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Posted: 10 years ago
#41
Where did I say she should marry Laksh. And I don't think anyone else here said anything about it. You guys really think Swara doesn't want him because he didn't trust
her.😆 No it's because he's married to her ek hazaron mein meri behana. I said it b4 and will say it again. She's making all sort of excuses to separate from Laksh. instead of accepting that she doesn't want Laksh because phoolon ka taaron ka she say he didn't trust me blah blah😡😡. As for Laksh, I would be ok if Laksh knows everything and he tried to go back to Swara and if she says no. It's a different scenario. I will understand that and I'll respect that. Remember, laksh is her best friend as well. If i were Swara I would have never allowed someone to live with a psycho who needs medical treatment. Ragini needs it, thanks to her Dadi' s upbringing. I don't know CVS have the brains to realize this but the way they're showing her, she would even kill Laksh if he refuses to accept her. I'm sorry but I would never allow that happen. Who says Swara will have to marry him if he rescues him from a psycho. If Laksh decides to live with Ragini even after knowing her truth, that's fine. If Swara doesn't want to go to Laksh that's fine as well. Swara is indirectly playing with his life and putting him in a situation where he cannot return.she cannot watch her parents suffer but no problem seeing Laksh dying day by day in an unhappy relationship. His life as a divorce would be so much better than that with his wife who has destroyed his life. Again, if Swara really wanted them to stay happy then why expose Ragini. Let them live in their world of lies. Please dont tell me there is no other way to reunite her parents. There are many other ways to do it. What she is doing is like a telling a cancer patient that you are dying but expects that person to be happy about it. Swarsan fans, Laksh can live alone and getting divorced from😕Ragini does not mean Swalak.
















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Posted: 10 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham


instead of being sarcastic and belittling maybe you'd like to actually explicate what exactly you mean by L can do whatever- what exactly is this "whatever" that he seems to be doing. unless you don't like L for some irrational reason, in which case b explicit about that, At the sometime please feel free to rationally explain- who asked R to do anything for them, what exactly has R done for anyone else and why is it so important she gets what she wants cos her poor little heart wanted it for the first time. and the kicker you want the heroine to understand that she's too good for the hero, but that doesn't apply to Sanskaar who drugged her, left her in shady places and made and distributed a dirty mms of her? then you should hope they bring a new guy for swara no? i agree laksh's love was one-sided, he walked away. swara certainly wasn't under any compulsion to accept him. whether you saw a spark between the two or not, many ppl did. please do not assume to belittle their intelligence. thats just rude. and family are people who love you and accept you- good bad and ugly. sperm donation doesn't make you a father. Swara's family is simply her mother and dida. and the only way to bring back their lost respect in society is to expose ragini, not to unite Shekhar Shomi in a dysfunctional relationship, where Shomi faces harassment and disrespect. If she doesn't expose ragini, and clear her own name, then there will always be a question mark on her real family's- the one that raised her against all odds- upbringing. Dida will forever be a liar and Shomi a bad mother- the role thats been her definition for 20 years. Please stop making this a choice between her choosing her family over Laksh. Just cos Laksh may leave Ragini after she's exposed, doesn't mean that Swara needs to run into his arms. She can do as she pleases, but exposing Ragini and bringing back her family's respect should be her priority. If she's giving herself the choice- to go back to Laksh or not- she should give her mother the choice as well- to go back to Shekhar or not. Her responsibility ends with clearing their name.


Im only going to answer some of the statements that i cant be bothered to answer . Your clearly a huge L fan , ive come across fangirls such as urself and to be honest there is no point of me saying anything in regards to ur biased cause u will come to defend him so cant be asked . In terms of SWs father, as far as i know im pretty sure she was conceived through both parents intimacy and not the sperm bank . I dont know whether you and i are watching the same show but im pretty sure her father at first didnt know SW was his daugther so he never really had a chance to be her father from the beginjng and yes he isnt much of a father now however nevertheless hes still her father . If L decides to leave R after popping her cherry then i dont know what to call him , maybe he should leave to control his angry cause clearly thats when he makes harsh decisions . Yes SA was an accomplice in drugging SW however still SW has managed to move passed it and even forgive him so who are you to say who ends up with lol. Whether she ends up with SA or L the viewera will have to except it . I personally think thats shes too good for L and i dont really see any spark the way you do and i have a right to my own opinion so lets agree to disagree , no need to get heated . This isnt the first drama that i have watched whether fans are wanting one couple over the other. I think both L and R deserve each other as for SW and SA they are most interesting to watch then the latter.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: -PhoenixD-


