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Originally posted by: velvetscarf
Wow!
And we're all so greedy, 😳we get a morsel of Lucky and his Shona and we immediately want more!See,I know there is a moral dilemma here, but frankly its not really pinching yet - although I know it will as we go on. To me, so far its damn straight. Lucky needs to get rid of Rags at all costs and I would rather he does that before indulging his love. The longer he drags the "marriage" the worse it will be.But fundamentally, emotionally and morally any so-called relationship with Ragini does not exist. But maybe thats just the way am I thinking - I tend to get irritated by an elevation of a ceremony above individuals.Slight tangent: I dont' kow if you guys have heard stories and examples of the type of thing where even if you are duped into a marriage ceremony with a mentally subnormal person it is considered highly moral to honour that marriage... but to me such a marriage is an insult of a sacred bond, not a sacred bond itself.I think Ragya fans have that kind of thing in mind - marry then gradually be won over etc the old old story family elders love to promulgate.But how much worse would it be when the person you have married is the cause of destroying the one person you had vosed to love and protect. Then to honour that relationship would be a blasphemy and a sin and it seems Lakh is feeling that.
hi can i make a request, please would you write an opinion piece on that slight tangent and put it on the forum? i think it deserves to be read by everyone. brilliantly put. i REALLY hate this kind of forced marriages. i don't know how ppl find this acceptable.
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