Both Karan & Naina are annoying now

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Shruti00013

@Shruti00013

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Posted: 7 years ago

I am still confused as to why Naina hid the secret about Kunal from Meghna and Karan. Like Meghna had said, if naina had told her earlier then they could have given courage to Nirmala to speak the truth before Sawri revealed it to NK. But no, she decided to keep it to herself. She did the same annoying thing for the Karan-allergy thing. AS a brother, Kunal deserved to know about Karan's condition. But maybe that could have been justified by saying she didnt want to stress others and Karan is Naina's husband afterall. BUT, I strongly disagree with her reasoning of not wanting to put stress on Meghnal&Karan by not telling the truth about Kunal. It made everything worse and it is just ridiculous. Did she not know the truth was going to come out one day anyway?? Her reasoning is not convincing and purely childish. Both Karan and Megna should have been told this through Naina.

Seriously, Karan used to be one of my favourite characters of Swabhiman but after the Kunal revelation, he is just being annoying too. I get his anger toward Naina, I actually agree with it. Why would he not be angry? But what I find annoying is that he is not sticking up against NK. His mum is being ill treated, his bhai and bhabi sent out of the house yet he does not have the guts to speak out against his father. Ridiculous. And if cared so much about his Kunal bhai then why did not just go out of the house with him if he was not able to stop him? Naina could have went as well, considering how much love she is supposdely have for Megna. That aside, I find it irritating that he is only able to stick up to Naina, even if it is justified, then he should stick up against Nk too, no?? I mean Megnal were far more supporting to Karan than NK ever was even after everyone knew about his condition. I am not satisifed with what Karan has done for KUnal as compared to what Kunal had done to Karan (given his office work, stuck up for him against NK).

P.S. I am not a hater of Nairan, before any Nairan fans bash at me, I actually love them too but right now I don't agree with both of their actions.

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Mahi

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Posted: 7 years ago

Completely agree! After so much struggles and understanding, Karan & Naina are behaving like strangers! And Karan is bit by bit standing up against NK while Naina is as usual confused. I'm loving Meghnal's struggles though <3

I hope Nairan come out of this soon.😆

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Namita

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Posted: 7 years ago

If I'm not wrong, Nirmala asked her to not say anything to anyone.

The point is that it isn't Naina's secret. Why is everyone going after Naina? Did Meghna really think that if Nirmala told NK he would have taken it well??

NK of course is being moronic! Everyone else is just grating on my nerves!

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Miss-Behave

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: -Namita-
If I'm not wrong, Nirmala asked her to not say anything to anyone.
The point is that it isn't Naina's secret. Why is everyone going after Naina? Did Meghna really think that if Nirmala told NK he would have taken it well??

NK of course is being moronic! Everyone else is just grating on my nerves!

That's exactly what I was thinking this whole time with karan and meghna blaming naina for not revealing the secret. What would they exactly have done if they got to know the truth from naina before sawri could tell NK? No really, what would they have done? Would they tell nirmala that they know the truth and they think she should tell NK, despite the fact that nirmala is scared of NK? Would they have told NK themselves before he got to know from sawri? And irrespective of what they would have done if they got to know the truth from naina before swari could reveal it all, would that have really changed things? Would hearing the truth another way have hurt kunal less? Would finding out the truth from nirmala or another family member make NK react any differently to the revelation and stop him from disowning kunal? No, it wouldn't have. NK is an idiot, and how and from whom he finds out the secret would not have made a difference, because all he would be concerned with is that kunal is NOT his son. Whoever tells him this truth will not matter to him.

Whereas hiding the truth is concerned, is it really that easy for naina to tell her husband that his brother is not his real brother? Would he believe her or not get mad/ accuse her if she said that to him? Is it easy for naina to tell her sister that her husband is not the real son of the people he has considered his parents his whole life and not related to that family at all, meaning she isn't actually a daughter-in-law of the chauhan family? Is it really that simple and easy to make such a huge revelation? If anybody else was in naina's place, they would have found it burdening to hold such a secret and also fear the consequences of the secret getting out. In my head, karan and meghna are the annoying ones in this situation.

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malikakas

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: -Namita-
If I'm not wrong, Nirmala asked her to not say anything to anyone.
The point is that it isn't Naina's secret. Why is everyone going after Naina? Did Meghna really think that if Nirmala told NK he would have taken it well??

NK of course is being moronic! Everyone else is just grating on my nerves!

But Nami... Naina hid the truth even before she knew Nirmala was involved. Naina knew the truth when Meghna told her that Sandy had a baby boy because she had seen the Jharoka. I think that's the part that's hurtful to Meghna. That Meghna was telling Naina everything and believed that Naina would give her all the information as well. What Naina did was a betrayal of the trust that Meghna had in their relationship. When you make a plan to find out everything together, you don't keep half the information to your self.

I think part of the reason NK reacted so poorly was that it came from Sawri vs Nirmala. He certainly wouldn't have made the condition that Kunal needs to marry Sawri or leave the house. So to say if Naina did things differently wouldn't have made a difference is not really believable. Part of the reason Kunal is suffering more is that the truth came from Sawri. Also had Meghna known beforehand she could've prepared for this eventuality.

For me the person that is getting the most on my nerves is Naina. I just can't understand how you can go along with NK's demands after your sister is going through all this. That's why I relate to Karan's anger with Naina. I don't think Karan and Meghna think Naina is greedy. I think they are angry that she is putting her bahu dharam to NK ahead of other relationships.