She dint runaway frm the mandap or bride swaped her sister in her place for everyone to accuse her for nt to b in relation or promise mrg or whatever!it was his decision to marry her sister without listening to dida or shomi n d adterwffects he will have to deal with it!!if it was swara's sacrifise i would hav agreed with u fully bt here he choosed this life nw laksh/swalak fans cant expect her to save the damsel 🥱


save his life?!? from whom? ragini? he's quite possibly the ONLY one not at risk from ragini. I'm asking swara to save the rest of society from her sister and to get her the treatment she needs. it was Laksh's mistake to marry her, but he doesn't know that she's a threat to any and all girls he may even speak to. If she can kill her own sister for Laksh, and now conspire to separate her parents for no reason, she can surely kill someone unrelated to her for talking to Laksh for more than 5 minutes. Swara knows that, so she should do it as a service to her family (especially her mother whose been a victim to Ragini's nautanki one to many times) and the greater society.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -alimabi-

While its okay for L to do whateva , now SW is all of a sudden wrong cause she said maybe her and L were not ment to be . Firstly parents come first , even if her father is spineless its still her father . Secondly im glad SW is nothing like R , were R chose L over her own family , clearing the way she has been raised has had a huge impact on her , the poor girl was always the 'perfect child' , kinda like a dormat , never doing anything for herself always for other and then one day she wanted something for the first time and that was taken from her so no wonder why shes soo blinded by L that she doesnt see anything else . I feel sorry for R , she did go too far when she tried to kill her own sister but to be honest even though its no excuse the girl clearly has issues emotionally. In R eyes L is someone who she can cut ties for, however im glad SW is nothing like her ,for SW its sisters over misters . No man especially a person like L is worth cutting off ur parents or even ur cray cray sister . Personally i never saw a spark between SW and L , love was only onesided untill the forcing of SW to except L , SW so called sudden feeling never did nothing for me unfortunatly . Also no matter what people say on this forum L is partly responsible for the way R has ended up , he messed with her emotionally and you shouldnt do that to a person so he got whats comming to him . SW is too good for him , he clearly doesnt know the meaning of a relationship cause he wouldnt have married R . I cant even feel sorry for him all hes done is moan and groan about how he feels and hasnt seen the bigger picture . Wont be long before hes angry at SW again and thats when he will have angry s** with R . R will be glad thats hes finally popped her cherry while L will say its because of SW this has happened .
Im hoping this show with move forward and keep L&R tougether and SW&SA , if thry decide to get L and SW tougether then what can we do however this pairing are just a no no for me since for once i want to lead girl to realise that she is too good for the guy .


i completely agree with you..

in some way lakshy is reason of ragini downfall...

yesterday when i was telling the story of swaragini to my aunt i realized the same thing...
lakshy played unknowingly with ragini's emotions...

hope the story moves forward with L&R and SWara-sanskar because going back to swara and lakshy will look odd and wrong as lakshy is now married man
moreover no one forced lakshy to marry Ragini, he married on his own will
Edited by -PD- - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#45
Honestly I don't think laksh was completely at fault here, I sympathize with him. We have all over estimated trust and have unrealistically high expectation of it. U don't just get trust, it takes time and effort to build trust but only seconds to break it, one word, one lie, one mistake, one action can bring the whole tower of trust crumbling down. Trust is most fragile and despite swara being innocent circumstances were not favouring her. Ragini (along with sanskar) had built things up such that it's difficult for laksh or for any person to trust swara. After all the hangama at the sangeet and swara with drugs and what not, after all the things that went wrong, on the wedding day the bride apparently runs away leaving behind a video recording of herself clearly stating everything then what laksh supposed to do other than to beleive the video recording especially when all the previous events support it? What would u have done if this had happened to you on your wedding day? No matter how much u loved someone u will be forced to beleive the video. Laksh was shattered and feeling betrayed by the person he loved and trusted sincerely. And at this point of time ragini who he considered a good friend and well wisher attempts suicide In front of him and reasons that her engagement (engagement with laksh) was broken twice and after all this badnaaming who would marry her. She was guilt tripping him. Tell me if ur ex-fiancee Who is also you best friend attempts suicide on your wedding day In front of your eyes giving all of ragini's reasons while your own bride has fled from the wedding leaving behind a video recording, what would you do? Will you wait for your run-away bride or would you marry your friend and save her life? I know I would marry my friend. The only part of the video recording that was unbelievable and laksh should not have beleived is that part which said that swara never loved him (did swara confess her feelings to laksh, I haven't watched many of the old episodes yet so pls someone do clear this one for me)
And as for laksh and even shekar beleiving ragini over swara it's understandable, what kind of a ragini were these two accustomed to? What kind of ragini have they seen and been with? The old ragini, the ragini who always put her family above all else, the ragini who stood up for the right, the ragini who broke her engagement and went against society accepting swara as her sister and sharmishta as her mother, the ragini who was always selfless, loving, innocent, reserved, very traditional and full of goodness. They never knew the change in ragini, they never witnessed her plotting and scheming. So why would they not believe ragini when it's only natural they beleive her. And as for shekar, he knew ragini much more than he knew swara, he had seen ragini growing up in front of him, he was with her all the while, this was the same reason why shomi could easily beleive swara when everyone else didn't because she knew swara, been there with her all through her life and as for s hekar trusting the video, you cannot blame him, to him it was not the first time that swara ran away, remember how she wrote a letter for her mother and faked running away so as to find out her mother's feeling? And and swara's actions afterwards also docent support her does it, like when she dissappearerd after ragya's wedding and laksh got arrested and accused faultily for kidnapping her and even later when she was supposed to leave to Mumbai and her running away to suicide and then marriage with Sanskar this only makes ppl beleive more that video was indeed correct and she indeed ran away from her wedding. It's like story of the boy and his sheep. Although I should say that I didn't like shekar's lack of concern for swara's head injury which was so openly visible but I guess the overdose of drama he witnessed on that day made this go unnoticed, yet I didn't like that bit.
Edited by zainabawoon - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: zainabawoon

