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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: adhyakumarijha


Also because both love their elder sibling and rest of the family of alot and from now onwards they will be together because they arw madly deeply in love with each other 😳😉

yehh true at the beginning it was cause of love for their older siblings now they stay together because they need eachothers more than anyone else and soon cause they are gonn admitted to their love for eachothers 😆( as it is evident they both are in love but don't want to admit to that)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tamihna

I totally agree with you! I think it would be great for Meghna and Kunal to help Karan. Of course Naina is there but Karan needs to build relationships with everyone. His Dadu, Mother, Bhai and Bhabi. Due to the illness he hasn't been able to connect with any of them. So if everyone helps that'd be great. You mentioned that as the elders siblings Kunal and Meghna have he right to do so.

I genuinely agree 100% with what you've said!
Kunal and Meghna can play a very crucial part in Karans life. The reason why Nairan are together is because of Meghnal.
Well that's what I have to say! Hope you enjoyed reading :)


Totally agree with this. Karan needs to be relationships with everyone. Because of Sandhya all of his relationships have been restricted and hindered. He needs to know that he does have more than just Naina in his life. I don't think its healthy for him to be only dependent on Naina. Because ultimately Naina and Karan need to have an equal relationship for that they both need to have their own support systems.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tahitien-moon

yaar it's true they are elder siblings but Karan is an adult and has a wife who is an mature girl😆 and both are mature and it is not pleasant when elders try to stick in to a relationship of a mature younger siblings 😆 and Karan doesn't trust anyone but Naina and her judgment 😆 I do want him to bond with his brother and his babbi 😆 but I just want megnal to be there for nairan as elder siblings and let them know only that they'll support nairan in their bad times and trust their judgment 😆 anyway kunal and meghna needs to concentrate more on their marriage and of themselves cause they too have lot of secrets from eachothers( more on meghna part) and they need to share themselves on a deeper level😆this is the best they can do for Karan and Naina as seing them happy might give more motivation for them to work together to become happy 😆


I don't think Meghna helping build Karan's confidence is sticking into Nairan's relationship. Meghna and Karan have their own relationship. I don't want Karan to only be dependent on Naina... I don't think that's healthy in a marriage. Naina has her family support. Karan also needs to build a separate support system hopefully including Kunal and Daddu. Having that extra support will make him a better partner to Naina in the long run.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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The point is that for time being till karan comes out of all his insecurities only naina should be there with him
And regarding his relationship with his "family" that can happen later
They didn't bothered for him all these years left him on sandy s mercy so know they should leave it to naina to cure him

If all these years they have waited "patiently" for karan to turn "normal" and come back to them i m sure they can wait for some more time for his forgiveness

About meghna i would love her to be there just as a support system but nothing more because ultimately naina does need to get out of her di s shadow and this cannot happen until and unless meghna gives her space to dealt with her problems alone and take her own decision

And till that time she can try and bring her anger in check
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: adhyakumarijha

The point is that for time being till karan comes out of all his insecurities only naina should be there with him


I personally think that's a bad idea. Because that makes Karan too dependent on Naina for security. I don't think that's a healthy relationship. Need is often confused for love but its not the same as love. For me its not about the family spending time with Karan-- its about what's right for Karan to build him up as an individual so that he can be a good life partner to Naina. No offense its just my point of view.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I never knew 'helping' was interfering. :\
Yeah Naina and Karan agreed to the marriage because of the love they have for their elder siblings- Meghnal.
So out of love for their younger siblings, Kunal and Meghna will help and support Naina and Karan.
It's not only Nainas efforts that will get Karan better, yes she's made such a great impact on his life. He smiles more and is able to do things he couldn't before. To feel like he has fully recovered he'll need his whole family.
Meghnas anger always has a reason behind it, she's hurt and angered when , I've mentioned previously, 3 of the most important people in her life are hurt or in trouble or questioned; Sharda, Naina and Kunal.
Meghna doesn't know how Naina feels or that Nainas alright with it because Naina didn't share it with her. I don't know why Naina wanted to hide it away from Meghna because finding something out from someone else and not your own sister isn't the nicest feeling. Yes, Naina will try to explain to Meghna, Meghna won't listen because she feels betrayed and so there will be a small problem
My final point and opinion is that Meghna and Kunal along with the rest of he family can help Karan recover.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: adhyakumarijha

The point is that for time being till karan comes out of all his insecurities only naina should be there with him

And regarding his relationship with his "family" that can happen later
They didn't bothered for him all these years left him on sandy s mercy so know they should leave it to naina to cure him

If all these years they have waited "patiently" for karan to turn "normal" and come back to them i m sure they can wait for some more time for his forgiveness

