Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham
Ya im a laksh fan as your a swara fan? so please don't take that superior tone by calling me a fangirl. despite of being a laksh fan i have never backed out of hearing a logical argument. so first of all learn to respect other people's opinions without being condescending. i simply asked you why you dislike laksh so much. and when in the world did he pop R's cherry? may be we are watching different shows. i don't think i at any point through this argument asserted that swara should be with him or sanskar. as far as defending him goes, aren't you defending swara? and even shekhar? by sperm donor i simply mean someone who shares her blood but not any affection for her. As for not knowing about Swara, he did know about the extent of his intimacy with Shomi right? yet he felt no qualms about leaving her? and its not a one off occasion! he has never respected swara's mother. so between choosing his feelings of hurt when Ragini truth comes or her mother's respect which is being constantly trampled over by ragini and the Gs, what should she choose? simply having a child is the easiest thing to do in the world, it takes half an hour and a reproductive organ for a guy. being a father is so much harder. tell me, since finding out he's swara's father, what is the one single contribution he's made to her life? (other than giving her his name, something even Shomi's ex-husband with no relation to Swara was ok with giving her- its his name on her birth certificate) literally nothing. so please don't use shekhar as an example of someone Swara owes loyalty to. if you'd said shomi wants this and thus swara should do it, then fine. id have relented that yes. she comes first, before anyone else. and secondly, i never raised the question of swara forgiving or not forgiving sanskaar or laksh for that matter. it was you who raised the question of how you want a heroine, swara, to realize she's too good for laksh, so surely she is too good for sanskaar too, Laksh hasn't done anything criminal and sanskaar has. that assessment has nothing to do with whom Swara chooses to forgive or not forgive.
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