Honestly I don't think laksh was completely at fault here, I sympathize with him. We have all over estimated trust and have unrealistically high expectation of it. U don't just get trust, it takes time and effort to build trust but only seconds to break it, one word, one lie, one mistake, one action can bring the whole tower of trust crumbling down. Trust is most fragile and despite swara being innocent circumstances were not favouring her. Ragini (along with sanskar) had built things up such that it's difficult for laksh or for any person to trust swara. After all the hangama at the sangeet and swara with drugs and what not, after all the things that went wrong, on the wedding day the bride apparently runs away leaving behind a video recording of herself clearly stating everything then what laksh supposed to do other than to beleive the video recording especially when all the previous events support it? What would u have done if this had happened to you on your wedding day? No matter how much u loved someone u will be forced to beleive the video. Laksh was shattered and feeling betrayed by the person he loved and trusted sincerely. And at this point of time ragini who he considered a good friend and well wisher attempts suicide In front of him and reasons that her engagement (engagement with laksh) was broken twice and after all this badnaaming who would marry her. She was guilt tripping him. Tell me if ur ex-fiancee Who is also you best friend attempts suicide on your wedding day In front of your eyes giving all of ragini's reasons while your own bride has fled from the wedding leaving behind a video recording, what would you do? Will you wait for your run-away bride or would you marry your friend and save her life? I know I would marry my friend. The only part of the video recording that was unbelievable and laksh should not have beleived is that part which said that swara never loved him (did swara confess her feelings to laksh, I haven't watched many of the old episodes yet so pls someone do clear this one for me)

And as for laksh and even shekar beleiving ragini over swara it's understandable, what kind of a ragini were these two accustomed to? What kind of ragini have they seen and been with? The old ragini, the ragini who always put her family above all else, the ragini who stood up for the right, the ragini who broke her engagement and went against society accepting swara as her sister and sharmishta as her mother, the ragini who was always selfless, loving, innocent, reserved, very traditional and full of goodness. They never knew the change in ragini, they never witnessed her plotting and scheming. So why would they not believe ragini when it's only natural they beleive her. And as for shekar, he knew ragini much more than he knew swara, he had seen ragini growing up in front of him, he was with her all the while, this was the same reason why shomi could easily beleive swara when everyone else didn't because she knew swara, been there with her all through her life and as for s hekar trusting the video, you cannot blame him, to him it was not the first time that swara ran away, remember how she wrote a letter for her mother and faked running away so as to find out her mother's feeling? And and swara's actions afterwards also docent support her does it, like when she dissappearerd after ragya's wedding and laksh got arrested and accused faultily for kidnapping her and even later when she was supposed to leave to Mumbai and her running away to suicide and then marriage with Sanskar this only makes ppl beleive more that video was indeed correct and she indeed ran away from her wedding. It's like story of the boy and his sheep. Although I should say that I didn't like shekar's lack of concern for swara's head injury which was so openly visible but I guess the overdose of drama he witnessed on that day made this go unnoticed, yet I didn't like that bit.


