncomfortable, cause it is easy to be in partnership with a friend but the equation will change the minute the other person develops a soft feeling.
She was already angry with him for trying to strangle Ragini and for being dictatorial. In the past too she had to tell him off for being aggressive and starting fights.
Swara is a person with patience , she rarely gets angry and violent, otherwise she would have slapped Ragini at least 10 times for her bad deeds . She rarely raise her voice , she often speaks calmly, whereas at times Sanskaar is impulsive , aggressive and short tempered . Sanskaar Strangling Ragini definitely made her upset ,cause she is always against violence and she is always against hurting her sister . Swara doesn't want to avenge Ragini , her only aim is to unite her parents by presenting the truth , by declaring that her upbringing is right.
Right now she is trying to focus on this mission and needs both of them to concentrate. She is avoiding that conversation and confrontation like the plague.
As you said she is in a mission not just to prove Sanskaar is innocent but to make her parents unite . She don't want to deviate her attention.
But since Sankaar already confessed she will definitely deal with the matter sooner when they solve the immediate problem
I don't think she's really had time to get over Laksh ..
It's not just romantic love but also the other forms of love and lack of trust amongst family members that she's seeing around her, least of all her father's behavior.
I think the day she realize that her sister married Laksh , she got over him . But the betrayal she experienced in past few days is not easy to forget and overcome. She lost all the relationship which she got lately . Her father , her sister and her lover, that too in a same day . That uneasy feeling is there in her mind.
I am also curious about the Kavita angle and even though Sanskaar thinks he has fallen in love again, how insecure could that possibly make Swara feel?
Swara is a mature and confident girl with self esteem , so it is unlikely to affect Sanskaars previous affair , but she will be doubtful about Sanskaar falling in love with her part as it happened in a very short period. But she should know that for men it will take only minutes to fall in love . He told Laksh he didn't marry Swara for love or hatred,I think he said it genuinely, cause he realized the feeling for her lately.
I hope the CV's will deal with this track intelligently keeping Swara's character in mind.
Yes I admire the characterization of Swara, well composed, articulate and insightful character.

Thanks for your replies and encouragement guys, it means a lot.

I actually like the silent treatment . its make their chemistry more relatable . great acting by both

Yup, the "dard ka rishta" and all the inherent nuances and layers of their bond, would make for an absolutely fascinating portrayal if directed properly. There is so much potential here for an epic romance. Not just the eternally cheesy, mushy, "SOTY" type romances which set my teeth on edge, literally.

This can truly be one of the all time great "drama romance" portrayals, if the genre can be called that. 😊

Originally posted by: CogitoErgoSum

Yup, the "dard ka rishta" and all the inherent nuances and layers of their bond, would make for an absolutely fascinating portrayal if directed properly. There is so much potential here for an epic romance. Not just the eternal sunshine, mushy, "SOTY" type romances which set my teeth on edge, literally.

This can truly be one of the all time great "drama romance" portrayals, if the genre can be called that. 😊

I'm very new with Swargini serial. Just started watching from 17th Sept onward.