Does anyone else feel a little bad for NK? - Page 2

Originally posted by: hosnraj

though you are right at your point but there are such ppl and trust me I saw some real close...

as Malika said his lack of identity is the worst thin, and that makes him a 4 yr old, he never got the confidence to take a correct decision, because maybe Dadu never parsed him. I will explain...Maybe he took many wrong decision, and dadu scolded him, but then Dadu never corrected them or gave him another chance to make the same decision again, even if there was a little good in that idea Dadu just scolded him for the bad, and this mad him worse, actually some ppl are less mature and so they need to be behaved like a kid no mater how old they are, to boost their confidence. Now when NK saw no mater what he does Dadu don't like it, so he started to take Sandy's ideas hoping they will please Dadu, and Sandy influenced him in such a way that she makes him believe they are right and Dadu is wrong...

Exactly Raj... it was a slow process. Just the same way it was a slow process to destroy Karan's confidence. It doesn't happen in one day. Even though NK was older when Sandy came into their lives.. his latent insecurities were very powerful.

Like you said Sandy influenced him in a way that made him "want" to feel like he is right and his dad is wrong. So now his biggest thing is wanting to prove his father wrong. That's why he is so desperate to prove Sharda wrong.

Now Nk does knows what he did to Sharda is wrong, but now he did it cause he is jealous of her and want to make her bad in Dadu's eyes, that too, is not the whole truth, the thing is he things Sharda is bad, and he want's to show Dadu her true face and this too is fed in her head by Sandy..🤢

and he is not doing anything in business other than wrong things..Dadu is still managing the business and NK don't take any decision or sign papers nor he is given any major responsibility..he just goes and comes like a kid who just joined family business and following his dad to office...😆

Exactly. Remember in the beginning scene when Kunal came back home the reporters instigated him by saying NK is just a puppet in his father's hands.

Originally posted by: malikakas

The family wouldn't have started out feeling as if Karan was good for nothing right from the start. That was a slow process.

So NK "feels" as if he has given Karan every opportunity to succeed and "feels" Karan has squandered them by not completing any task. Which is the same thing Dadu has said to NK many times. Dadu has given NK opportunities but always on his terms. He doesn't let NK sign the cheques... so ultimately Dadu still holds all the power. NK gives Karan opportunities but also on "his" terms. Even in NK's mind, Karan's marriage to Naina is also an opportunity given to him by NK (if only he knew how right he is 😆).

But even in the dance competition.. despite the fact that NK believes the worst of Karan.. he was very happy when Karan was performing well because he doesn't want him to succeed.

Originally posted by: -Namita-

The moment NK doesn't feel dependent, he will come around. My point, why does he need Sandy now. He has Kunal and Meghna both. Educated and business people.

Guess, will have to wait and watch.

Originally posted by: hosnraj

so true Malika...I am saying the same thing...and I would say NK does have capability, and see you just gave an example...

During wedding, Dadu said he is giving NK a chance so he can take decision..well NK did mess up badly but he did take the best decision of his life and the best decision for Karan, to get Naina as his wife, and he believes it's a good decision,(lol I don't think even that idiot don't realize just how great thing he did),. ok now no one saw it as a good decision, and dadu scolded him for the mess he made, well I agree he deserves it for the mess he made but out of everything he did a good thing and for that Dadu could at least tell him that you made correct decision but you did a wrong thing, Dadu could have explained to him what he did good and what he did bad incited of making him bad..or even later seeing Karan happy with Naina, Dadu could have once parsed him for making the decision or give him the credit for bringing Naina as bahu..

I know he is a grown man but he is just not mature yet and wants that attention and parse from his dad, and it will help a lot in fixing NK...If NK sees Dadu is liking him, he will slowly stop being dependent on Sandy and take some decision on his own...

Originally posted by: -Namita-

I think she wanted to select girls for the brother's herself but that was foiled by Dadu. NK, in his arrogance ruined her plan further by getting Naina married to Karan.

Originally posted by: malikakas

🤣 If only everyone praised NK for how right his decision was to marry Karan to Naina. I totally agree dadu should've started complimenting NK for picking such a good life partner for Karan. Someone who is bringing Karan out of his shell. If Dadu did that NK would've forgotten all his Sharda revenge crap.

Like you said. NK is just not mature yet. Karan's failures were caused by Sandy. But NK had his own failures and it would've been equally hard to always feel like you can't live up to your father.

Originally posted by: malikakas

This part is interesting because I have no idea what Sandy wanted. She didn't use her manipulative powers to end Kunal and Meghna's relationship which she very easily could've. At some places she seemed happy Kunal was getting married to Meghna. Also she convinced Kunal to give his consent to Karan's wedding. If she wanted to she could've gotten Kunal to stop the wedding.

I think Sandy thought she could control the girls because they were small town girls. I think she felt it would be easier to manipulate girls like that same as how she did to Nirmala.

Originally posted by: hosnraj

🤣 her plan b badly backfired and now the girls will set fire on her back...🤣

Originally posted by: malikakas

Yup her plan backfired and she doesn't even realize it. 🤣

Originally posted by: -farzana

totally agree with you!
There is a big difference in NK & Karan's situation.
NK was a grown adult -- was he really that dumb to fall into Sandy's words. It's his own loss for not valuing all the things he has instead he's too busy blaming his father and family for what more he could've achieved. I really wonder at times what actually made him change so much -- he seemed to have been a nice guy and a good husband to Nirmala.

In Karan's case his family somewhere just neglected him, if they had supported him and stood by his side then I'm sure he would've got somewhere in life too. Too bad he fell in the wrong hands and Sandy just ruined it all for him.