Loved it to the core, its one of the very few sensible posts I have come across in this forum 😛
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I disagree about accepting parents despite 100 flaws, that's a very wrong view. Values are on one side, but idealistic values on another. If your father can't have enough faith in you and leaves you miserable, you have the choice to set him aside. I'm so freakin' frustrated with all this so-called ideal mahanta shown on TV shows, It's totally giving the wrong message. Shekhar is a failure as a father, big failure. Swara should be the better person and help her mother move on instead of reuniting them. As much as I like SwaSan, she never really thought how her mother might be coping with things, instead she went off in the Maheshwari house for 'revenge' that doesn't even make sense. From a daughter's POV, that's wrong.

The SwaLak angle could have been handled better, things in life don't work out as you think they would. But CVs just made a disaster out of them. Laksh supported Swara no matter what in the beginning phase of their relationship, then suddenly he takes a U-turn which was out of character.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: -alimabi-


Im only going to answer some of the statements that i cant be bothered to answer . Your clearly a huge L fan , ive come across fangirls such as urself and to be honest there is no point of me saying anything in regards to ur biased cause u will come to defend him so cant be asked . In terms of SWs father, as far as i know im pretty sure she was conceived through both parents intimacy and not the sperm bank . I dont know whether you and i are watching the same show but im pretty sure her father at first didnt know SW was his daugther so he never really had a chance to be her father from the beginjng and yes he isnt much of a father now however nevertheless hes still her father . If L decides to leave R after popping her cherry then i dont know what to call him , maybe he should leave to control his angry cause clearly thats when he makes harsh decisions . Yes SA was an accomplice in drugging SW however still SW has managed to move passed it and even forgive him so who are you to say who ends up with lol. Whether she ends up with SA or L the viewera will have to except it . I personally think thats shes too good for L and i dont really see any spark the way you do and i have a right to my own opinion so lets agree to disagree , no need to get heated . This isnt the first drama that i have watched whether fans are wanting one couple over the other. I think both L and R deserve each other as for SW and SA they are most interesting to watch then the latter.


Ya im a laksh fan as your a swara fan? so please don't take that superior tone by calling me a fangirl. despite of being a laksh fan i have never backed out of hearing a logical argument. so first of all learn to respect other people's opinions without being condescending. i simply asked you why you dislike laksh so much. and when in the world did he pop R's cherry? may be we are watching different shows. i don't think i at any point through this argument asserted that swara should be with him or sanskar. as far as defending him goes, aren't you defending swara? and even shekhar? by sperm donor i simply mean someone who shares her blood but not any affection for her. As for not knowing about Swara, he did know about the extent of his intimacy with Shomi right? yet he felt no qualms about leaving her? and its not a one off occasion! he has never respected swara's mother. so between choosing his feelings of hurt when Ragini truth comes or her mother's respect which is being constantly trampled over by ragini and the Gs, what should she choose? simply having a child is the easiest thing to do in the world, it takes half an hour and a reproductive organ for a guy. being a father is so much harder. tell me, since finding out he's swara's father, what is the one single contribution he's made to her life? (other than giving her his name, something even Shomi's ex-husband with no relation to Swara was ok with giving her- its his name on her birth certificate) literally nothing. so please don't use shekhar as an example of someone Swara owes loyalty to. if you'd said shomi wants this and thus swara should do it, then fine. id have relented that yes. she comes first, before anyone else. and secondly, i never raised the question of swara forgiving or not forgiving sanskaar or laksh for that matter. it was you who raised the question of how you want a heroine, swara, to realize she's too good for laksh, so surely she is too good for sanskaar too, Laksh hasn't done anything criminal and sanskaar has. that assessment has nothing to do with whom Swara chooses to forgive or not forgive.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Loved it to the core, its one of the very few sensible posts I have come across in this forum 😛
Thank u so much!! I try as much as possible to judge each character by seeing things from their point of view. I can even understand ragini's changed behavior though I sincerely hope they will make ragini realise her mistakes and bring back the old ragz soon
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -PhoenixD-


Dint dida who jus woke up frm a coma accuse Ragini infront of Laksh 🥱 ?then where did his brain go?


dude swara admitted, on video, that she does drugs, she never loved laksh and that she ran away. i, an ex swalak fan wish more than anyone else that he'd believed dida. but whom should he believe? dida who has a very obvious bias for her Shoru and would not want to believe her granddaughter has a drug problem and is thus deflecting? or swara's confession that came through her phone? (BTW GUYS PROOF NUMBER ONE, THEY CAN TRACE PHONE SIGNALS AND TRACE WHERE A PHONE WAS WHEN A PARTICULAR CALL WAS MADE OR TEXT/VIDEO SENT, EVERYONE WOULD KNOW THAT SWARA'S PHONE WAS IN THE BARI WHILST SHE WASNT SO SHE COULDNT HAVE SENT THAT VIDEO) she also strangely enough seemed totally together rather than drugged in the video as opposed to in the pub.

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