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Namita

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Posted: 7 years ago

I do get it Malika. In all of this Meghna and Karan are thinking about themselves and that Naina didn't tell them.

The point should be Kunal. Would any of them have believed her if she said that Kunal is not a Chauhaan?

I find that Karan and Meghna are so hurt that can't think beyond their own hurt. They aren't noticing what Kunal is going through. This hurt Kunal the most.

Plus, regardless of who told NK, NK would have reacted the same way. There is no question about it. This wasn't a simple secret. There were lots of things involved. No one is looking or pointing fingers at Sandya, Pushpa and Savri. They are the real culprits. Nirmala is so weak that she can't even stand up for her son!

I guess it's easier to blame Naina than to see that Pushp/Savri have succeeded in breaking the family.

This is what's bothering me. No one is looking at the bigger picture. I feel so horrible for Kunal, yet I feel Karan and Meghna aren't as concerned as they should be. Don't fight amongst each other as the a 3rd party will win. That is exactly what they are doing.

Fingers crossed this gets sorted quickly. TRP is down again!

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malikakas

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: -Namita-
I do get it Malika. In all of this Meghna and Karan are thinking about themselves and that Naina didn't tell them.
The point should be Kunal. Would any of them have believed her if she said that Kunal is not a Chauhaan?

I find that Karan and Meghna are so hurt that can't think beyond their own hurt. They aren't noticing what Kunal is going through. This hurt Kunal the most.

Plus, regardless of who told NK, NK would have reacted the same way. There is no question about it. This wasn't a simple secret. There were lots of things involved. No one is looking or pointing fingers at Sandya, Pushpa and Savri. They are the real culprits. Nirmala is so weak that she can't even stand up for her son!

I guess it's easier to blame Naina than to see that Pushp/Savri have succeeded in breaking the family.

This is what's bothering me. No one is looking at the bigger picture. I feel so horrible for Kunal, yet I feel Karan and Meghna aren't as concerned as they should be. Don't fight amongst each other as the a 3rd party will win. That is exactly what they are doing.

Fingers crossed this gets sorted quickly. TRP is down again!

But Nami there is no question that Meghna would've believed Naina. Not only because its Naina but because Meghna found out about Sandy having a son herself. Plus she knew about Sandy keeping Kunal's birthday as a passcode. So I just don't believe that excuse. We could have a debate about whether Karan would've believed. Maybe he wouldn't have believed but Naina never had faith enough in him to try. I think its that kind of behavior that hurts relationships more than what third parties do.

I disagree with you about them not noticing what Kunal is going though. I think they are noticing what Kunal is going through and that's exactly why they are so mad with Naina. I think Meghna's angry because Naina didn't give her an opportunity to make this a better transition for Kunal. The point is not whether Meghna would've been able to do anything better or that NK would've reacted the same. The point is Naina never gave Meghna that chance and Kunal is currently facing the worst possible outcome. So therefore Naina is accountable for that worst possible outcome. For one, NK wouldn't have made it a condition for Kunal to marry Sawri if he hadn't heard the truth from Sawri.

There are bigger culprits but they aren't really relevant right now. Pushpa is basically out of the picture-- she has no further power. Sawri is off with Sharda-- Meghna wanted to send her to jail but her mother chose how to approach that scenario. The only person left is Sandhya. But again Karan and Meghna don't know that Sandhya is a threat because Naina has hid the lion's share of Sandhya's schemes from them.

For me the biggest culprit the family needs to band together against is NK because he is hurting everyone (in his own pain). Naina repeatedly going along with NK's desires is actually breaking the family more which is why she is facing the brunt of the anger from Meghna and Karan.

I don't think the TRP is truly reflective of the track because of the direct competition with the first week of KBC.

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Adhya

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Posted: 7 years ago

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That's exactly what I was thinking this whole time with karan and meghna blaming naina for not revealing the secret. What would they exactly have done if they got to know the truth from naina before sawri could tell NK? No really, what would they have done? Would they tell nirmala that they know the truth and they think she should tell NK, despite the fact that nirmala is scared of NK? Would they have told NK themselves before he got to know from sawri? And irrespective of what they would have done if they got to know the truth from naina before swari could reveal it all, would that have really changed things? Would hearing the truth another way have hurt kunal less? Would finding out the truth from nirmala or another family member make NK react any differently to the revelation and stop him from disowning kunal? No, it wouldn't have. NK is an idiot, and how and from whom he finds out the secret would not have made a difference, because all he would be concerned with is that kunal is NOT his son. Whoever tells him this truth will not matter to him.

Whereas hiding the truth is concerned, is it really that easy for naina to tell her husband that his brother is not his real brother? Would he believe her or not get mad/ accuse her if she said that to him? Is it easy for naina to tell her sister that her husband is not the real son of the people he has considered his parents his whole life and not related to that family at all, meaning she isn't actually a daughter-in-law of the chauhan family? Is it really that simple and easy to make such a huge revelation? If anybody else was in naina's place, they would have found it burdening to hold such a secret and also fear the consequences of the secret getting out. In my head, karan and meghna are the annoying ones in this situation.

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Shruti00013

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Meghna is so hurt that she does not see Naina's justifications being valid. From her perspective her anger is justified. She trusts and cares for Naina the most but got to know the secret from that Sawri. I think that's what hurt her the most. From Naina's perspective maybe u r right, it is not her secret for her to tell. But that does not mean Meghna's anger is annoying. She is just hurt and felt like she has been betrayed even if that is not the case...

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