About meghna i would love her to be there just as a support system but nothing more because ultimately naina does need to get out of her di s shadow and this cannot happen until and unless meghna gives her space to dealt with her problems alone and take her own decision

And till that time she can try and bring her anger in check

this is exactly what I want to say too😆 not just her anger but also she needs to get concentrate more on her marriage giving it her priority without any distractions 😆 same way Naina needs to concentrate thoroughly on her marriage and Karan without distractions too😆 yes they are sisters and brothers but both are independent adults and all can run their lives without being living in eachothers pockets😆 its urgent Naina to come out of her shadow and fight for her marriage and her husband Karan I think whom she is in love with😆 this is the first priority rest can wait as you said they all left poor Karan to his fate waiting so all can wait bit more anyway they all expecting Naina to do her miracles 😆till now so they all can wait some more and give naina karan's wife the responsibility of sorting him out😆 all they can do as a favour is just to encourage her and give their support for whatever step she takes😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: malikakas


I personally think that's a bad idea. Because that makes Karan too dependent on Naina for security. I don't think that's a healthy relationship. Need is often confused for love but its not the same as love. For me its not about the family spending time with Karan-- its about what's right for Karan to build him up as an individual so that he can be a good life partner to Naina. No offense its just my point of view.


Meghna has her own issues to deal with her life is not a bed full of roses right know i think het temper issues and her relationship with kunal should be her
priority

Regarding rest if the family all of them including kunal and nirmalaa hv intentionally or unintentionally hurt karan alot they didn't bothered all these years so know i don't think there involvement will matter much

I agree that karan needs to build up his relationship with everybody but before that he needs to build up a relationship with himself he has to stop thinking that being karan is paap and i think only naina is capable of making him believe in that

So yes for the time being karan should remain with naian and try build up himself then only he will able to make things right and look aftet naina
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: adhyakumarijha


Meghna has her own issues to deal with her life is not a bed full of roses right know i think het temper issues and her relationship with kunal should be her
priority

Regarding rest if the family all of them including kunal and nirmalaa hv intentionally or unintentionally hurt karan alot they didn't bothered all these years so know i don't think there involvement will matter much

I agree that karan needs to build up his relationship with everybody but before that he needs to build up a relationship with himself he has to stop thinking that being karan is paap and i think only naina is capable of making him believe in that

So yes for the time being karan should remain with naian and try build up himself then only he will able to make things right and look aftet naina

I think Meghna's issues aren't anything that she can't help with others too. No one is perfect. But we all have to manage to deal with our issues and help others. I don't want Meghna to drop everything to help Karan. She can still build her relationship with Kunal. But little things here and there to give him confidence will go a long way for Karan. Particularly after she expresses the fact that what happened to Naina was wrong. For Karan to see that Meghna still believes in him would be a big boost. Plus her helping with Karan goes a long way to deal with her main issue in the Chauhan house which is NK's actions.

Kunal has hurt Karan but he's also felt hurt by Karan. We've seen points where Kunal has tried to forge a relationship with Karan and Karan has pushed him away and we've seen the reverse. They are both responsible. I don't blame Nirmala or Kunal for anything. Its Sandhya that is the main culprit causing misunderstandings between them.

Karan needs to build his confidence and he needs his confidence. Naina is the best person at helping him but she can't be the only person. Because that will create a dependent relationship between Naina and Karan. I guess I don't really like relationships built on gratitude... I don't think they work in the long run. Because eventually it brings in resentment. I don't want Karan's love for Naina to be clouded with too much indebtedness. Naina should get some credit... but the main credit should go to Karan. Karan needs to feel empowered.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Being an elder sibling myself, I don't think I can keep away from my younger one's life even if I'm filled with my own problems, its innate nature of elder siblings to protect their younger ones and to be there for them even when unasked. Nairan are living in a joint family where people won't live their own lives live someone else isn't living with them, whole family gets involved in every little thing that happens in a joint family, its too natural.

We can't put the blame on Kunal for the bro's having a bad relationship, Kunal doesn't even seem to know whats the actual problem with Karan, so many times he tried to hug or touch his lil brother but got pushed away without proper reasoning, these brothers love each other too much, Karan stays away to protect Kunal while Kunal can't seem to stay away even after getting pushed away so many times. Now I want these two to have proper bromance.

Naina is still too young to handle all the complex situations on her own, it might seem on the surface that she's doing well alone but with support life always becomes easier. Meghna can be the strong support system in Naina's life. Again, Karan would feel really bad seeing Meghna's reaction and so if she'll have a cordial relation with him again it'll help him in healing real fast as it would mean that Naina is permitted to be with him. The question is Naina might help Karan in healing but if Meghna and Sharda still doesn't want her to be with Karan, will she go against them?? I don't think so... we haven't yet got any hint that Naina loves Karan

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